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When You go searching - 11/25/2007 1:15:45 PM   
southernhart


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Status: offline 		on a website for a submissive/slave. Do You find that Your more apt to choose the one who bares her/his body as much as You legally can on a website or do go for the ones who are fully clothed? Pease explain in some detail. Thanks

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RE: When You go searching - 11/25/2007 1:22:14 PM   
twistedwillow


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Status: offline 		I would be more inclined to go for those who are dressed with some modicium of, imo, self respect. Ok, so you might have a fabulous cock or fantastically perky tits, but it's the personality of the person that draws me in. I also take note of their profile in general, is it well written, articulate, and I quickly glance over their interests if they have any ticked.


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RE: When You go searching - 11/25/2007 1:37:57 PM   
LadyHibiscus


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Status: offline 		I look at a person's face and expression when it comes to photos.  Do they look intelligent, kind, humorous?  I am not a fan of naked pictures, they remove all mystery, and are very unsexy.  A man in nicely kept clothes, whether his style is suit or flannel shirt and jeans, is far more attractive than some fetishy outfit that leaves nothing to the imagination.

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RE: When You go searching - 11/25/2007 1:53:25 PM   
SirJohnMandevill


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quote:

ORIGINAL: southernhart

on a website for a submissive/slave. Do You find that Your more apt to choose the one who bares her/his body as much as You legally can on a website or do go for the ones who are fully clothed? Pease explain in some detail. Thanks


Clothed and/or face pix. If she's willing to show off to everyone on the site, we're probably not a good match, anyway.

I don't understand why some subs post a pic of just their leg(s), corseted back or headless body. Is it concern about being recognized? Any opinions?

Les (Purveyor of Fine Kinkiness since...well, for a long, long time)  

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RE: When You go searching - 11/25/2007 2:02:35 PM   
SirRussellP


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Status: offline 		When I go through any mating site I look at face first then form, this doesn't require that she be nude at all.  I find that it is what she says about herself and how that effects me the most.  I do like more then just here are my loves, likes etc. 

Each of us want and need different things, are looking for our own kink if you will.


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RE: When You go searching - 11/25/2007 2:18:57 PM   
LuckyAlbatross


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Status: offline 		I am turned off by focus on the genitalia- breasts or crotch.  I prefer just a nice headshot of someone, preferably in stylish and well fitting clothes.

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RE: When You go searching - 11/25/2007 2:46:22 PM   
RumpusParable


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quote:

ORIGINAL: southernhart

on a website for a submissive/slave. Do You find that Your more apt to choose the one who bares her/his body as much as You legally can on a website or do go for the ones who are fully clothed? Pease explain in some detail. Thanks


I prefer the partially or fully clothed... something that gives a feel of them.  When I vew a profile pic I'm looking for a bit of their personality in addition to how they look.

What parts of their body also matter to me in what they show.  I've seen penises plenty and they don't tell me a thing about a person beyond them thinking it's the most important part of themselves to be used for  profile pic, so I tend to weed out anyone who does that immediately.

I'm glad CM isn't like that, other sites I'm on are like being at a urinalysis where too many are enjoying themselves.

I like to see someones face, maybe torso front or back, but that's really all I need as far as body shots.  It lets me get a general picture of them in my mind, and how much actual flesh is shown doesn't effect that.

To me, a profile pic is part of expressing one's personality to others looking.  Clothing choices indicate that much better than a nude shot, to me.

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RE: When You go searching - 11/25/2007 3:10:12 PM   
Jeffff


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Status: offline 		I actualy prefer no pictures. You can get an idea of who a person is by their posts here. If they interest you. you can contact them and see how it goes. OF course looks matter, but subsatnce matters more to Me.

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RE: When You go searching - 11/25/2007 3:14:05 PM   
MrSpectacular


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Status: offline 		Fully clothed - I either think the partially naked pictures are either overselling or are pro's .

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RE: When You go searching - 11/25/2007 3:39:01 PM   
southernhart


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Status: offline 		The reason why i asked this particuar question was because a month or so ago someone posted that all she was getting was perverts and people who just wanted to have sex with her. i took a look at her profile and she was naked on top (as CM) will allow. Are some women that clueless?

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RE: When You go searching - 11/25/2007 3:51:02 PM   
LuckyAlbatross


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Status: offline 		It was clueless to complain about getting wanker emails- I don't know anyone who didn't get a flood of them on their first day, no matter what their picture was.

But yes, some people really are.

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RE: When You go searching - 11/25/2007 3:52:49 PM   
IrishMist


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ORIGINAL: southernhart

on a website for a submissive/slave. Do You find that Your more apt to choose the one who bares her/his body as much as You legally can on a website or do go for the ones who are fully clothed? Pease explain in some detail. Thanks

Neither. I don't choose my partners based on their clothing or their anatomy

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RE: When You go searching - 11/25/2007 5:08:00 PM   
liminalRapture


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quote:

ORIGINAL: SirJohnMandevill
I don't understand why some subs post a pic of just their leg(s), corseted back or headless body. Is it concern about being recognized? Any opinions?


I've thought about it for that very reason.  I have no intention of putting anything that makes me recognizable here--but I've got great legs.  But, I figured, I'm getting some really neat men e-mailing me--I don't need any more and figured it wouldn't necessarily improve the quality of the men, just the quantity, so I decided against it.

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RE: When You go searching - 11/25/2007 5:29:36 PM   
MasterFireMaam


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Status: offline 		For me, someone exposing themselves is pushing their kink on me. I might not be into voyuerism or inspection or whatever contraption they've gotten themselves into. Act like a normal person, including a normal photo, and I'm much more inclined to go with that.

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RE: When You go searching - 11/25/2007 5:33:59 PM   
rawkmehard


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Status: offline 		although in my picture you can't see my face and i have a lingerie top on, i love the picture.

i think it's rather well done for a mistake i made with  my camera.  AND, honestly, i don't really need a bunch of people recognizing my face on this site or any other.

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RE: When You go searching - 11/25/2007 5:38:28 PM   
MissMagnolia


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Status: offline 		My fave pic was the one sent to me with a guy in a business suit, wearing a gas mask, with his dick hanging out of his fly.  I didn't respond, funnily enough.

I have zero interest in people who send me nude shots. Why do they think that is of the utmost importance to me? Why do they think that a buff bod is going to make me think they are something special?

Give me a boring, normal shot anyday. That, and a nice intelligent email, will get much more interest from me that a dick and balls extravaganza.

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RE: When You go searching - 11/25/2007 5:51:42 PM   
RRafe


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Status: offline 		I go for reasonably healthy bodies, and minds that are open.

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RE: When You go searching - 11/25/2007 8:15:20 PM   
TemptingNviceSub


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Status: offline 		Strangely enough..most Dominants that I have responded to have no pictures at all,,nor do I ask..I need to be intrigued mentally first..As for my own picture...well..you can see which side of the equation I fall under..Tempting

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RE: When You go searching - 11/25/2007 8:24:17 PM   
MadRabbit


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ORIGINAL: southernhart

The reason why i asked this particuar question was because a month or so ago someone posted that all she was getting was perverts and people


Never ever ever heard about that one before....

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RE: When You go searching - 11/25/2007 8:40:08 PM   
astarri


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Status: offline 		Fast Reply ~ i dont care about pictures though if i were to get to know someone better i like to see who i am speaking to.

Oh and clothed or not ...while i dont have any hangups about seeing people naked, getting a naked picture does not mean im going to talk to that person.

Oh and one more edit ... i dont personally have a pic here because i dont throw lots of pics of myself out into cyberspace ... never know where they end up as was recently brought up in another thread.


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