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Rastimmipitwax -> RE: ageplay: how is it done? (11/24/2007 4:07:35 PM)

You must crawl before you walk.
You must walk before you run.
You must run before you dance.

Don't try to be an Olympic athlete when you have tried none of these things before, and don't know what you are doing. Learn each thing on its own, put them together when you are at least competent in each area.



Invictus754 -> RE: ageplay: how is it done? (11/24/2007 6:14:10 PM)

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ORIGINAL: CuriousLord
Enacted fantascies can rub off as true desires which might lead one to uncomforting ends.  This goes for ageplay as well as other roleplays.  (I mean, people here go from mild sadomasochism at some point in their life to pretty extreme.)
I'd just like to invite you to consider the possible psycological consquences on yourself beforehand.

 
OMG --- you didn't just imply that if you ageplay you will become a pedophile, did you? 
 
If that is the case, we better get all those X-boxes and Nintendos with all those shoot ‘em up games out of the living room, cuz a whole generation of kids are going to become CRAZED KILLING MANIACS! 
 
And PARENTS – ohmygodohmygodohmygod…they wash their babies NAKED! WHO KNOWS WHAT TWISTED SICK PERVERTED THINGS THEY ARE DOING AFTER TOUCHING A NAKED BABY FOR A YEAR! THEY ARE JUST PRACTICING FOR BEING PEDOPHILES!

I better go see my psycologist  sykolojist  uhh…therapist.



ErictheRed12662 -> RE: ageplay: how is it done? (11/24/2007 9:27:07 PM)

okay... I really regret going out of town just after posting this... I haven't read all 2 pages of what people posted here, but let me clarify some things

1. I AM NOT INTO LITTLE GIRLS. I do NOT appreciate people slandering me on this. I did NOT say I want to hogtie a 10 year old. Re-read my post before you say things like that. I said, and I quote, "How would I have them act and dress? And if ageplay works the way I think it does, they will have to act like little girls at age 10, and a person wouldn't say, hogtie, a 10 year old girl, right?"

2. I am NOT into ageplay personally. I just read something that seemed interesting where the person in the story worked to get to a higher age by performing tasks. For example, learning to apply makeup correctly would allow that person to move to the next age, or something like that. I just thought it sounded interesting. I'm merely asking questions about it.

3. I specified very clearly that I am a SUB. I'm just doing an experiment to learn more about the other side. Since the girls I know say they aren't embarrassed easily, I thought something like this might actually be humiliating for them.

I reiterate, I'm not into ageplay, I'm not into little girls, and I'm not a dominant. I just thought the concept was interesting. If anyone on this board has actual advice, or wants to teach me about ageplay, without assuming things and actually reading my posts, that would be great. I might sound like a jerk saying it like that, but when people post things like:

Let me get this correct - you are a sub - who wants to be a dom for a while and you are interested in little girls. But you are not a switch, but you want to hogtie a 10 year old. Thanks I got it.

I asked very clearly for LEARNING ADVICE. That means this isn't something I've done before. Not to mention, I think I've clearly stated this as an experiment, which further clarifies that. And no, I'm not a switch or a dominant... I've been told it's better to learn both dominant and submissive roles to improve upon which you classify yourself as (for example, I've heard the better dominants are the ones who have been submissives before). This is what I was thinking.

Hope this helps... I really honestly don't mean to sound ungrateful for those who were trying to give actual advice... I just hate people who read into things too much.



