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ELUSIVE1 -> friends of friends (11/20/2007 1:40:37 PM)

Just curious if other submissives have this issue--I get contacted by Dominants, this site and others, that claim they know my friends...granted at alt you can see the friends network--not sure about b.com...but I will get emails from Dominants telling me that Master Jerry recommended they talk with me, or Rusty said I was a painslut...yes they are both very well known among lifestylers in the s/e region and have publicly scened with me.Don't these guys that contact me know, that I am going to hit speed dial, or at the very least i/m and ask my friends if they ideed did tell these men to contact me.????The very minute I find out the guy is full of b/s- I block him anyway......




mya75 -> RE: friends of friends (11/20/2007 1:45:14 PM)

I had that happen a week ago lol but funny thing was the guy said "Jose" told him about me ROFL I dont know any JOSE lol he backtracked but by then I had him blocked...




IamJustMe2C -> RE: friends of friends (11/20/2007 3:09:11 PM)

Ive had my name used a few times to get other people to meet them like they have for you. They did use the speed dial and before they blocked they they were actually stupid enough to give out there home number when asked for it not there cell number. LOL Home numbers and personal e-mail addy's are the fastest way to find people. Try to get those next time before you block them. Then go have fun. More then likely if you call at 2 am there wife will answer and if a man calls for you and pretends he is gay just think of how much more the shit will hit the fan then if he is cheating on her with another woman. I never said I was nice LOL
By the way Im another Rusty




SunNMoon -> RE: friends of friends (11/20/2007 3:17:12 PM)

I had something similar happen. I was on here awhile ago now, and I was still dating the ex and all I mentioned in my profile was “I have a boyfriend.” This guy kept emailing once a week with “Your master said you should play with me and my sub.” One no master, and two my ex wasn’t even on this site. I did toy with him through, asking for details and everything. He ended up back tracking a  lot.




ELUSIVE1 -> RE: friends of friends (11/20/2007 3:55:12 PM)

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ORIGINAL: IamJustMe2C

Ive had my name used a few times to get other people to meet them like they have for you. They did use the speed dial and before they blocked they they were actually stupid enough to give out there home number when asked for it not there cell number. LOL Home numbers and personal e-mail addy's are the fastest way to find people. Try to get those next time before you block them. Then go have fun. More then likely if you call at 2 am there wife will answer and if a man calls for you and pretends he is gay just think of how much more the shit will hit the fan then if he is cheating on her with another woman. I never said I was nice LOL
By the way Im another Rusty
too funny--there is always a next time.....nice to meet you Rusty




LuckyAlbatross -> RE: friends of friends (11/20/2007 8:59:45 PM)

I don't remember names well enough and am on enough boards that it could be very well Mary Jane from dom sub extreme on yahoo who saw my post and wanted to say hi.  It doesn't matter to me unless they try to make it really obvious that I SHOULD BE impressed by it. 




slaverosebeauty -> RE: friends of friends (11/20/2007 9:02:45 PM)

I think it happens to most of us at one time or another; I had one troll a few months ago when MJ an I were together say that MJ had contacted him and TOLD him to contact me saying that he would be 'training' me until further notice an that I was suppose to obey without question. {rofl}  Considering that I have an IQ an I DO question my partner at times, I knew it was a troll, plus, when I called MJ {just on the wild hair that he DID tell someone to contact me} he just laughed. 
 
If a given partner asks someone to cotnact me, they have ALWAYS given me the 'heads up' or they have given that person something to say to me to let me know that they are legit.




sambamanslilgirl -> RE: friends of friends (11/20/2007 9:21:57 PM)

there was a "dom" here posing as Daddy's friend who contacted me claiming that He knew him. actually this guy only knew the basic info posted on Daddy's profile. however when i started questioning how he knew Daddy or other questions, this guy's story began to fall apart in seconds ...especially when he told me that Daddy said it was ok for me to show myself on cam.  he was immediately blocked on CM and yahoo after telling him Daddy's friends didn't know about this side to His life or me at all. 

be careful 




ELUSIVE1 -> RE: friends of friends (11/21/2007 1:02:30 PM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: LuckyAlbatross

I don't remember names well enough and am on enough boards that it could be very well Mary Jane from dom sub extreme on yahoo who saw my post and wanted to say hi.  It doesn't matter to me unless they try to make it really obvious that I SHOULD BE impressed by it. 
I am bad with names too---I just have an issue with men that get your attention using friends names-only to find out those people have no clue who is using thier names....




LuckyAlbatross -> RE: friends of friends (11/21/2007 2:31:22 PM)

Well anyone who thinks they have claim on their name in the real world is fooling themselves.  Of course it's rude and inappropriate for someone to misuse it, but that never stops people.

And obviously since everyone knows there's no real claim on it, anyone who gets approached by another using that line knows it's meaningless from the start.




RRafe -> RE: friends of friends (11/21/2007 3:07:59 PM)

It's pretty chickshit to try to get to you through your friends.

Let the friends make the reccomendations.

Just ignore the rest, you know what they are.




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