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Vanadium -> Is a switch dom a turn off? (11/24/2007 10:39:35 PM)

Goodevening. I am in vanilla relationship but my girlfriend enjoys being mildly dominated. She likes to be handled strongly, she seems to be turned-on when I tell her off about something. I've noticed shes started to even play around with my limits to see how I'm going to react. She likes a 'manly' man, shes also hard-headed and demanding most of the time. Yet I dont think shes even heard of BDSM. Anways, it works out wonderfully since I like being 'manly' and assertive. HOWEVER.. It's also a huge turn on for me when she shows agressiveness and takes control. My question is, do you think this would be a turn off for her if I let her take contol?




laurell3 -> RE: Is a switch dom a turn off? (11/24/2007 10:51:36 PM)

There's no way we can answer that, we don't know either of you.  Sit down and talk to her about it. 

good luck!




Vanadium -> RE: Is a switch dom a turn off? (11/24/2007 11:18:29 PM)

Thanks, yea your right, that is an impossible question to answer. But, I'm not going to talk to her about it- I guess like things the way they are for now[:D]. I'm simply more curious then anything else.




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