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roland23 -> RE: It's not cheating?!? (12/4/2007 10:06:32 PM)
Is cheating looking or doing? Someone provide clarification. Many people think that if you look it is cheating. Some say it's engaging in any kind of BDSM. Some say it's intercourse. Some say you can't even dream! You can't win!

MissOchistic -> RE: It's not cheating?!? (12/4/2007 10:36:44 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: welshwmn3 quote: ORIGINAL: sexyone4you No intentions to meet the wife, simplyeli. He wanted "discretion." I think it was a rock creature. Discretion could mean that the wife knows he has others, just doesn't ever want to meet them or hear all the details. Not very likely, but I HAVE heard of some poly arrangements like that. It's essentially how I manage mine. No one hears about anyone else, with the exception of one who is also Poly and not at all jealous, or if they specifically ask. So far it's working out better than any previous arrangement.

stef -> RE: It's not cheating?!? (12/5/2007 10:20:56 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: LATEXBABY64 I guess my groth path is to strive to be better then. Just like anything in life to grow. hurting someone with cheating or lie or being dishonet is kinda of backwards mentality nothing i want apart of. Are spelling, basic logic or reading comprehension going to be stops on that "groth path" any time soon? ~stef

LordVelvet -> RE: It's not cheating?!? (12/5/2007 12:14:59 PM)
stef, you mean you followed what was said at all? you are a better person than I. LordVelvet

CelticPrince -> RE: It's not cheating?!? (12/5/2007 12:22:51 PM)
sexy, there is something missing here; is the top married or has another? CP

adoracat -> RE: It's not cheating?!? (12/5/2007 12:28:00 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: welshwmn3 quote: ORIGINAL: adoracat yeah you have, havent you? [:D] kitten, whose wolf IS like that. Was thinking of you, dearheart, when I typed that :). thought so dear one. :) kitten

Tigrita -> RE: It's not cheating?!? (12/5/2007 12:35:33 PM)
If it isn't against the rules, it isn't cheating. It depends what the rules are between him and his wife.

lovethewhip -> RE: It's not cheating?!? (12/5/2007 6:38:43 PM)
I think it is cheating however let me pose this question you; If he is married and he wanted you in a 3 way with his wife would it be considered cheating? I say this because My slave knows I will never go behind her back. Going behind her back is cheating to me.

Dnomyar -> RE: It's not cheating?!? (12/6/2007 11:37:00 AM)
If your going to quote the bible then Mary was an adultress. Tell me how it can be a sin to be an adultress.

LadyChef -> RE: It's not cheating?!? (12/6/2007 11:43:44 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Dnomyar If your going to quote the bible then Mary was an adultress. Tell me how it can be a sin to be an adultress. Just for this one....check out Exodus in the Bible, the Ten Commandments, and if you want to be deep, read what the Apostle Paul writes in 1 Corinthians 7

roland23 -> RE: It's not cheating?!? (12/8/2007 2:44:34 PM)
Thanks for the clarification, but most of the female subs that myself and most of my male dom friends have encountered in the last three decades have either been married or live with their boyfriends(their significant others are totally clueless) Currently, one of my very married co-workers wants to play. Must be the circles we move in.(Planet Earth)

LATEXBABY64 -> RE: It's not cheating?!? (12/8/2007 4:10:02 PM)
I guess for me i have a moral compas that says what is right and wrong.. While People can spin theirs anyway they want and be lost in the wrong direction. I would rather stick to true north and do the right things in life. How do you know. Cuase come out ahead every time you do something just takes longer to get where your going. If you have to hurt somone for self gratification in the sense of cheating. Then when it happens to you. I guess it is called universal justice People that make excuses for bad behavior are the ones you really need to stay away from

MissOchistic -> RE: It's not cheating?!? (12/9/2007 3:14:46 AM)
It's not cheating if he thinks saying that will improve his chances of sleeping with you. If he thought cheating would improve those chances, he'd admit it in a heartbeat.

Owner4SexSlave -> RE: It's not cheating?!? (12/9/2007 3:27:51 AM)
Cheating is both a moral and a cultural concept. The meaning can vary depending upon one's school of thinking. Now, in terms of Modernized Western Culture, this would be considered Cheating by the norm. However, since he is not looking to leave his wife or break his marriage. Is just looking for sex, probally without the intention of having kids with you. In his mind he is not cheating on his wife. He's going to stay committed to his wife. He will not leave her for you. Now, the big question is this? Does his wife know he is looking for a slave? Is this something that him and his wife have already talked about? If this not an arrangement or agreement between him and his wife. This is Cheating without question. Why? Because of the lack of communication, honestly and respect for his marriage. Some women are OK with their husbands going off fucking another regular piece of ass on the side, long as their husband come home to them at the end of the day/night.

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