What do you look for in a TG Dom/me, Master, Mistress, or Owner

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ShaktiWithLingam -> What do you look for in a TG Dom/me, Master, Mistress, or Owner (11/27/2007 12:18:04 PM)
This question is only for subs and slaves seeking Tg Doms and Dommes.What do subs or slaves look for in a Transgender Owner or Master/Mistress?

breatheasone -> RE: What do you look for in a TG Dom/me, Master, Mistress, or Owner (11/27/2007 12:23:39 PM)
I'm guessing the same as they would non-TG....[:)]

forg0ttenclone -> RE: What do you look for in a TG Dom/me, Master, Mistress, or Owner (11/27/2007 2:03:36 PM)
I would have to agree. Thinking logically, i think one would look for the same qualities and chemistry found in any other Dominant, regardless of gender.

ShaktiWithLingam -> RE: What do you look for in a TG Dom/me, Master, Mistress, or Owner (11/28/2007 2:05:21 AM)
Oddly enough when I have asked what a slave or sub looks for in a male or female Domme I have gotten different answers. I have personally found subs and slaves that approach a Tg Dom or Domme to be fairly aloof. I'll take what I can get though. Thanks to all.

sweets4u -> RE: What do you look for in a TG Dom/me, Master, Mistress, or Owner (11/28/2007 1:26:10 PM)
For me the biggest thing when seeking a Domme or any Domme is intrests that are similar. If the Domme is into Forced Fem or Sissies thats a good start. Also, there has to be some level of attraction to the Domme for me.

forg0ttenclone -> RE: What do you look for in a TG Dom/me, Master, Mistress, or Owner (11/28/2007 2:41:38 PM)
I would say common interests outside of the lifestyle would be much more important, first. You first need to establish that friendship outside of bdsm before any play can take place. But eh, that's just my opinion. If i do not click outside of play... i highly doubt i'd click in play. But that's just me.

rubberpet -> RE: What do you look for in a TG Dom/me, Master, Mistress, or Owner (11/28/2007 5:14:00 PM)
That's very true. I think you have to have a stable foundation of friendship before you can build a D/s relationship. If I were looking for a TG domme, I'd have to click with her outside the D/s side first. But obviously, there has to be that level of attraction before anything could take off.

forg0ttenclone -> RE: What do you look for in a TG Dom/me, Master, Mistress, or Owner (11/28/2007 7:47:39 PM)
Correct you are, rubberpet. Attraction is absolutely necessary in ANY relationship. D/s or vanilla, you have to be attracted to that person, whether that may be physically or intellectually. You have to have that firm foundation of attraction and friendship before anything further can occur. That is regardless of being Transgender or Genetically male or female. Forgive me if i lack the correct terminology. I'm not always the most politically correct in that regard. But hey, i tried. [:D]

BlackSakura -> RE: What do you look for in a TG Dom/me, Master, Mistress, or Owner (12/4/2007 4:39:38 PM)
Being a TS Domme, I can tell you what it seems like guys are wanting.... But this could VERY easily turn into a rant.... ^_^

rubberpet -> RE: What do you look for in a TG Dom/me, Master, Mistress, or Owner (12/5/2007 10:34:27 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: BlackSakura Being a TS Domme, I can tell you what it seems like guys are wanting.... But this could VERY easily turn into a rant.... ^_^ Unfortunately, there are so many game players out here. It really hurts the ones that are actually searching for a solid D/s relationship and it discourages many dommes. Good subbies are out here...just be on the look-out! [:)]

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