LadyLynx
Posts: 1098
Joined: 7/24/2007 Status: offline
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The majority of guys I have dated have been chubby. My last bf was 6'6 and almost 400 lbs. I like guys that are under 6'1. (as Merc pointed out, easier to dance with.) though that are over 185 lbs. I am a switch, but I do love the weight pressing down on me. I would much rather rest my head on my partners chest, then belt buckle. (unless I am in a teasing mood, or we are alone. *winks*) and plus I love the thought of a burly "tough" guy whimpering whenever I hit his butt with a paddle. I don't know about your local community, OP, but in mine there are quite a few big guys, though not alot that are single. Like alot of single people I have in my head a picture of what the perfect guy would be: about 5'7 5'8. between 200 lbs and 300 lbs. fit despite his bulk. but not to muscle-ly. submissive-switch with interests in being a Master. Blond or light brown hair. blue,green,gray eyes. neat mustache and beard. (I don't care for the "mountain man" look. lol) has to be Unitarian Universalist are at least interested in it. has to be okay with paganism. (over the weekend went on a date with a guy who apparently wanted to burn all non-christians at the stake. (I don't have a problem with christians, I respect the religion. lol ok enough digressing!) Ehh. he was to skinny and to vanilla anyways. heh.
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Our community maybe openminded as a whole, but it is still made up of individuals who bring in their own opinions,baggage and agendas! Known as SwitchWitch in my local community,and on IRC Bondage. I also go by the nic SwitchWitch on MDS.
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