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RE: Big Penis - 8/21/2005 6:59:05 PM

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I totally know what you mean. Growing up, the only other cock I ever saw was my best friend (who i found out later must have been the equivalent of John Holmes) when we were in the bathroom or the locker room. Then when I was first living on the streets as a 19-22 year old my best friend then had 11"

So I always thought i was small, somehow women I was with were always happy or at least very pleased. Then suddenly I went out with a girl who was an exotic dancer that had moved up to New York City from Florida. We went back to her hotel and she promptly made me go to the little bodega (like corner store or 7/11 for people in suburbs.. or who haven't seen the movie "Half Baked") to get magnum size condoms.

I thought she was just kidding or just trying to inflate my Ego to get a better grip on me (mentally). But when she refused to have sex with me until i did that, I realized she was serious. Turns out my 8.5-9 inches (and very thick around) that i always thought was small or average at best, was actually pretty sizable or at least the largest SHE had been with (Being from "Urban" environments, that comment of hers made me wonder if i was her first Black boyfriend).

To make the long story short (no pun intended) I am SOOO blessed to have grown up much larger than average but believing I was smaller than average (and having lovers who must have snickered to themselves when I apologized for what I THOUGHT was my "size" they all knew the secret but ME). So I learned to overcompensate with other things the same way all men do, and then it turned out I actually had a decent amount.

Fast forward to a few years later and my now deceased best friend/sister is drunk at a party blabbering about how small I am (we never slept together, she only saw me sleeping) and it turns out, like the other guy who posted (2) above me, I am SMALLER than average when i am soft. Like other guys seem to get semi soft compared to my "wartime protection" softness.. Oh well... I suppose it's a small price to pay to never be able to wear speedos.. but always proud to be naked when I'm ready to show off the "big gun"

My silly two cents..

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RE: Big Penis - 8/22/2005 5:39:05 PM

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You've seen the penises on 95% of the men in the world?

I'm impressed.

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She must be on alt.com, Sir..LMAO.

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RE: Big Penis - 8/22/2005 10:58:47 PM

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But when she refused to have sex with me until i did that, I realized she was serious. Turns out my 8.5-9 inches (and very thick around) that i always thought was small or average at best, was actually pretty sizable or at least the largest SHE had been with (Being from "Urban" environments, that comment of hers made me wonder if i was her first Black boyfriend).
My silly two cents..

Oh dear,
Hate to pick on the brothah, but I would be shocked to see a man 5'2" tall had a penis 8-9" long... Granting I haven't seen as many penises as I suppose I've had a chance to examine in my years, but, I'd still be phucking shocked.
Also wish you hadn't made that "first black boyfriend" comment because it reaks of stereotypes, and I've seen one or 2 underendowed black men. M

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RE: Big Penis - 8/23/2005 4:44:18 AM

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Does he walk with a walker to make sure he doesnt fall over?

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RE: Big Penis - 8/24/2005 3:42:29 AM

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Hee heeee

I'm 5'11" (Pan in Pangaia) My partner is 5'2" (Gaia in Pangaia)

I thought to myself "Every time there is a couple seeking a sister sub/Slave.. they always use the woman to lead the search, and subs/Slaves on here always seem to respond to the female half of a couple, why not post my sub's stats in height/weight?"

As to the second part. After my incident with the dancer, I was feeling pretty proud of my size. At the time my sub was a Finnish girl. Her friend (another Finnish girl) was also a sub and had recently moved to a neighborhood called "East New York" here in New York City. A very "Urban" environment shall we say.

One day we are flirting and just sort of messing around and talking. She tells me that when she first moved to that neighborhood she was depressingly bored and slept with pretty much every guy she could find in the neighborhood who would have her. Now this is a 5'9" blond pretty gorgeous Scandinavian girl, so that turned out to be about 30 guys (in less than two months).

I asked her who was the largest and what the overall average was. She admitted that although there were a lot of guys that were average size(and a lot that were below average too), in general she ran into some REAL DOOZIES. She used her own arm to describe the size of the largest guy and it was at at LEAST an extra 2-3 inches longer and thicker around than I am.

And although that was the largest, she said that she saw q few that were at least equal to my size. She had done the same thing in her native Finland (fucked everything that moved) and did not run into the same array of monster equipment.

