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where you ever with someone - 11/28/2007 8:12:02 PM   
takenbyjohnr07


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who was a great Domnant, but not very good in bed? If so what did you do?

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RE: where you ever with someone - 11/28/2007 8:12:55 PM   
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This will be interesting!  I don't think I've seen as much erotica on the boards as I've seen tonight! 

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RE: where you ever with someone - 11/28/2007 8:13:28 PM   
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Trust me, there are many bad lovers in the scene as there are outside of the scene.

You either repress it, ignore it, change it, or make it work.

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RE: where you ever with someone - 11/28/2007 8:14:59 PM   
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I've been with one I found as a selfish, lazy lover. It a major thing in my mind. I didn't end it because of that but now I think I would, sex is too important in my life.

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RE: where you ever with someone - 11/28/2007 8:15:01 PM   
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quote:

ORIGINAL: takenbyjohnr07

who was a great Domnant, but not very good in bed? If so what did you do?


No but I've been with men where I had to show them what I liked. If they can't take the instruction well I stop bothering with them.

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RE: where you ever with someone - 11/28/2007 8:20:56 PM   
angelslave77


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ditto to aquatic. Sex is to important to me to tolerate a bad lover who is unwilling to learn

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RE: where you ever with someone - 11/28/2007 8:23:33 PM   
juliaoceania


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quote:

ORIGINAL: takenbyjohnr07

who was a great Domnant, but not very good in bed?

No, never been with a great dominant that was not good in bed.

< Message edited by juliaoceania -- 11/28/2007 8:24:16 PM >


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RE: where you ever with someone - 11/28/2007 10:30:49 PM   
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quote:

ORIGINAL: AquaticSub

quote:

ORIGINAL: takenbyjohnr07

who was a great Domnant, but not very good in bed? If so what did you do?


No but I've been with men where I had to show them what I liked. If they can't take the instruction well I stop bothering with them.


in my experience those that did not take instruction well were crap Dominants...

edited to add: its ok to be inexperienced in sex, that can be learned...there are inate qualities of Dominance that cannot be taught and can't be outlined either....at least not by me...


< Message edited by chellekitty -- 11/28/2007 10:32:05 PM >


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RE: where you ever with someone - 11/28/2007 10:35:59 PM   
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Oh, you've met Johnr.

Won't this just please him.

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