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Living in the lifestyle - 11/24/2007 8:03:59 AM   
OscarHargraves


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Status: offline 		I'm just curious.  How many people here actually live in the lifestyle full-time (24-7) and how many have to move in and out of it because of family, commitments or other reasons?  I have to move in and out for various reasons and I sometimes feel like I'm the only one here that does this.

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RE: Living in the lifestyle - 11/24/2007 9:48:47 AM   
sambamanslilgirl


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From: Chicago, IL
Status: offline 		i'm submissive whether i'm in Daddy's/SO's presence or not. i don't have to live the lifestyle to be in it 24/7.

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RE: Living in the lifestyle - 11/24/2007 10:23:33 AM   
MsBearlee


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Status: offline 		Move in and out?  While I don’t make like a revolving door, relationships do come and go, sometimes. 
 
I have been in long-term relationships and shorter ones, as well…but all relationships I enter into come with 24/7 reality.  I don’t enter into relationships if I have commitments that prohibit my integrity, honesty and openness; having said that, my family would come to enjoy knowing my partner…but not our private and very intimate relationship.
 
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RE: Living in the lifestyle - 11/24/2007 1:14:46 PM   
kaji


Posts: 127
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Status: offline 		24/7 for almost a year, but that has been a struggle i must admit.  Things have settled down and i have adjusted to the REALITY of having a collar and treasure my slavehood.  As for in and out, Master uses modes that fit various situations, i have not perfected it yet, but getting there...

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RE: Living in the lifestyle - 11/24/2007 3:47:36 PM   
Estring


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Status: offline 		My slave and I are 24/7. Of course that doesn't mean we are playing 24/7, 365 days a year. What that means is she is always my slave regardless of what we are doing.

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RE: Living in the lifestyle - 11/24/2007 10:09:10 PM   
adoracat


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quote:

ORIGINAL: OscarHargraves

I'm just curious.  How many people here actually live in the lifestyle full-time (24-7) and how many have to move in and out of it because of family, commitments or other reasons?  I have to move in and out for various reasons and I sometimes feel like I'm the only one here that does this.


i'm always Daddy's property, if he's around or not.  all the other stuff i do, i'm still his.  i dont scream out my submission to everyone, the ones who know me well know its as much a part of me as brown eyes or my tattoos.

all of the parts of me are Daddy's...whether its being a good wife to my husband (who isnt Daddy) or being a good mama to the yardapes, or being a good friend to others. 

i serve Daddy in all the things i do.  sometimes they're obvious, like pleasing him by being on his arm in public.  sometimes they're more subtle....like watching for wolf's needs and meeting them, and telling Daddy about it. 

my grown daughter knows i'm a collared slave.  my 14 year old doesnt.  i think its being appropriate in who knows, but other than that, i dont stop being who i am just because Daddy isnt there watching to make sure i am behaving as he wishes me to.

kitten, thoughtfully

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RE: Living in the lifestyle - 11/25/2007 6:25:18 AM   
rubberpet


Posts: 1743
Joined: 4/6/2006
From: The Land of Voodoo
Status: offline 		Mistress and I live it 24/7 even though we're in two different timezones.  We obviously don't do hardcore domination 24/7 because of distance and we won't even living in the same house later on.  We both need the romantic affection and cuddle time like lovers do, but I always know my place to Her.  She could turn up Her dominance at any time, so the "threat" is always there...lol.  Whether we are huggy/kissy boyfriend and girlfriend holding hands at the mall or we're in a hardcore rubber and bondage scene, She is always Mistress and always in control.

While I don't feel compelled to declare my submission to Her all over the place, I will proudly do so to anyone who would appreciate hearing about my love and devotion to Her. 

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RE: Living in the lifestyle - 11/25/2007 11:51:28 AM   
ghitaPVH


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Status: offline 		Well, Im not kneeling naked on the floor in chains 24/7....but I always belong to him if thats what you mean. Im not compleatly sure what you mean by move in and out. Its not a 24/7 "scene" but I am submissive to him in all that I do, whether thats sucking his cock or herding cattle or taking UMs to school.

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RE: Living in the lifestyle - 11/25/2007 2:24:35 PM   
OscarHargraves


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Status: offline 		I understand that the mental commitment is a full-time, 24/7 thing.  I never questioned that.  What I'm getting at is how do you mix your 'vanilla' life with your non-vanilla?  How do you switch back and forth and is it easy to do or hard?  What I'm wanting to know is how do you deal with the physical aspects of going from 'vanilla' to Sub' and back?

< Message edited by OscarHargraves -- 11/25/2007 2:27:55 PM >

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