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fsub4use -> Non Play Emails, Woman to woman (11/22/2007 5:32:03 AM)

Ladies,
i am wondering about emails You get from other women.... i ask because i like Dommes, don't really want to play with You, but i find that i have a lot in common with Dommes, as women.  i wonder how it is for You to receive just friendly woman to Woman emails from submissive or slave women?  i make it a habit to send at least one email to S/someone i don't know every day as a way to express my appreciation for what is in my world and sometimes that email is to someone on these boards... i have gotten some lovely and positive responses back.

generally, are these kinds of emails between W/women comforting, pleasant for You or would it be just another email that one has to "handle"? 

Thanks in advance...
fsub

... you are weeping for that which has been your delight...
Khalil Gibran



yourMissTress -> RE: Non Play Emails, Woman to woman (11/22/2007 5:42:23 AM)

A friendly email is never something to be handled.  A word of relation or appreciation for something written on the boards or in a profile brings a welcome smile to my face.  I have made many friends here on CM in just that way.
 
After reading my email this morning, I wish that there had been one email like you described instead of the 10 emails with nude pictures and offers for nude pictures....UGH.




MamaDomme -> RE: Non Play Emails, Woman to woman (11/22/2007 7:46:53 AM)

I have exchanged many emails with other women-- not on a "play" basis, but instead we exchange ideas and thoughts.

I find it refreshing to speak with other Dommes and female submissives alike.  I've made several friends here.



MaamJay -> RE: Non Play Emails, Woman to woman (11/22/2007 7:51:01 AM)

Ditto! I really appreciate those sort of emails!
Maam Jay aka violet[A]



SpielMitMir -> RE: Non Play Emails, Woman to woman (11/22/2007 8:14:26 AM)

Once in a blue moon I get emails from other females. A couple of them have been along the lines about play time. Not to long ago I read a email from another Domme. She was very nice. She just wanted to say hello and ask me a question.

On other boards and groups I am joined. A lot of the ladies on there believe they must disrespect each other to prove who is in more "control". So its always a breath of fresh air when I can talk to someone with the same interest. Without them trying to use it against me later on in life.



laurell3 -> RE: Non Play Emails, Woman to woman (11/22/2007 11:08:46 AM)

I get those often, appreciate them and always answer them.  The emails I get from posters here attempting to argue any points I made here in the mailbox, on the other hand, I do not at all appreciate.

Happy holiday ladies!



Oumae -> RE: Non Play Emails, Woman to woman (11/22/2007 11:17:48 AM)

I'm quite happy to get mails like this and have sent a few myself too.  I don't see collarme as just a pick up joint but as somewhere one can express themselves with likeminded people.

Oumae



canupleaseme -> RE: Non Play Emails, Woman to woman (11/22/2007 11:37:15 AM)

Im on here to make friends and learn so I love these kinds of emails whatever the orientation, that said I don't always like it from male submissives as most of them have hidden agendas, its nice when the genuine friendship ones filter through though [:)]



RumpusParable -> RE: Non Play Emails, Woman to woman (11/22/2007 12:39:01 PM)

Depends on the letter.  And, I guess I should add in, I don't feel any particular connection to others with similar genitals.  I tend to find there are males I relate strongly with and females I relate strongly with, but that someone else being female doesn't mean we'll have a lick in common in our lives, experiences, manner of addressing the world, what have you.

So if the person contacting me is someone I enjoy hearing from and feel some connection with, male or female, then it brightens my day.

If they're not one of those sorts to me, then their letter may register a null response in me or a negative one depending on what it says and how they seem.

As to my specific experiences so far with getting such emails from female subs/slaves here, there have been some exceptions that I've enjoyed a bit of conversing with but most have made me roll my eyes when I read their notes.  Either desperate and clingy and unrealistic or just plain empty-headed.   It's no different than receiving from the males:  most the notes are rubbish, once in a while you meet someone good to talk with.



thetammyjo -> RE: Non Play Emails, Woman to woman (11/22/2007 12:45:00 PM)

Hey I always respond to polite and have several ladies I chat with on and off.

I had one woman who felt the to tell me about her new experiences and ask me what she should be doing as a new slave. That was frankly weird because it is my strong opinion that the person to ask about such things is your owner/dominant/mistress not a stranger.



LadyPact -> RE: Non Play Emails, Woman to woman (11/22/2007 12:48:07 PM)

I tend to enjoy the emails I get from females, whether they be Domme or sub.  There have been many times that a friendly email has brightened My day.  I've actually had some good dialogues started through the email exchanges here.



