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ORIGINAL: brightspot
Seriously though, as I read smith and bottomboy's
words, I think of men who really do only want sex
from women and deep down inside to hurt them, they really hate women and could very well have a high propensity for raping, mutilating and/or murdering women.
I hope you get some form of counseling before any
of that happens.
Missy.
Well thank you, Dr. Phil.
Unfortunately you're quite wrong. But thanks for playing anyway. I'd rathet slam my weanie in a sliding glass door than do anything nonconsentually to a woman. That doesn't mean, however, that I can't be absolutely disgusted by typical women behavior as it stands today.
Think about it. Y'all aren't exactly being placed in the greatest light by the younger women today. There used to be consideration on the part of women. But that seems largely to be a thing of the past. Most I've met are either purely out to hurt men, or they simply don't realize that they way they do things now, was not the way things were done in the past.
Lately, I've come to believe I simply wasn't cut out for a relationship. And seeing the way women are today, I'm quite fine with that. I'd much rather be alone, than to have to worry about trusting a woman again.
Think of it, women have way more ability to 'hurt' men today, and they seem to revel in it.
Sure, men can 'rape' women. That's always been a danger women faced throughout history. But now, men have to worry about things like being taken advantage of financially...they have to worry about having a lovely, happy evening, then being woken up by detectives the next morning because the girl had a 'regret' and 'claimed' rape, they have to worry about a woman claiming that the man is a daddy, despite them never having sex.....and don't think the state will help the man in anyway. In many cases, all a woman has to do is point a finger and say "he's the daddy" and that man is suddenly on the hook for hundreds of thousands of dollars of 'support.'
It's been said earlier in this forum that men are wrong to 'expect sex' from a relationship. What kind of thinking is that? I'm sure we've all heard the hundreds of comedians joking about that very assumption. I'm sure roughly 75-90 percent of men only get into relationships FOR the sex. Like the old joke floating around in e-mail, men exist for 3 simple things in life, if he doesn't have an erection or look tired, make him a sandwhich. Of course those aren't real numbers, and I didn't 'look it up' but think about it, even Ron white says "I'm a pretty loyal dog, but if you expect me to stay on the porch, you're going to have to pet me once in awhile."
And I know there are many men who say they like the whole 'cuckholding' thing or whatever, but people let's be painfully honest, most men will seek sex elsewhere if they do not get it from home. It's in their basic nature. And for you women who say that you have sex with your spouse but you play with other men that you don't have sex with (or some other similar arrangement), I'm not talking to you right now. I'm not because I'm sure your arrangement is such that he whom you do not sleep with is free to sleep with others. In fact, I've seen a few 'open' relationships where the husband and wife slept with each other but not with their part-time subs. They understood, however, that those subs WOULD be sleeping with others. To think otherwise would be naive.
If I need therapy in anyway, it's not because of a desire to hurt women. It's because in every nearly one of the 'relationships' I've had, the girl decided for whatever reason to fuck me over horribly, be it financially or by throwing around the "L" word when they meant nothing of the kind. I think I may actually be developing a fear of trusting women again. If there's something I need to 'talk' about, that'd be it. I've never met a girl who was straight with me. And just for the record, the 'relationships' I'm talking about were all real life honest to goodness girls. Right there in person and not behind a computer screen. Well, all but one anyway.
It's unfortunate that you've had such a hard time. However, maybe you need to take a look at why you are repeating the same pattern rather than assuming all women are like that. You're right people can hurt people in relationships. BOTH male and female. Not everyone has the emotional maturity to have a successful relationship. Those types one should try to avoid.
I have yet to see any person "on the hook for hundreds of thousands of dollars merely because of an accusation of paternity. In fact, paternity tests now run around $90 here. It's very simple to ascertain the truth of the statement without much doubt.
While it's always possible a woman could be raped or a man could be the victim of a false claim of rape, if one lives their life expecting such things, you are correct, relationships would be a miserable and unsuccessful place to be.
I'm sorry you have been hurt. Most of us have at some point. It can make trust more difficult in the future. However, I'm guessing none of the women here are the ones that hurt you and to assume they are all the same is a bit silly, wouldn't you agree?
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