RE: Looking for a free ride

i have always offered to assist P/pl here..to help T/them with background checks -- which BOTH parties need -- to help with retirement planning, to help with relocation -- especially when children are involved.

i have been here 18 months -- and only two Doms or Masters have requested my help. No slaves or submissives have done so. i like to think P/pl are using self-help tools or seeing lawyers in T/their locale, but i have heard too many horror stories.

i cannot understand why a Dom or Master -- who is supposed to protect women and mosy especially His One -- will NOT plan for the real life eventualities which His One and He may someday face.

i have heard of "contracts" spelling out the submissive woman's limits; but what about the cost of storing her furniture? Paying her share of visitation costs for the kids? Palimony for her to return to school for a couple of years and get a marketable skill if the relationship dissolves?

i am not drumming up business for myself -- i am pointing out again how differently i look at the "scene" from the way other women (and Men) do. Sometimes i think P/pl are unreasonably high risk-takers in O/our community regarding planning particularly when children are affected. Who cares if He's everything you ever wanted if He dies or becomes disabled and suddenly there is no money?

pinkpleasures