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simplewhispers -> RE: Large Dominate males (11/26/2007 6:57:59 PM)

and for me its the BODY SIZE.... but to each thier own ......



LadyHibiscus -> RE: Large Dominate males (11/26/2007 7:22:18 PM)

I do like my submissives to be tall and muscular, or at least solidly built.  Luckily I am not tall myself, so height is less of an issue! 



ShaktiSama -> RE: Large Dominate males (11/26/2007 7:25:19 PM)

*giggles*  Nice to see that ungracious bitching about the body size/shape of the available tops is not confined to boysubs.  Now all we have to do is see the Big Boys hanging out a shingle to go pro for this gal, and we'll be living in a perfect world...  [:D]



bipolarber -> RE: Large Dominate males (11/26/2007 7:34:37 PM)

Oh, we're around. Generally, we're known as "bears." I myself am 6'1", and 260, and bi... and it's always nice to hear from someone who likes those of us who don't fit the "gym rat" profile... In the gay world, we bears have our own little world of bars, contact sites, and our own culture's rules... too bad the straight world hasn't quite caught up yet.

Just put it in your profile what you are looking for... I'm sure there's probably an embarassment of riches out there, just looking for someone like yourself.



goodgirl08 -> RE: Large Dominate males (11/26/2007 7:48:33 PM)

Yeah! Australia/NZ is the way to go for enormous men. 20 hours on a plane and you're set...



CalifChick -> RE: Large Dominate males (11/26/2007 7:58:48 PM)

Hmmm, maybe you didn't spray on the "big man come here" perfume?  I would say that over 90% of the men who contact me thru the other side are over 5 ft 10, and even further, maybe 75% are over 6 ft tall.  And I can't remember a single one of them being skinny.  Yummmmy.

I have nothing in my profile about what I like in a man, because I'm not looking (and yes, I do have THAT in there), yet they find me.  As they should. [:D]

Cali



breatheasone -> RE: Large Dominate males (11/26/2007 8:08:39 PM)

My Master is a Yummy 6ft tall, and over 250 lbs.....[:)]   i am 5ft 5. when i'm on my kness in front of Him, He truly towers over me...I LOVE it [image]http://www.collarchat.com/image/s4.gif[/image] 



petdave -> RE: Large Dominate males (11/26/2007 8:16:52 PM)

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ORIGINAL: simplewhispers

when I read *most* of the descriptions for the Dom's they all appear to be thin to me, I want a man with MEAT...... is it something within the lifestyle that keeps you thin?


If so, i'd sure as hell like to know what it is!  Maybe only Dominants get it. They get all the good stuff [&o]



neph -> RE: Large Dominate males (11/26/2007 8:53:13 PM)

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ORIGINAL: petdave

quote:

ORIGINAL: simplewhispers

when I read *most* of the descriptions for the Dom's they all appear to be thin to me, I want a man with MEAT...... is it something within the lifestyle that keeps you thin?


If so, i'd sure as hell like to know what it is!  Maybe only Dominants get it. They get all the good stuff [&o]



It's all the exercise of swinging various implements.



MidMichCowboy -> RE: Large Dominate males (11/26/2007 9:26:51 PM)

I'm a big guy, 6'3" and 230 lbs. I understand the size attraction. I like ladies I can pick up and  throw over my shoulder and carry off. I think it has to do with my Viking ancestory. It made it easier to carry her back to the ship. [:)]



sexyred1 -> RE: Large Dominate males (11/26/2007 9:31:47 PM)

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ORIGINAL: simplewhispers

over analyze it , I  simply that notice that most profiles I READ are from smaller men ....... great for the ladies that want them , I am stating the lack of what I seek only.


Not sure what profiles you look at, because there are a huge amount of larger size men who are Dominant and I have seen and read their profiles, they are in all states.



AquaticSub -> RE: Large Dominate males (11/26/2007 11:41:57 PM)

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ORIGINAL: simplewhispers

I am talking bone structure , I like a man 200+ and taller than five eight.... just my preference.... and I thought they might like knowing that some women prefer LARGER men ....


Yeah... Like I said - I haven't found them to be lacking. My suggestion would be to go to events.



orfunboi -> RE: Large Dominate males (11/27/2007 2:58:50 AM)

While i have to admit, i haven't spent any time looking at male profiles on cm, i have been to quite a few events in the real world, and i haven't noticed any lack of "larger" men in the scene. Maybe if you change your criteria when you search, you will have better luck. If not, find a local munch and go out and meet a few people, maybe that will help your perspective some.



Owner4SexSlave -> RE: Large Dominate males (11/27/2007 3:16:03 AM)

Son of a bitch, I can't help it.  I'm 5'10" and weigh in around that 175 lbs range.  I eat like a pig and still can't put on weight to save my life.   I have a high Metabolism.   I'll probally never have to ever worry about my weight because a lot of people in my family are this way as well.      



bandit25 -> RE: Large Dominate males (11/27/2007 3:22:38 AM)

I'm with pinksugar.  I'm the same height and it's nice to feel "small" once in a while.



camille65 -> RE: Large Dominate males (11/27/2007 3:29:08 AM)

I've noticed it too simplewhispers and I have my search criteria wide open. To me a guy who is 5'10" is  not a big guy (sorry guys) because I'm 5'7".To me a 'big guy' is 6' plus. Not an obese guy, but a guy with build.  It's kinda funny, some of the responses you got IMO...I cruise profiles when I'm bored so yeah I have noticed it.



YesMistressIrish -> RE: Large Dominate males (11/27/2007 3:31:32 AM)

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ORIGINAL: SmokingGun82

I think you're going to have a Hell of a time finding dominate males, of any size.

But larger dominant male's seem to be plentiful, from my observations.


[:D]



wisteriaV -> RE: Large Dominate males (11/27/2007 3:31:54 AM)

LOL guess size does matter after all![:D]



Focus50 -> RE: Large Dominate males (11/27/2007 3:44:52 AM)

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ORIGINAL: simplewhispers

when I read *most* of the descriptions for the Dom's they all appear to be thin to me, I want a man with MEAT...... is it something within the lifestyle that keeps you thin? Seems like thin and small is all I ever read about ...... five foot five or six and 175 pds seems to be the norm.... gimme more plzzzz

Ahem, six-two and 240 over here....  And then there's all those years of pumping iron....  Lol, unfortunately I've now got the aching joints to prove it.
 
Must be my week - first I've got all these "native American" fem/subs from Nigeria and Sth Africa falling over themselves to serve me and now here's a thread right up my alley....  Let me guess, you're not local, either?  lol
 
Focus.



ELUSIVE1 -> RE: Large Dominate males (11/27/2007 6:06:44 AM)

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ORIGINAL: simplewhispers

over analyze it , I  simply that notice that most profiles I READ are from smaller men ....... great for the ladies that want them , I am stating the lack of what I seek only.
I fondly refer to the size thing as 'the Napolean syndrome'  so many small men seem to need to dominate...I have found that many large men contact me though...I don't have any specific physical criteria on my profile, but I exercise daily to keep fit, and expect the same of a partner



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