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ChainsandFreedom -> "Older White Women Join Kenya's Sex Tourist's" (11/27/2007 1:31:19 PM)

Reactions?
I figure  'G-MILF's' falling into colonial power-play dynamics for some hot age-play has got to fit into collarme WWD somewhere... 
http://www.reuters.com/article/newsOne/idUSN2638979720071126?pageNumber=4&virtualBrandChannel=0

okay, here's my reactions, in the order I had them:

1) a big non-judgemental EWWWW.
2) at least their not paying hard cash to do depraved things to poverty-enslaved minors, like so many male tourist's across the world.
3) who do you think has the power in the bedroom? the young virle stud or the rich socially powerful woman?
4) are these strapping male studs spineless pretty-boys/gold-diggers in pursuit of a high-life or 'taking the power back' for all of colonialism's injustice? 
5) is this on the level of a rich man enticing a good time out of a woman with material goods in the western world; or is this a more sinister form of colonialism, racism, or classim?

please do discuss




camille65 -> RE: "Older White Women Join Kenya's Sex Tourist's" (11/27/2007 1:43:08 PM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: ChainsandFreedom

Reactions?
I figure  'G-MILF's' falling into colonial power-play dynamics for some hot age-play has got to fit into collarme WWD somewhere... 
http://www.reuters.com/article/newsOne/idUSN2638979720071126?pageNumber=4&virtualBrandChannel=0

okay, here's my reactions, in the order I had them:

1) a big non-judgemental EWWWW.
2) at least their not paying hard cash to do depraved things to poverty-enslaved minors, like so many male tourist's across the world.
3) who do you think has the power in the bedroom? the young virle stud or the rich socially powerful woman?
4) are these strapping male studs spineless pretty-boys/gold-diggers in pursuit of a high-life or 'taking the power back' for all of colonialism's injustice? 
5) is this on the level of a rich man enticing a good time out of a woman with material goods in the western world; or is this a more sinister form of colonialism, racism, or classim?

please do discuss

I don't quite understand the 'Ew', or the uproar over this. It has been going on for an awfully long time, a lot of resorts have older women that are 'entertained' by local cabana boys. As a kid I used to watch them, the older women with giant rocks on their fingers being oiled by young nubile men.
It very well could be considered a form of prostitution, the barter of sex for shiny baubles. It could also be a play on the plantation owner angle, but honestly unless these women are forcing the young men then I don't have much of a problem
But my view really could be from seeing it at resorts from a very young age, seeing the women do it as the men were off playing tennis. Seeing the men doing it as their wives were off at the spa etc.
If the young men are doing this for cash or other reward then um.. I hope they get tipped very well (and they usually do). As to the power, IMO it lays in both hands. The women have the power (money) and the men have the power (tight young bodies) so I see a fairly even exchange.
Sinister? I don't think so but I'm sure there are those that will see it as both ew and sinister.




mnottertail -> RE: "Older White Women Join Kenya's Sex Tourist's" (11/27/2007 1:45:25 PM)

And here's to you, Mrs. Robinson,
Jesus loves you more than you will know.
God bless you, please Mrs. Robinson.
Heaven holds a place for those who pray,
Hey, hey, hey

We'd like to know a little bit about your for our files
We'd like to help you learn to help yourself.
Look around you all you see are sympathetic eyes,
Stroll around the grounds until you feel at home.

And here's to you, Mrs. Robinson,
Jesus loves you more than you will know.
God bless you, please, Mrs. Robinson.
Heaven holds a place for those who pray,
Hey, hey, hey

Hide in the hiding place where no one ever goes.
Put it in your pantry with your cupcakes.
It's a little secret just the Robinsons' affair.
Most of all you've got to hide it from the kids.

Koo-koo-ka-choo, Mrs. Robinson,
Jesus loves you more than you will know.
God bless you, please, Mrs. Robinson.
Heaven holds a place for those who pray,
Hey, hey, hey

Sitting on a sofa on a Sunday afternoon.
Going to the candidate's debate.
Laugh about it, shout about it
When you've got to choose
Every way you look at this you lose.

Where have you gone, Joe DiMaggio,
Our nation turns it's lonely eyes to you.
What's that you say, Mrs. Robinson.
Jotting Joe has left and gone away,
Hey hey hey.



Ron Garfunkel




BabyDollVanIsle -> RE: "Older White Women Join Kenya's Sex Tourist's" (11/27/2007 1:57:29 PM)

everyone on the planet is using other people or being used. it is a fact of life that really needs to be faced.

the really salient point is not about using. it is about fair exchange.

as long as no-one is being forced or deprived of choice (such as true slavery), and both parties are satisfied with the exchange, then that is business as usual.

that applies equally to vanilla marriages and cabana boys.

baby doll




mnottertail -> RE: "Older White Women Join Kenya's Sex Tourist's" (11/27/2007 2:02:44 PM)

oooooooooooooohhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh, Jesus!!!! Stop me now!!!!!!

I feel the Eurythmics comin' on------

Ron




ChainsandFreedom -> RE: "Older White Women Join Kenya's Sex Tourist's" (11/27/2007 2:14:40 PM)

As long as you don't mind your romantic and/or sexual life being reduced down to nothing less significant than 'bussiness as usual', I guess I see you're point.





mnottertail -> RE: "Older White Women Join Kenya's Sex Tourist's" (11/27/2007 2:15:58 PM)

Money can't buy you love but it can buy you shit that look a whole lot like it.

Many people would be in for that sort of thing.  Say, wasn't you a prodomme?