LATEXBABY64 -> RE: ageplay: how is it done? (11/24/2007 9:42:39 PM)

i can understand  a point of  view if you look at all the japanese animie they look like little doll figures with short school dresses and stuff they all look that way. So i can see where growing up with video games would cause people to take interest or the cartoon thingies  if you like at trigen inuyasha  tenchi muyu  not to mention a few hundred other ones



YourhandMyAss -> RE: ageplay: how is it done? (11/25/2007 12:57:01 AM)

And at e ven that it's still not allowed, mods just don't police UM, or any other code word as much as the actual word. And actually yes it is against TOS to talk about kids on here.
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ORIGINAL: marieToo

UM (UnMentionable)  is a term that people use for children under age, because they think it's against tos to say the word children. 





orfunboi -> RE: ageplay: how is it done? (11/25/2007 4:41:31 AM)

Nope, your right, you wouldn't hogtie a 10 year old. You would color with them, and watch disney fliks and stuff like that. You want to hogtie and stuff like that, you might want to wait until they are not playing 10 year olds.



orfunboi -> RE: ageplay: how is it done? (11/25/2007 4:42:40 AM)

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ORIGINAL: sexyred1

I do not think you are allowed to mention UMs of a certain age, unless I am mistaken on the boards.


He is talking about 20 year olds, last i checked, if they are over 20, you can mention them.



orfunboi -> RE: ageplay: how is it done? (11/25/2007 4:52:21 AM)

"OMG --- you didn't just imply that if you ageplay you will become a pedophile, did you?  "
 
Sure they did, it's a common theme among those ignorant of age play and in most cases they are just as ignorant about pedophiles too.
 
My personal favorite was the one who claimed peadeophales (his spelling, not mine) are almost always after victims of the same sex, and rarely cross gender boundries. This was the same idiot who claimed anyone who plays the Daddy role in age play, was always secretly harbering fantasies of kids. i guess this would mean anyone who plays the little girl role would always have fantasies of being raped.
 
Not sure how that was supposed to work out, i usually just ignore them and go color or something.



bipolarber -> RE: ageplay: how is it done? (11/25/2007 7:31:40 AM)

Again, the problem is, these girls have been playing dress up, learning to apply make up, how to deal with menstruation, and dealing with the social jungles of junior and high school level playgrounds since they actually WERE 10. Where's the challenge for them in your "advancement tests?"

I repeat: if they are the sorts of girls that enjoy ageplay, they will prefer to stay at the earlier age, because the power dynamic (which is the real turn on for ageplay) remains intact, so long as they are playing at being innocent, vunerable and in need of a "Daddy's" guidance. They will want to stay in the saftey of pretend childhood. It frees them from a lot of responsibility.

You might want to read the essay "The Daddy Closet" by Marcie Schiner. (Reprinted from On Our Backs in the book "Forbidden Passages," by Cleis Press.)



LuckyAlbatross -> RE: ageplay: how is it done? (11/25/2007 1:20:58 PM)

I have no problems with the specific desires, simply that you need to think them through a bit more before deciding it's really what you want to do.

I had one disastrous scene once where a guy brought me to myself at age 13 and tried to do all sorts of things- well guess what, my 13 yo self is NOT my 21 year old self and he was completely confused as to why I wasn't reacting.  I know that for a lot of people age play means putting on an affectation of youth as a way to bring out their sexuality in a fun way- but for as many if not more, age play is a way to experience themselves AS that age with someone in the place of a guardian/parent.  Are you really prepared for that at all?

Secondly, having someone go to a specific age seems weird.  Why do you want a specific number?  I assume you know that at no age is everyone the same or at the same level of development.  Never is this more true than for pre-pubescents and adolescent teens.  As well, it is only within a few specific and deliberately worked out instances in which I've known age players to consciously will themselves to a particular age- it's much more a natural flow of consciousness to whatever age feels right at the moment.

So really think about what you want to do, why you want to do it, how it will really help you accomplish your goals and whether you are capable of handling all of that at once



addisonclarkgirl -> RE: ageplay: how is it done? (11/25/2007 6:36:43 PM)

First of all, when I read the original post, it sounded a bit "Billy Madison" to me. 

Secondly, I have to agree with LuckyAlbatross.  At no age is everyone the same or at the same level of development.  I work with children, and I can definitly tell you that this is true.  You can't tell anyone to act 10, because no two 10 yr olds will act the same. 

