thetammyjo -> RE: Anyone wanna try my quiz? (11/23/2007 3:33:20 PM)
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ORIGINAL: slavekal Thanks to all. This is fun. Tammy Jo, I think you may be looking for a little too much subtlety between answers. For quizzes like this one, you go with the answer that is closest to your feelings. Is there that much difference between maybe trying something once in your life and being turned off to it entirely? Grooming habits are not all about leg shaving, but I used that as a catch all. Shaving legs, armpits, the "bikini" area are all included in what I was trying to get at. I disagree a little on 26. As long as you are not doing anything sexual or removing clothing, I do not think you need the consent of the public to behave in an outrageous way. The people around may not consent to interracial dating, but that does not mean two different race people can't hold hands. Same for gay dating. The question was meant to gauge a woman's level of nerve, her outrageousness and desire to shock people. I am not saying whether that is good or bad, but it is important info to have. Not sure I follow your meaning on 29. How does life not cooperate in one's dating life? But again, don't think too deeply. Just look at what you are doing now or have done in the recent past. I was going for a woman's actual history as opposed to her ideal fantasy. I find the past is a better indicator of future behavior than fantasy life is. For #29 I was referring to my actual history. Could I try to push a guys buttons and manipulate him into submitting? Sure, I did that in high school before I learned bout safe, sane, and consensual, before I started working on my own survivor issues. Now I don't manipulate, I'm straight forward. If I like a guy (or gal) I say "Hey, ever hear of BDSM? I'm a dom and I am interest in getting to know you better." That's how nervy I am (in relationship to #26 too) but it has nothing to do with lack of informed consent. For me, lack of informed consent is the biggest turn off in the universe.
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