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fsub4use -> GPS chip (11/22/2007 6:38:59 PM)

i was chatting with a guy - first chat - He told me that if i was His sub/slave, He would want to put a GPS chip in my body or at least in a necklace for me to wear.

i said no that this smacks of lack of trust to me.  and then i wished Him good luck on His search, and i was glad that we found out early that we wouldnt be compatible... Frankly, the question made me wonder about His ability to be a Dom...and then i wondered if it wouldnt just be another way to humiliate or control me.... and then, my head started spinning.

Anyway, what is Your opinion about GPS chips... would You use them?  if so, why? when




laurell3 -> RE: GPS chip (11/22/2007 7:09:34 PM)

Hell yes.  I get lost everywhere.  I'd love to be able to call him for directions from my GPS chip!

Seriously, it may seem a bit bizarre and severe, but I wouldn't have an issue with someone I'm in a comitted relationship with knowing where I am at all times.   That assumes I know them and know they aren't some crazy stalker. The problem would be if the relationship fails what do you do about the chip?




youngpupforBCms -> RE: GPS chip (11/22/2007 7:34:05 PM)

Hmm, well first off i know alot of parents are putting these sorta things in like thier kids, watches or cellphone or other things that they commonly carry with them wherever they go, I dont know of any specific information beyond that.  Now as for having something like that on me or carrying something like that, I can see why some dom's or dommes migth want to require such a thing, but if so i think it smacks of a total lack of trust in the relationship and thats key in my opinion because relationships are all about trust, and even more so with relationships regarding this lifestyle.  My self I would draw having myself tagged with a gps a hard limit, because if you can't trust me then how can i trust you? and thats how I see it.  That and if its in you, or an item of yours just how do you go about getting it out exactly to ?




AnimusRex -> RE: GPS chip (11/22/2007 8:14:44 PM)

fast reply- The concept sounds to My ears like one of those things that is wickedly erotic in concept "wow, she is tracked like an animal! hunted like prey!"

There is a whole section of BDSM involving the eroticism of objectification, of being stripped of identity and treated like furniture, or a beast.

Which is highly erotic and interesting, at least for a while- But I always have to wonder how long it would be before that sexy play became boring, the newness having worn off. So like after a year, would He still find it erotic and scintillating to jump on the computer and find out that His slave is just at that moment stopping at the AM-PM to get gas? And then track her as she stops at the dry cleaners, the post office....? Sounds like a pain in the ass to Me.

That sort of micromanaging of anyone, employees, child or slave, places a heavier burden on the manager than the managed.




daddyncherry -> RE: GPS chip (11/22/2007 9:36:39 PM)

In short...i think it is totally hot and would love to have something like that. The only problem is i don't go very far away from the house so it's already kinda easy to figure out where i am if i'm not home.

Still, the idea of something like this is one of my personal hot buttons. i don't look at it as a lack of trust, but maybe that's just my perspective. i am also one of those ppl who goes well out of her way to make sure there is nothing open to interpretation, hence no reason not to trust.....

The concept of objectification i guess is what does it, the precious property thing, being open and available anytime anywhere. It would kind of be like a car...you'd put GPS in one of those....some ppl have them in pets (a different sort of thing but similar)....then of course UMs....it seems like the important things are tracked closely..the things you don't care about as much, that aren't a big deal, those things wouldn't be closely watched (like i can't see someone putting one of these things on a pair of shoes-unless they were ultra expensive LOL)




junecleaver -> RE: GPS chip (11/22/2007 10:12:53 PM)

It doesn't necessarily smack of lack of trust.  However, if someone brought up tagging me with a GPS tracker within a few hours of talking to me, I would consider them a HNG.

If my Dominant put a GPS tracker on me after a week of being together, it might have made me question his trust.  But at this point, deeper into the relationship, I am comfortable with almost anything and even find the idea kind of hot.




tulitukka -> RE: GPS chip (11/22/2007 10:30:33 PM)


quote:

ORIGINAL: fsub4use

i was chatting with a guy - first chat - He told me that if i was His sub/slave, He would want to put a GPS chip in my body or at least in a necklace for me to wear.

i said no that this smacks of lack of trust to me. and then i wished Him good luck on His search, and i was glad that we found out early that we wouldnt be compatible... Frankly, the question made me wonder about His ability to be a Dom...and then i wondered if it wouldnt just be another way to humiliate or control me.... and then, my head started spinning.

Anyway, what is Your opinion about GPS chips... would You use them? if so, why? when


I don't use them, I don't currently find them hot. But...

I can see two very different reasons for a dom to use such a device. The first one is lack of trust and lack of maturity on the dom's side. The second one is the hot one. Humiliating and controlling your slave even more totally by not giving her any privacy - the best would be to attach this thing to a locked collar or other locked in item, with only the dom having a key. I can see how it might be hot for the slave. What I don't see is why it would be hot for the dom. [:-] though I'm sure some others can see benefits to such control.