SO now I still consider myself in the high percentile for size, (and I don't cheat when I measure) but I am not as proud as I once was. I'm HUNG but I'm no HORSE. Besides.. maybe there is a general thing with blacks and size maybe there isn't . But the mutant dicks are always white guys (20" and such in the guiness book)

SO.. I hope I am not adding to the stereotype in any way. But since i am not gay, I can only go by what women tell me. They tell me the same thing you said about black men benign tiny too. And trust me, the LAST thing I wanted to do was start THAT conversation. Just telling you what I was told (and in New York I have had QUITE a chance to talk to a LOT of women about penis size, shape, color, style, etc etc of men. I have always been fascinated by surveying women about sex ever since I read the Hite report when I was 13)

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RE: Big Penis - 8/25/2005 4:49:43 PM

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SO.. I hope I am not adding to the stereotype in any way. But since i am not gay, I can only go by what women tell me. They tell me the same thing you said about black men benign tiny too. And trust me, the LAST thing I wanted to do was start THAT conversation. Just telling you what I was told (and in New York I have had QUITE a chance to talk to a LOT of women about penis size, shape, color, style, etc etc of men. I have always been fascinated by surveying women about sex ever since I read the Hite report when I was 13)

Panagia

Had a similiar eye-opening experience reading "Our Bodies, Ourselves" back in the '70's. All my girlfriends and i felt inadequate, ROFL.

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RE: Big Penis - 8/25/2005 11:07:36 PM

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Too Big is when you look at it the first words that come out of your lips are "No F'ing Way, you can not park a Semi in a one car garage".

oh thank you, may i use that quote?

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RE: Big Penis - 8/28/2005 4:05:37 PM

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Hm...master's pretty well hung, and he doesn't flaunt it. Guess it's true.

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RE: Big Penis - 8/28/2005 8:13:16 PM

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I'm not really sure that a really big penis is something that I'd brag about honestly. I mean, most of the women I've talked to, actually really dont like them to be very big. Just big enough is their favorite.

On the other hand most of the Gay guys that I talk to, say that length and width is the best.
Seems that for anal penetration, lenth and width matters the most.

But for vaginal penetration, seems that just above average is the best. I mean isnt it like . . the first 2 inches are the most sensitive.

(this is just what I've gathered and in no way fact)

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RE: Big Penis - 9/4/2005 4:41:06 PM

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I think the Penis Size question might best be answered by using this maxim:

If she starts out going "OW! OW! OW!", but that slowly turns into "MORE! MORE! MORE!", that's good.

If she does it the other way around, that's not so good.

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RE: Big Penis - 9/6/2005 3:44:07 AM

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I cant stand penis envy. I mean I got like 7 long, but only like 5.5 around.

and I feel small because it seems so thin, and everywhere I go, I hear that the thickness most of the time is more important than the length.

But for some reason, never having a complaint from any women, and being complimented at shape look, and size, I always feel small.

Its really a problem, and has gotten in the way of performance, because for one, I'm a grower, so when its flacid, its .. . well very small. So i'm always embarassed to take my pants off unless i'm half hard, or completely hard to start with.

Am I alone on this feeling?

Absolutely not. The difference being that I'm not embarrassed to show my flacid stuff. I was at the beginning, because I thought it was small, but the very first female reaction at its sight was "Oh my god !". That helped.

But then...

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and oddly men who say they have small penises.. have larger ones

I stil feel it's the other way around : men who have small penises meet excessively nice women.

Anyway, the size can't be that important. After all 3.5" fingers (damn your prehistoric inch /foot system !) and a 2" tongue can be enough, if used properly

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And if one can give so much pleasure to a woman that she cannot take any more, the size becomes a pointless question.

And even more : I had a girlfriend who had sex with someone who had something so huge (over 10" apparently) that it hurt really bad, and although the guy was very nice she never called him again.

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RE: Big Penis - 9/6/2005 4:20:40 AM

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I'm not really sure that a really big penis is something that I'd brag about honestly. I mean, most of the women I've talked to, actually really dont like them to be very big. Just big enough is their favorite.

They are just being nice to you

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RE: Big Penis - 9/6/2005 8:00:59 AM

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I'm not really sure that a really big penis is something that I'd brag about honestly. I mean, most of the women I've talked to, actually really dont like them to be very big. Just big enough is their favorite.

They are just being nice to you

Not true necessarily. It is very much possible to be too big for some women to enjoy. M

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