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HarryVanWinkle -> Women complaining about men not reading profiles (11/23/2007 7:01:14 PM)

So many of the profiles of women on this site go on and on and on complaining about men who write to them without having read their profiles.  I have to say, it gets pretty monotonous and makes you sound very negative..

Ladies, or those of you who do this, why do you bother?  Please, I can understand, and greatly sympathize with the frustrations that come from so many guys sending you jack off emails.  But don't you realise you're preaching to the choir?  That the only guys who read your litanies of complaint are the ones who DO read profiles?  All the complaints in the world are not going to stop the guys you're complaining about, since they don't read the complaints.

It seems to me the solution is simple.  Near the end of your profile, put in a note that emails without a picture attached will be deleted unread and that those who write to you make their very first sentence, "The quick brown fox jumped over the lazy dog's tail," or some other specific sentence.  Then, as soon as you see open the email, you can see that the writer didn't bother reading your profile and immediately delete and block.



breatheasone -> RE: Women complaining about men not reading profiles (11/23/2007 7:04:33 PM)

Pass....



Twicehappy2x -> RE: Women complaining about men not reading profiles (11/23/2007 7:34:16 PM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: HarryVanWinkle

that those who write to you make their very first sentence, "The quick brown fox jumped over the lazy dog's tail," or some other specific sentence.  Then, as soon as you see open the email, you can see that the writer didn't bother reading your profile and immediately delete and block.


Lol, because then we would have a thread entitled "Why do so many of the women on cm want you write weird sentences?"



SirJohnMandevill -> RE: Women complaining about men not reading profiles (11/23/2007 7:52:28 PM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: HarryVanWinkle

So many of the profiles of women on this site go on and on and on complaining about men who write to them without having read their profiles.  I have to say, it gets pretty monotonous and makes you sound very negative..

Ladies, or those of you who do this, why do you bother?  Please, I can understand, and greatly sympathize with the frustrations that come from so many guys sending you jack off emails.  But don't you realise you're preaching to the choir?  That the only guys who read your litanies of complaint are the ones who DO read profiles?  All the complaints in the world are not going to stop the guys you're complaining about, since they don't read the complaints.

It seems to me the solution is simple.  Near the end of your profile, put in a note that emails without a picture attached will be deleted unread and that those who write to you make their very first sentence, "The quick brown fox jumped over the lazy dog's tail," or some other specific sentence.  Then, as soon as you see open the email, you can see that the writer didn't bother reading your profile and immediately delete and block.


Well, FWIW, I read everything in a submissive woman's profile, including verbose diatribes about what they don't want and rambling journal entries citing obscure impenetrable prose or poetry. Helps me figure out whom I do and don't want to contact.

Les (Illegitimate son of Alfred Lord Tennyson and Marjorie Lord)



azropedntied -> RE: Women complaining about men not reading profiles (11/23/2007 7:55:13 PM)

harry i got an email from someone who did not mean to send me mail,  but wow i was just happy to get something  lol - and now atleast i know the system  does really  work . Kinda the  the emergency broadcast test .
I do feel for all you women out there  getting  rude mailings  though .Pitty there has to be unhonorable  types doin that .



LadyHibiscus -> RE: Women complaining about men not reading profiles (11/23/2007 7:55:14 PM)

I used to have a direction at the end of my profile.  Made no difference in the long run.



RRafe -> RE: Women complaining about men not reading profiles (11/23/2007 7:57:10 PM)

Just post ...........in your profile,and you will know that anyone answering with how much they liked it is full of shit?



Solipsistic -> RE: Women complaining about men not reading profiles (11/23/2007 8:41:43 PM)

Well, I agree with the original poster; I find this pretty annoying as well.  It doesn't make sense to complain in your profile about all the jerks who won't don't read your profile, for obvious reasons.  All it does is make me think you're overwhelmed with spam and unlikely to read my message anyway, so why bother?  I think pretty much anyone on this site will agree it is full of negative aspects, but if you let that become your focus, you're just becoming one of the bad ones.



hisannabelle -> RE: Women complaining about men not reading profiles (11/23/2007 8:44:19 PM)

greetings all,

i try not to complain in my profile, period. i find long, bitter diatribes about fakes, people not reading profiles, and other complaints understandable but ultimately annoying and a waste of my time to read, so i don't do it because i don't like to waste other people's time.

respectfully,
annabelle



Aneirin -> RE: Women complaining about men not reading profiles (11/23/2007 8:59:41 PM)

Some of us do read profiles,in my case, I search for, 'friends only', anywhere, I read the profiles of those that interest me visually, then I may send a friendly message, nothing rude, crude or suggestive.

And then get ignored completely, no reply, nothing, no manners.

If I remember, it was'nt always like this here, this only seems to be over the past six months or so.

So, I read profiles, send messages and receive no answer.

( I can't believe every female on this site has a bulk bin)



juliaoceania -> RE: Women complaining about men not reading profiles (11/23/2007 9:08:27 PM)

I do not make entire threads about this topic, but I  will say this HVW, the people that do make those threads are usually new to the forums or one post wonders who vent here about that and then never post again... so as with your complaint about the negativity of those who post threads with this bitch and moan in them and that the men who do this not posting here... those who make those threads are not regulars on this side either.