FangsNfeet -> RE: GPS chip (11/22/2007 11:00:39 PM)

The Dr told us that our first born is going to be a girl.

You tell me what any loving, careing, and protective father would do with a GPS chip?




Padriag -> RE: GPS chip (11/22/2007 11:16:03 PM)

If you live in the US, your cell phone already has a GPS chip in it and some phones come with a "parental" option that will allow you to track the whereabouts of other specific cell phones.  Likewise, many cars are now equipped with a GPS chip, if you have something like OnStar, you have one.  Many newer laptops have GPS chips.

Personally, I don't find the idea erotic or useful.  But neither, in an age of such technology, do I find the idea surprising or a "red flag".  With no other information, I would attribute the idea in the OP to that of a technofetishist dominant and nothing more.




Estring -> RE: GPS chip (11/23/2007 12:11:08 AM)

Might be hard to swallow a cellphone.[;)]




michelleryder -> RE: GPS chip (11/23/2007 1:27:10 AM)

I love the idea!!




EarthGoddess52 -> RE: GPS chip (11/23/2007 1:45:28 AM)

It might smack of a lack of trust, but if you give your Dominant a reason NOT to trust you, then measures should be taken including the possibility of dismissal.  The trouble with GPS chips on cell phones or necklaces is that it only helps to locate the cell phone or necklace.  If you are separated from the item, it is useless.  It would have to be embedded into the sub's skin, but that wouldn't be much different from microchipping a pet.

And the point on micromanagement: it IS much more burdensome on the Manager than on the managed.  Again, it seems like a Trust issue.  I have better things to do with my time that keep track of my submissive every second of every day.  I thought the purpose of a slave (among other things) was to make MY life easier!!




EarthGoddess52 -> RE: GPS chip (11/23/2007 1:58:37 AM)

It is possible to turn off the GPS feature in cell phones, except for the 911 service provider.  I hate the idea of just one more Big Brother watching me (as if they can't see everything I do already)




RumpusParable -> RE: GPS chip (11/23/2007 2:18:57 AM)

I'd not wear such for anyone as I'm totally a paranoid type on such things.  The government having my DNA on record makes me nervous and the slow move towards chipping in the military makes me glad my spouse will be out sooner than it will ever be implemented.

But that's me.

As a general comment I would say it depends on the person's motivation.  It *could* be a lack of trust thing... or it could be just an erotic or other sort of game.

From my personal view from a point of being a dominant, I could see myself doing this with a slave for fun for a bit.  Not out of lack of trust -I wouldn't bother with them if I felt I needed to keep any serious tabs on them- but for the gadget factor.  I'm really, really into gadgets.  Like, aroused by technology sort of into.  So I may get a kick out of it for a little while.




audioguy58 -> RE: GPS chip (11/23/2007 3:08:13 AM)

This has been one of my favorite fantasies from WAAAAY back (1991). I especially like the idea of being "geofenced", not allowed to travel outside a specific boundary, with my Domme notified by a text message to her phone if I do. The geofence boundaries could be programmed to move depending on time of day.

Actually, there is no such thing as an "implantable GPS chip". That's still in the realm of sciece fiction. The device would have to take the form of a locked-on collar, bracelet, or anklet.

There was a company called Wherify Wireless that had a wristwatch-type GPS locator. The product is no longer on the market.





Viridana -> RE: GPS chip (11/23/2007 3:17:35 AM)

The idea in itself is a good one... theoratically. But most ordinary people have ordinary routine lifes that I don't see tracking being interesting at all... home, work, grocery store, gas station, all at very predictable times. Yay, that's fun to track!




wisteriaV -> RE: GPS chip (11/23/2007 5:42:49 AM)

We use them on our animals. Master knows me so the gps chip isnt an issue.




daddyncherry -> RE: GPS chip (11/23/2007 9:15:34 AM)

i just wanted to add a small thing....since i am not of the thought that this is a lack of trust thing, but more of a protecting your precious property thing.

What would be fun/sweet/romantic if you had one of these that was on a collar or something would be that you could surprise your slave while she/he was out somewhere...pop in and have coffee/a meal or just a surprise visit....i think it's sweet and hot.

Edited to add: i don't like the idea of it being a micromanaging thing, or being extra work for the M type...more of an extra little security measure.




RumpusParable -> RE: GPS chip (11/23/2007 10:59:25 AM)

^The surprise/sweetness angle is a good one.  Using it to be able to surprise them with a drop in for lunch or at a store they are at would be a nice game.




Stephann -> RE: GPS chip (11/23/2007 11:24:49 AM)

One could say the exact same thing about face slapping.

If done from a well of insecurity, misogyny, or rage, it's a sure sign of a piss poor excuse for a dominant.

If done within a trusting, loving, well established relationship with ample communication, it can be a tool to enforce desires, set boundaries, and turn the slave into a dripping, hungry puddle of obedience.

Stephan




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