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RE: failure - 11/24/2007 12:49:30 AM   
TemptingNviceSub


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RE: failure - 11/24/2007 9:37:12 AM   
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ORIGINAL: CuteIrishM4F

Thanks all of you for the responses. Just to clarify, I recieved news of this other submissive last night and posted what I wrote here into my journal right away. I erased something very sweet I had written about her in June and replaced it. I didn't know the date wouldn't change when I did that.

As for the advice I recieved, thanks. It means a lot. I do not really know why I posted this to a thread Miss Magnolia. I think I was looking, as Laurell suggested, to get my thoughts down in word form. I always struggle to do that, words do not come easily to me. Why put it out there for judgement? I maybe needed this advice, or equally this mockery. I do not know. 

What I have decided, however, is to delete my account and give up my search of several years, once I say goodbye to a few friends. I just cannot do it anymore. All the best.

a. 


You will be back. Trust me.  You can't just give up on your kinky side.  Whether or not you decide to only search in real life (which is perfectly fine also) or on sites like this is the only uncertainty.

Sorry to hear about your heartache - it happens and you will grow from it.  That's why online relationships can be more dangerous. For all you knew, one weekend in person with the woman would have been enough to know she was not for you.  Can't focus on what 'could' have been.

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RE: failure - 11/24/2007 10:10:35 AM   
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ORIGINAL: shootingstar67

online relationships are so intense. I couldn't let go of my Gorean master for three years. i cyber stalkd him. But eventually I traced his domain name to another and was able to discover he was married.

I had blamed myself for failing as a kajira and he had blamed  me. Finally was able to heal and realize it wasn't. I  could let go when I understood what happened



So basically you wasted three years on a married man.


He is still highly respected in the Halsoft Gorean Community. He still has a large Harem. He is still active.Everyone loves him. He is doing it to other kajira. It is sick. I told a Master he was married and provided proof but that Master had a falling out with him and nobody else believed me that he was married and I just gave up and moved on because I had wasted enough time with a group of people who really could not care less if kajira were being hurt anyway.

what you don't know might hurt you. Some people are very good at fooling you and everyone else too.

People that think online is not real are wrong-it is very real. It is just really more dangerous. Offline It would have took five mins for me to figure out he was married 


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RE: failure - 11/24/2007 3:57:28 PM   
hamletthedane2


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Status: offline 		A basic human fraily is that it's fairly easy to fool oneself. It's usually easier to believe what we want to be true than what we hope isn't so. The upside is that once you become aware of that and resist the tendency to fool yourself, it becomes difficult for others to fool you.

At least, I hope that's true. I guess I can't tell anymore.

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RE: failure - 11/24/2007 5:47:21 PM   
Baroque


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Status: offline 		Hello CuteIrish,

Why "failure"? Its understandable you have regrets and sorrow, but why call it failure?
Maybe they failed you?  There are those who use 'dominance' to cover a weakness ( alchoholism, ineptitude, who knows?)
or harbor some danger ( swindlers, the violent, deceitful, unstable ?)  - it may not be you.
Think better luck next time and just some experience learned. 

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RE: failure - 11/24/2007 9:08:01 PM   
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ORIGINAL: AAkasha

You will be back. Trust me. 
Akasha



Ma'am, you are very correct.
 
We all come back to something for a reason.
 
Sir's devoted property

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RE: failure - 11/24/2007 9:15:05 PM   
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RE: failure - 11/24/2007 9:18:07 PM   
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Status: offline 		Very profound Rafe, and very true.

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RE: failure - 11/24/2007 9:19:44 PM   
RRafe


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ORIGINAL: MissMagnolia

Very profound Rafe, and very true.


I had to kill mine to live.

And I have to keep killing him, every time he rears his ugly head.

It never really ends-but it gets easier over time-you forget.

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