I also find a bit of irony in making a negative thread and labeling other people negative... just sayin'

And yes, I do find the unsolicited emails to be a bit of an annoyance... but hey... they are somewhat amusing too, especially the ones that  say things like "I read your profile very thoroughly, and I think you expect too much from a dominant' (clue, if you read my profile you would see that I already have a Dom), or the ever popular "I think I am exactly what you are looking for after reading your profile" and then rant on endlessly about what they want in a relationship and knowing as I scan through the pages upon pages that they only looked at my picture and cut and pasted their email to me... oh yes, you have to be amused by such things in this life



littlehumbledone -> RE: Women complaining about men not reading profiles (11/23/2007 9:13:03 PM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: HarryVanWinkle

It seems to me the solution is simple.  Near the end of your profile, put in a note that emails without a picture attached will be deleted unread


Just what I need, MORE unsolicited pictures of penises (penii?) at 7am when I read my messages.




Solipsistic -> RE: Women complaining about men not reading profiles (11/23/2007 9:14:02 PM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: juliaoceania

I do not make entire threads about this topic, but I  will say this HVW, the people that do make those threads are usually new to the forums or one post wonders who vent here about that and then never post again... so as with your complaint about the negativity of those who post threads with this bitch and moan in them and that the men who do this not posting here... those who make those threads are not regulars on this side either.

I also find a bit of irony in making a negative thread and labeling other people negative... just sayin'


Perhaps one of the reasons they are "one post wonders" is because there is so much negativity and elitism floating around here that it doesn't seem like a fun place to be?  Just a hunch.

And it should be clear that there is a difference between being negative on your profile, which is a self-portrait you create to attract people, and being negative on the forums, which is a place to discuss all kinds of topics amongst your peers.



Muttling -> RE: Women complaining about men not reading profiles (11/23/2007 9:15:12 PM)

I suggest that the guys get a grip on reality!!!!



Men are FAR more likely to hit on women than the vice versa and women posters on ANY dating type forum get hit with a lot more e-mails than the men.  The woman who are pretty interesting get slammed with them.  A top end guy will get a decent response while a top end woman will have a pack of hounds after her (most of them mangey mutts with rabies......just for the record, I'm not rabid.)

My personal experience has been quite telling.  The MOST promissing response I have recieved to one of my e-mails was from a woman who didn't even bother to read my profile.  We're chatting a bit and seeing where things lead.  I don't know that it will happen between us, but I do know that profiles don't win you dates.  E-mails and profiles are just the ice breakers that have potential to start the private discussions.  From there it's equal chemistry and a willingness to let the chips fall where they may.



IdiotMale -> RE: Women complaining about men not reading profiles (11/23/2007 9:17:17 PM)

I agree about alot of the negativity I have read on some domme's profiles. Rather than writing about their likes,dislikes,etc. they have the majority of their profile geared towards complaining about others and fakes and if you don't like me or this and that go to hell lol After a few sentences like this I just stop reading and lose interest.



mnottertail -> RE: Women complaining about men not reading profiles (11/23/2007 9:19:37 PM)

guys have a very good grip on reality..........twats can whine all they like, but if I pinch off enough egg sacs sooner or later, you hit one with the pissflaps vibrating at the right speed and they give that shit away with both hands, it aint like they are special we have had women since the beginning of time, and well, fuck you figure it out for yourself, but women need men as much as men need women. and them that dont are still in your everyday sandbox.

Ron



juliaoceania -> RE: Women complaining about men not reading profiles (11/23/2007 9:29:17 PM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: Solipsistic

Perhaps one of the reasons they are "one post wonders" is because there is so much negativity and elitism floating around here that it doesn't seem like a fun place to be?  Just a hunch.


You mean the type of negativity and elitism that makes entire threads about the negativity of people on the other side? Just sayin'.

quote:

And it should be clear that there is a difference between being negative on your profile, which is a self-portrait you create to attract people, and being negative on the forums, which is a place to discuss all kinds of topics amongst your peers.


It is not obvious to me, personally I would rather have condensed negativity in a profile than a lot over here in the forums.. but people are who they are. I find allowing people to be who they are is usually the best policy... they can be negative or positive, a pessimist or an optimist.. it makes no difference to me because I do my thing, and expect others to do theirs. I do enjoy making observations about it though, you wouldn't want to deny me of my entertainment, would you?

If you do not like what someone has to say, don't read them, and that applies on the forums and on a profile. I have no problem with the negative profiles, when I was looking they were tools that people used to include or exclude themselves from my search... they were doing me a favor by writing in a way that demonstrated who they really are. Birds of a feather flock together, and negative people have every right to find other birds to flock with[:D]





KatyLied -> RE: Women complaining about men not reading profiles (11/23/2007 9:30:53 PM)

quote:

I also find a bit of irony in making a negative thread and labeling other people negative... just sayin'


There was a thread similar to this the other day.  It was deleted.  I don't think the OP's understand the irony of their threads in which they whine about other people whining.



Muttling -> RE: Women complaining about men not reading profiles (11/23/2007 9:32:15 PM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: mnottertail

guys have a very good grip on reality..........twats can whine all they like, but if I pinch off enough egg sacs sooner or later, you hit one with the pissflaps vibrating at the right speed and they give that shit away with both hands, it aint like they are special we have had women since the beginning of time, and well, fuck you figure it out for yourself, but women need men as much as men need women. and them that dont are still in your everyday sandbox.

Ron




I'll admit to being an odd ball here.  I see BOTH sexes as being equally deserving of respect.  .



On a side note, I'm a switch and I don't expect many to comprehend my views.  I'm comfortable in who I am.   I'm comfortable in that and don't feel a need to attack others or even to defend myself against those who would attack me.  I am MAN enough to choose when and where I will be dominant or submissive.



mnottertail -> RE: Women complaining about men not reading profiles (11/23/2007 9:36:06 PM)

And I am comfortable enough in my own skin to not give the slightest glimmer of a fuck about any of this.

I can get my cock sucked if I really need it. 


Anything else is Harry Potter kinda shit.

LOL,

Ron



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