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onaroll -> Feeling owned (11/23/2007 7:46:34 PM)

I'm wondering what makes the submissives here feel particularly owned. An action or a phrase or something that absolutely reminds you of who you belong to. Just curious. :)



breatheasone -> RE: Feeling owned (11/23/2007 7:49:49 PM)

My Master will grab the back of my hair and say "Mine" or He will grab the back of my hair and ask me, "Candace, who owns you?" ...I'm an instant puddle, and well reminded to whom I belong!



arkitain -> RE: Feeling owned (11/23/2007 7:53:19 PM)

Personally, there're any number of things that'll do it.  A bite for no particular reason, a simple tug of whatever I happen to have around my neck, being addressed as "pet" or "kitten", or even being instructed to do something simple like fetching a glass of water.  *Shrug*  Always the simple things, I suppose.



southernhart -> RE: Feeling owned (11/23/2007 8:48:34 PM)

The things he says to me, the way he touches me and commands me, the tone of his voice, the way he reaches for me.. Just the overall feeling of being loved by him tells me that i am owned.
i think also my desperate need for him and to be with him makes me feel that way too.



breatheasone -> RE: Feeling owned (11/23/2007 8:50:33 PM)

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i think also my desperate need for him and to be with him makes me feel that way too.

BOY! do I understand THIS....and how!



onaroll -> RE: Feeling owned (11/23/2007 8:59:01 PM)

I can definitely relate to what everyone's said thus far. :) Makes perfect sense to me. Thank you for your prompt responses!



sexyred1 -> RE: Feeling owned (11/23/2007 8:59:47 PM)

It is the way that someone makes you feel; the butterflies that fly loose in your stomach everytime they are around; the intensity of feeling, the fact that you could be doing anything else and all of a sudden if they walk in, your whole focus is now on you and him, it is the hand grabbing your hair and pulling you toward him...and all the words that go along with it.

That is how I feel when I feel owned and only one person has ever made me feel that way.



slaveluci -> RE: Feeling owned (11/23/2007 9:25:54 PM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: onaroll
I'm wondering what makes the submissives here feel particularly owned. An action or a phrase or something that absolutely reminds you of who you belong to. Just curious. :)

I highlighted the word "particularly" because to me, it's important.  As His slave, I always feel owned.  There is no doubt about it EVER.  However, there are certain things, of course, that do really reinforce it instantly.  Here's a short list:
*Always having to sleep naked and touching Him (or near enough so He can touch me at any time during the night).  Before I was His, I never slept nude and I still don't really like it but it's not my choice.
*Always having one ankle chained to the bedpost at night.  That chain can get mighty cold some nights[8D]
*Having to awaken Him to allow me to go to the bathroom during the night.  It took me awhile to get used to doing this but He insists it's what He wants.
*Having to get His approval for what I wear to work each day (when He is also at home when I'm getting dressed).  This is something else it was a bit hard to get used to.  He has actually told me to change on more than one occasion.
*Having to present Him with my paychecks and wait for my allowance.  This got easier over time.
*Being called His "property" or His "cunt."  Now this, I have ALWAYS loved[;)]

The bottom line, I suppose, is most of these are things I would never do if He didn't insist.  Those are the things that really reinforce His ownership of and authority over His property................luci



Shawn1066 -> RE: Feeling owned (11/23/2007 9:34:51 PM)

When my Owner puts her hand around my neck, I feel utterly at home.  It's surprises her how well it works, I believe.



DiurnalVampire -> RE: Feeling owned (11/23/2007 9:39:02 PM)

I also believe Fox reacts well to a bite on the back of the neck...
There are lots of little things that remind both boys they are owned, and that make them feel very much so. The one I know of that works the best is using their names in converstion. I dont call either by their given name unless I have to. It is My Angel or My Fox (or variations on that, Fox has several by now) and it is where Fox even introduces himself that way on the phone and such. Little reminders.

