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caring less? - 11/23/2007 11:25:03 PM

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Edited to to remove post....sorry I should have thought more before I typed

....please excuse me Y'all.

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RE: caring less? - 11/23/2007 11:26:11 PM

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no more then can you make yourself fall in love

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RE: caring less? - 11/23/2007 11:27:23 PM

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Aye...I was afraid of that LOL

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RE: caring less? - 11/23/2007 11:34:47 PM

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You can balance out your life and work on doing things that give you more focus than just him. It won't change how you feel, but it may give you more balance.

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RE: caring less? - 11/23/2007 11:36:41 PM

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You can balance out your life and work on doing things that give you more focus than just him. It won't change how you feel, but it may give you more balance.

I think thats exactly what I need to do...Thankyou so much

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RE: caring less? - 11/23/2007 11:39:54 PM

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You always have a choice on what to do. Of course you can back off of caring for someone. You need to engage your head as well as your heart.
You decided to love this person, you can decide not to. How do you think many relationships are ended? Someone usually decides to end it because they don't love the other person anymore.

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RE: caring less? - 11/24/2007 8:50:58 AM

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love you have to work at there is many types of love. In love love of the moment friendship love romantic love ,lust love
these two are always intangled (lust love, In love) It is the hot and cold of relationshps . but everything takes work if you do not work it dies.

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RE: caring less? - 11/25/2007 12:53:44 PM

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Breath I think this is the third time you've gone through this cycle now- that's a serious deal. What aren't you doing before this happens to signal to yourself of the warning signs and gain security from past experiences? What do you keep letting slip?

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RE: caring less? - 11/25/2007 1:11:28 PM

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Breath I think this is the third time you've gone through this cycle now- that's a serious deal. What aren't you doing before this happens to signal to yourself of the warning signs and gain security from past experiences? What do you keep letting slip?

*sigh*....yeah I see it too....I'm fairly confident I know where the problem lies....I have a HUGE abandonment issue. I also know that it can and has impaired my judgment. I also know its not fair to project my baggage on to my Master. so I am continuing to try very hard to "freak out" less...and I believe I am making progress. I am grateful that my Master understands and is willing and even happy to talk with me and offer me guidance.

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