As a Daddy's girl who is interested in ageplay, for me personally, I don't even play the same age all of the time.  Sometimes, I feel like a 10 year old and othertimes, a 16 year old, etc.  It also depends on what role my Daddy wants from me at the time.  If he wants a sweet, innocent, naive girl, I'm more likely to play 10.  If he wants the whore or slut, then I'm more apt to be 16. 

AND...i have played with several Daddys throughout the years, and not one of them would even think of hurting a child.  I'm sure that there are people out there where this may be the case, but those are the psychopaths, not your average Daddy on the street :)



sexyone4you -> RE: ageplay: how is it done? (11/25/2007 6:44:50 PM)

LMAO, I was surprised when I read your response.  I spit my drink!



ErictheRed12662 -> RE: ageplay: how is it done? (8/4/2010 6:48:04 PM)

Okay, I just wanted to post here, that I did have someone I thought was a "friend" access my account to update it, and at the time they posted this. Since I never check the forums, I didn't even know this was here... So... yeah...



Arpig -> RE: ageplay: how is it done? (8/4/2010 7:51:49 PM)

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UM (UnMentionable) is a term that people use for children under age, because they think it's against tos to say the word children.
Actually I use it because I find it sort of cute and a little clever...you assume what you don't know



VideoAdminAlpha -> RE: ageplay: how is it done? (8/4/2010 8:03:40 PM)

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ORIGINAL: YourhandMyAss

And at e ven that it's still not allowed, mods just don't police UM, or any other code word as much as the actual word. And actually yes it is against TOS to talk about kids on here.
quote:

ORIGINAL: marieToo

UM (UnMentionable)  is a term that people use for children under age, because they think it's against tos to say the word children. 





That is an incorrect statement, although well intentioned. It is permisable to talk about children, and also possible to discuss many theories. Pedophilia and discussion and practice thereof is also prohibited.

edited to add: I just saw the age of this thread. If you would like to continue this discussion please start a new thread.



AQuietSimpleMan -> RE: ageplay: how is it done? (8/4/2010 8:06:57 PM)

VAA Please note the date

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ageplay: how is it done? - 11/25/2007 12:57:01 AM


She made that comment almost 3 years ago

QSM

ETA: I just saw that you just saw.

LOL



reynardfox -> RE: ageplay: how is it done? (8/5/2010 4:16:00 AM)

This is way inappropriate



Andalusite -> RE: ageplay: how is it done? (8/5/2010 8:11:23 AM)

I've only used overt age play in one scene.  The setting was a high school catfight after a prom, with us both in schoolgirl uniforms.  Then, after that was over, I segued into florentine flogging her to various jumprope and clapping songs for a while - much more childlike, but no specific age.  Sometimes, I have a bit of an ageplay vibe to certain kinds of play or vanilla things- I just get excited and bouncy, or feel childlike wonder, or whatever.  No specific age or role-play was involved though, but it tended to bring out their nuturing "Daddy" side.  Instead of a pre-scripted scene, maybe think what elements would be fun for you to incorporate, and improvise a bit in the moment.

Most of the time, when I do kitty play, I don't wear makeup or accessories, I just act feline.  I think ageplay can be very similar - about the mood, rather than the clothes or specific activities.  Printing out the kinky coloring book someone posted, or just using regular ones, basic math/alphabet "lessons" kids toys like shape-sorters, board games, etc. are all possibilities, but they may evoke a younger mood than you mentioned in your OP.

ETA: oops, didn't see the date, but don't see any harm in leaving the response up.



thishereboi -> RE: ageplay: how is it done? (8/5/2010 8:29:52 AM)

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ORIGINAL: ErictheRed12662

Okay, I just wanted to post here, that I did have someone I thought was a "friend" access my account to update it, and at the time they posted this. Since I never check the forums, I didn't even know this was here... So... yeah...


If you never knew it was here, why did you come looking for it 3 years later?



aldompdx -> RE: ageplay: how is it done? (8/5/2010 1:08:56 PM)

Plan B:
They don't act younger, you act older and more mature.




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