liminalRapture -> RE: Creative profile names (11/20/2007 8:50:06 PM)
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I changed mine a couple of times. I used to have a 'lady' in my nick, and then the amount of men who thought I must be a Dom because of the 'lady' and either wanted me to top them or spent time lecturing me. Then I had a pretty political nick for a while, but after living with someone for a year (and let's be honest, the 2006 election--yeah!) I realized I'm not defining myself by my political work as much as i used to. Mine is pretentious, I know. But liminal has become one of my two favorite words--that sense of those moments that define categorization, those place in between the categories that don't fit. It is SO what I yearn for. And, this probably sounds odd, but when I'm totally out there with being into big words, then I'm a much nicer person. I can't play dumb, but I also don't have anything to prove. I can just relax.
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