Ron




ChainsandFreedom -> RE: "Older White Women Join Kenya's Sex Tourist's" (11/27/2007 2:22:05 PM)

nope, niether of us ever a prodomme, especially the male sub half of our profile who writes in these forums.




Lordandmaster -> RE: "Older White Women Join Kenya's Sex Tourist's" (11/27/2007 2:55:42 PM)

Having a sex vacation in a country with an acknowledged AIDS problem seems like a bad idea to me, but Chacun à son goût.




ownedgirlie -> RE: "Older White Women Join Kenya's Sex Tourist's" (11/27/2007 3:02:43 PM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: ChainsandFreedom
okay, here's my reactions, in the order I had them:

1) a big non-judgemental EWWWW.


I am totally confused as to what you're eww'ing here. 




pinksugarsub -> RE: "Older White Women Join Kenya's Sex Tourist's" (11/27/2007 3:07:27 PM)

i hadn't even thought of the AIDS epidemic.  How sex-derpived can a person be to ignore those risks?
 
pinksugarsub




ChainsandFreedom -> RE: "Older White Women Join Kenya's Sex Tourist's" (11/27/2007 3:26:19 PM)

quote:

I am totally confused as to what you're eww'ing here. 


ownedgirlie,
I'm ewwwing the thought of somebody so unattractive they have to spend like 16 hrs in a plane and at least a grand on a ticket to buy love from somebody who fits a peticular age/race prefereance even while living in a country like England with such open immigration policies.  Plus I'm ewwwing the people, already wealthy enough to go to the trendy tourist clubs and nightspots, who sleep with said desperate grandmothers, just for a couple items of clothing and a fancy meal.




camille65 -> RE: "Older White Women Join Kenya's Sex Tourist's" (11/27/2007 3:44:54 PM)

Dang I don't think I ever thought of 52ish as grandmother material! That is still young-prime of life. I don't see them as sad or desperate either.. in my mind I see them as kicking back and having fun. Paying for it, because they can and there is a market for it.

*am I some sort of old weirdo now?? cuz I would love to have a cabana boy of any background rub oil onto my back poolside. especially after sitting in a plane for 16 hours. [sm=biggrin.gif][sm=biggrin.gif]*




Zensee -> RE: "Older White Women Join Kenya's Sex Tourist's" (11/27/2007 3:52:44 PM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: ChainsandFreedom

1) a big non-judgemental EWWWW.



EWWWW! sure sounds like a judgement to me.


Z.







seeksfemslave -> RE: "Older White Women Join Kenya's Sex Tourist's" (11/27/2007 4:42:35 PM)

Other than health issues I carnt see a problem here at all.
If these laydeees can get what they want in Kenya with male "majors" whats the problem ?

Why they carnt get "it" at home I dont know.




AquaticSub -> RE: "Older White Women Join Kenya's Sex Tourist's" (11/27/2007 4:50:50 PM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: ChainsandFreedom

quote:

I am totally confused as to what you're eww'ing here. 


ownedgirlie,
I'm ewwwing the thought of somebody so unattractive they have to spend like 16 hrs in a plane and at least a grand on a ticket to buy love from somebody who fits a peticular age/race prefereance even while living in a country like England with such open immigration policies.  Plus I'm ewwwing the people, already wealthy enough to go to the trendy tourist clubs and nightspots, who sleep with said desperate grandmothers, just for a couple items of clothing and a fancy meal.


I tend to view sex, assuming we aren't dealing with romance as the article says we aren't, as something of a "You have something I want" situation anyway.

Hot guy in the club is sexy. I want to sleep with him. He has his body, I want it. He thinks I'm sexy, I have something he wants. We exchange goods and services and both come away happy. I think hoy guy in the club is sexy. He doesn't think I'm sexy, but does - for whatever reason - want to ride around in my car, have a good meal free, and hang out at my house. He has no problems having sex with me if he gets what he wants. We exchange goods and services and both come away happy.

As long as everyone is overage and isn't being forced, I really don't give a damn what makes people happy. It's like fretting about adults running around in diapers - not my bag but it isn't hurting anyone.




EPGAH -> RE: "Older White Women Join Kenya's Sex Tourist's" (11/27/2007 5:04:39 PM)

Maybe they went because of some idea that "natives" are rougher than "tame" African-descendants in First World countries...
Or because they wanted to find out if those AIDS medicines really ARE free there? [:D]




Griswold -> RE: "Older White Women Join Kenya's Sex Tourist's" (11/27/2007 5:25:59 PM)

(Who gives a shit?)




camille65 -> RE: "Older White Women Join Kenya's Sex Tourist's" (11/27/2007 5:27:18 PM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: EPGAH

Maybe they went because of some idea that "natives" are rougher than "tame" African-descendants in First World countries...
Or because they wanted to find out if those AIDS medicines really ARE free there? [:D]
 I can't come up with a reply to this. Except for WTF??Tame? Natives?




petdave -> RE: "Older White Women Join Kenya's Sex Tourist's" (11/27/2007 5:29:34 PM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: ChainsandFreedom

I'm ewwwing the thought of somebody so unattractive they have to spend like 16 hrs in a plane and at least a grand on a ticket to buy love from somebody who fits a peticular age/race prefereance


That's what i was thinking... maybe i'm just more travel-averse than the average person, but Kenya seems like a hell of a long way to go just to sleep with a young black man.... i thought they were after a "ride" on a rhinoceros or something else a bit more exotic [&:]




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