LaMistressa -> RE: Non Play Emails, Woman to woman (11/22/2007 12:55:45 PM)

I like getting positive emails from anyone -- male, female, submissive, dominant. If have something nice to say, send it. 



LadyHibiscus -> RE: Non Play Emails, Woman to woman (11/22/2007 2:29:37 PM)

I love getting positive and friendly emails, and I write to folks all the time to comment favorably on something they said, or even if I like their new avatar pic.  We don't spend enough time saying kind things, IMO, and not too many folks resent friendliness.



MasterFireMaam -> RE: Non Play Emails, Woman to woman (11/22/2007 3:26:01 PM)

These days, it's nice to get a friendly email from anyone who doesn't role play. So, email me. *chuckle* Sometimes subs and slaves, usually men, email me with, "Master( or Ma'am), may I approach." I answer, "Yes, if you can drop the crap and come at me like a real person." Rarely do they ever write back. I completely ignore those who approach me as Mistress or Syr.

Master Fire (Ma'am!)



Gwynvyd -> RE: Non Play Emails, Woman to woman (11/22/2007 3:58:54 PM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: LaMistressa

I like getting positive emails from anyone -- male, female, submissive, dominant. If have something nice to say, send it. 


I feel the same way.. when ever in the blue moon I am looking at profiles and I see a very well written one I will let the person know.. I like making friends.. male, female, what have you. Dom/me or sub. It doesnt matter a good person is a good person.

I even have a request for folks to e-mail me for friendship on my profile.

I love getting those emails. *smiles*

Anything to break up the "can I lick, bite, fondle, do other unmentionable things... to your ( place in given body part here)"

*smiles*

Gwyn



Gwynvyd -> RE: Non Play Emails, Woman to woman (11/22/2007 4:02:57 PM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: MasterFireMaam

These days, it's nice to get a friendly email from anyone who doesn't role play. So, email me. *chuckle* Sometimes subs and slaves, usually men, email me with, "Master( or Ma'am), may I approach." I answer, "Yes, if you can drop the crap and come at me like a real person." Rarely do they ever write back. I completely ignore those who approach me as Mistress or Syr.

Master Fire (Ma'am!)



I know how you feel... Gods why do so many insist on calling people they dont know are just now saying Hi to Mistress? Egads. Drives me nuts!

It took one of my subs 8 years and the other 7 years to get to the point of calling me that.

Ma'am works.. it is respectful and it doesnt assume I am your anything.

Plus with it being part of your name.. you'd think they would address it.

Then there are the "Doms" who just call me slut or bitch as a greeting.. *chuckles* gotta love that.

Hmm maybe I need more Turkey I am not sedated enough.

Gwyn



MsIncontrol -> RE: Non Play Emails, Woman to woman (11/22/2007 4:09:52 PM)

I welcome all email...from other women and men...as long as they are sincere and do not have a nude picture attached (unless I request one).  I never met a person with too many friends.



mistressaries -> RE: Non Play Emails, Woman to woman (11/22/2007 4:54:23 PM)

Hi...I have to agree with most of the responses to this...I find it refreshing to get an email from women that just want to chat or share things about the lifestyle. Domme or sub, it is just nice to have a sounding board sometimes or just someone who can have a conversation.




PlayfulGoddess -> RE: Non Play Emails, Woman to woman (11/23/2007 5:44:16 AM)

I sometimes send emails (brief notes) to people I have NO intention of meeting, nor any physical/sexual attraction to.
 
Generally, it's a polite comment on some of their photos I have run across on the "browse photos" section, or when I happen to scan their profile/pic when it appears across the header of the page.

I sometimes scope out the "competition", ie other Dommes/Switches, to see what they have to say, etc and comment to them about something interesting that they wrote in their profile.

I think MOST people are not offended by those types of emails, and take it in the spirit it was intended.

I generally appreciate pleasant commentaries on my pics/profile, or postings, and really couldn't see myself as being offended if someone were to send one.

Hope you all had a great Thanksgiving, and an even better weekend!




GoddessDustyGold -> RE: Non Play Emails, Woman to woman (11/23/2007 10:25:36 AM)

I don't have a problem with it at all.  I exchange email with some of the Ladies on these boards on a semi-regular basis.  I have spoken to a few on the phone.  We help each other and/or we just enjoy being more than casual board acquaintances.  I have also had mail exchanges and spoken on the telephone wiht a few fem subs.  Not a problem for Me.
I should also mention that the same holds for male subs and Doms.  Not nearly as common for the most obvious reasons, but I don't limit "friendships" to the female gender.  



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