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ballerinaboy -> Thinking about bondage? (11/24/2007 10:33:58 AM)
Was just wondering,what percentage of your waking hours are you actually thinking about bondage/s and m,and if its significant,do you think you should budget some of your annual earnings towards it as it is clearly an interest-ie say have some sort of "allowance" for visiting mistresses,buying kinky gear etc????

MsBearlee -> RE: Thinking about bondage? (11/24/2007 10:57:47 AM)
Tithing dollars to Domination! I love it… While I do not expect financial tribute, I do expect a submissive to invest his time and energy in determining if we are a match or not; if it necessary for him to budget for this, that’s his decision…and a good one. In my opinion, it shows me he’s for real…and interested. How much time do I spend thinking about such things depends on what I'm busy with at any given time. Because I'm 'looking'...I do spend a couple hours almost every day, thinking about some aspect of BDSM; it's a part of my everyday life. MsB

tanzur -> RE: Thinking about bondage? (11/24/2007 11:10:43 AM)
I don't think about bondage all that much; the only time it really flashes through my mind is when I am getting ready to go see someone. As for putting aside an amount of earnings...why? If I want something, and it looks promising, I go buy it.

Qithoras -> RE: Thinking about bondage? (11/24/2007 11:20:08 AM)
Most of my waking hours, along with other aspects of the lifestyle, and a few non waking from the dreams that I can remember [;)] I tend to shut everything out when I'm working on something complex or rambling to myself (Yes, I have discussions with myself) attempting to find an answer to a questions my brain digs up. Hope that answers your question. Edit: I reread my answer and the question and felt the need to add text, denoted by the italics.

Griswold -> RE: Thinking about bondage? (11/24/2007 11:31:03 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: ballerinaboy Was just wondering,what percentage of your waking hours are you actually thinking about bondage/s and m, Well, lemme think. I get up around 5 a.m., typically head to bed about 9 p.m.....there's always that 2 minutes every morning that I'm completely focused on brushing my teeth....so, I'd say...only 15 hours, 58 minutes daily is spent on thinking of my kink.

Focus50 -> RE: Thinking about bondage? (11/24/2007 12:12:23 PM)
To me, bondage is the visual and physical personification of control - and most sexual thoughts I have naturally include control. Out and about, I tend to be drawn to the "spankability" of a shapely butt first. And I never spank/flog etc without bondage; she's gotta be helpless (controlled) first and foremost. By the way, NO female has ever caught me out for staring at her butt - staring at boobs is for amateurs.... lol Focus.

CalifChick -> RE: Thinking about bondage? (11/24/2007 12:17:46 PM)
Well, hmmm, almost never? Nah, didn't think you would believe that, what with the avatar and all. [:D] Cali

SirJohnMandevill -> RE: Thinking about bondage? (11/24/2007 12:32:03 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: ballerinaboy Was just wondering,what percentage of your waking hours are you actually thinking about bondage/s If you expand "bondage" to include all manner of BDSM activities, the answer is, gee, I thought only teenage boys thought that much about sex! Seriously, when I'm not terribly busy at work, my mind wanders to BDSM (which for me includes sex). During my 90-minute commute (each way) between D.C. and home, I spend a lot of that time thinking about what I'll do next time I'm with a sub. And at night? Well, let's just say the tray table is frequently in the upright and locked position. I do make exceptions for episodes of House and Ghost Hunters, tho! (Hmmmm...I could think of quite a few kinkalicious things to do with Olivia Wilde of the former.) Les (Illegitimate son of Joe DiMaggio and Eleanor Roosevelt)

dawntreader -> RE: Thinking about bondage? (11/24/2007 1:01:27 PM)
i think about bondage quite a bit[;)]

azropedntied -> RE: Thinking about bondage? (11/24/2007 1:38:44 PM)
what time is it now ? ok still thinking about bdsm , i long for it and crave it ,dream about it ,its who i am a major part of my being .looks at watch again yup still thinking about it .obsession ? i think not its just my genitic make up .... and look i am still thinking about it go figure .

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