DV



adoracat -> RE: Feeling owned (11/24/2007 1:35:35 AM)

~fast reply~

hearing Daddy call me his property makes me go all squidgy inside.  i get physical shivers.  or him calling me slave.

i *know* i am owned always.  *hearing* it makes me week in the knees.

kitten



kyraofMists -> RE: Feeling owned (11/24/2007 4:00:44 AM)

Feeling owned comes from my own state of mind and perspective.  When I remain focused on his will and what he wants, rather than my will and what I want, then I feel owned.  There are things that he does that will reinforce this knowledge in me, but if I do not have the appropriate perspective, then it will not be felt.

Knight's Kyra



wisteriaV -> RE: Feeling owned (11/24/2007 4:46:23 AM)

I don't need a reminder as Master holds my heart and I feel him inside it everyday. I get a kick out of watching him sleep or seeing him happy when I have done something to please him...even his snoring is cute now.[:D]



rubberpet -> RE: Feeling owned (11/24/2007 5:00:04 AM)

While I am a spunky and feisty boy who loves to be playful, I always know my place with Mistress.  I am a very strong believer in Female Supremacy, so when I get a little playful and "challenge" Her authority, a sharp change in the tone of Her voice instantly makes me catch my breath.  She'll also come out with little phrases like, "Who's my bitch?", "Who owns you?", "You love being my property, don't you?", "Mine!", and "You know you want to surrender and give yourself to me, don't you?".

Since we aren't face-to-face yet, I can only imagine what Her touch feels like.  If She ever goes goes for my neck to grab it firmly, I'm a puddle!  If She's ever on top of me, pinning me underneath Her, and bites my neck like a vampire, I'll melt like a stick of butter in a frying pan!  If She shoves me into a corner or up against a wall and presses Her body against mine, I'm done!  If She stands behind me and wraps Her arm around my neck and Her other hand firmly grabs between my legs, my head falls back against Her shoulder and I'm a goner!

I'm with southerhart.  I have that desperate need for Mistress.  It is a hunger and need all the way down to the bottom of my soul.  It fuels the inferno to just be taken and conquered by Her.  As I've gotten older, I am not someone who submits to just anyone.  Even though I will give my submission freely, it will only be given to the one who is strong enough to take it and break me.  It is like pulling Excaliber out of the rock...only the one deemed worthy can do it.  No one has ever brought out this level of submission before like Mistress has.  It is who She is deep inside that just effortlessly takes possession of me...and without even trying.  [sm=cool.gif]



Daddyskittin -> RE: Feeling owned (11/24/2007 5:02:00 AM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: onaroll

I'm wondering what makes the submissives here feel particularly owned. An action or a phrase or something that absolutely reminds you of who you belong to. Just curious. :)


I've never felt like he owns me... With us we belong to each other... For me I feel it the strongest when we get out of the truck to go somewhere, and he waits with his right hand curling his fingers until I take it in my left, and he pulls me up snuggly to him so we can go...  With him he tells me from time to time after different talks, and discussions how he feels we belong to each other.




sambamanslilgirl -> RE: Feeling owned (11/24/2007 8:42:16 AM)

remembering that Daddy spent 2 years searching for me ...wearing His metal "wedding" ring and other jewelry on my body and knowing we are together forever



detroitdaddy4me -> RE: Feeling owned (11/24/2007 8:45:44 AM)

i need no reminders...for when i am owned...i feel it deep within my soul...i know He is the One that owns the very essence of my thoughts...He is the One Who dictates every minute of my every day...i do not make a move nor a decision without His consent...[;)]



breatheasone -> RE: Feeling owned (11/24/2007 10:17:16 AM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: onaroll

I'm wondering what makes the submissives here feel particularly owned. An action or a phrase or something that absolutely reminds you of who you belong to. Just curious. :)

To the OP...I love this question...it gives me a chance to talk about my Master what He does and how I feel because of it. [:)]  I GET the fact that you were NOT implying that  we all NEEDED these things to feel owned. I GET that you were just wanting to hear some of the awesome, and cool things that D/s M/s couples do and say that  reinforce what is already a given.... Thanks again for the question.



breatheasone -> RE: Feeling owned (11/25/2007 7:57:09 AM)

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i *know* i am owned always. *hearing* it makes me week in the knees.

Agreed [:)]



goodgirl08 -> RE: Feeling owned (11/25/2007 11:54:49 AM)

<---- easily subdued by pet names



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