Hello, surfing the site

Collarspace Discussion Forums

Home Login Search

Hello, surfing the site

View related threads: (in this forum | in all forums)

Logged in as: Guest

All Forums >> [Community Discussions] >> General BDSM Discussion >> Hello, surfing the site

Page: [1]

Message

<< Older Topic Newer Topic >>

Hello, surfing the site - 11/28/2007 11:10:04 PM

Reage

Posts: 4
Joined: 8/18/2005
Status: offline

so my dear people of like minded intrigue....as an attractive married sub, are there male doms (intelligent and imaginative absolutely essential) on this site, but not in search of a commitment?

Profile

Post #: 1

RE: Hello, surfing the site - 11/28/2007 11:11:34 PM

Reage

Posts: 4
Joined: 8/18/2005
Status: offline

thanks for the welcome!

(in reply to Reage)

Profile

Post #: 2

RE: Hello, surfing the site - 11/28/2007 11:12:49 PM

Reage

Posts: 4
Joined: 8/18/2005
Status: offline

how do i proceed from here/

(in reply to Reage)

Profile

Post #: 3

RE: Hello, surfing the site - 11/28/2007 11:15:00 PM

SmokingGun82

Posts: 575
Joined: 6/19/2004
Status: offline

If a question starts with "Are there" or "Does anyone" or "Do people" or... well, hopefully you get the point... and it's about something that's even remotely possible... then the answer is invariably yes.

_____________________________

It frightens me, the awful truth of how sweet life can be.
- Bob Dylan

Proper capitalization is the difference between "I had to help my Uncle Jack off a horse" and "I had to help my uncle jack off a horse."

(in reply to Reage)

Profile

Post #: 4

RE: Hello, surfing the site - 11/28/2007 11:16:26 PM

MrSpectacular

Posts: 1153
Joined: 8/27/2007
Status: offline

yes and ........no

_____________________________

Yes I am Spectacular and they are real!

(in reply to SmokingGun82)

Profile

Post #: 5

RE: Hello, surfing the site - 11/28/2007 11:21:30 PM

DiurnalVampire

Posts: 8125
Joined: 1/19/2006
From: Nashville, TN
Status: offline

I am sure there are... no matter what you are looking for, there is someone somewhere looking for it.
Good luck

DV

_____________________________

I will be your Dominate if you will be my submit - Fox

Snarko Ergo Sum
If you cannot change your mind, how are you so sure you still have one? -proverb

*Owner of Fox - collared 10/13/07*
VampiresLair

(in reply to MrSpectacular)

Profile

Post #: 6

RE: Hello, surfing the site - 11/28/2007 11:25:39 PM

CuriousLord

Posts: 3911
Joined: 4/3/2007
Status: offline

You're asking if there's a man who will have his way with you in bed, then not want a commitment afterwards?

I'd try to be more helpful, but I'm still laughing.

On another note, I do hope you have the consent of your husband.

(in reply to Reage)

Profile

Post #: 7

RE: Hello, surfing the site - 11/28/2007 11:28:15 PM

laurell3

Posts: 6577
Joined: 5/5/2005
Status: offline

quote:

ORIGINAL: CuriousLord

You're asking if there's a man who will have his way with you in bed, then not want a commitment afterwards?

I'd try to be more helpful, but I'm still laughing.

On another note, I do hope you have the consent of your husband.

Both good points CL, and welcome OP.

_____________________________

I cannot be defined by moments in my life, but must be considered for by the entirety of my existence.

When you fail to consider that I am the best judge for what is right for me, all of your opinions become suspect to me.

(in reply to CuriousLord)

Profile

Post #: 8

RE: Hello, surfing the site - 11/29/2007 5:23:40 AM

bipolarber

Posts: 2792
Joined: 9/25/2004
Status: offline

Oh, no... absolutely not. No Doms hang out here. Try Disney.com instead. I hear that's a pretty hot spot for the male leather dominant crowd.

(in reply to laurell3)

Profile

Post #: 9

RE: Hello, surfing the site - 11/29/2007 8:59:09 AM

DesFIP

Posts: 25191
Joined: 11/25/2007
From: Apple County NY
Status: offline

Certainly, there are married male doms who only want a play/bedroom submissive. I suggest you respond to them, or read profiles and write to them.

However, it is easier on everyone if your spouses are aware of your activities. Makes it easier to plan for one, plus many people will not play with partnered types if everything isn't above board. Too much potential for drama if someone finds out.

_____________________________

Slave to laundry

Cynical and proud of it!

(in reply to bipolarber)

Profile

Post #: 10

RE: Hello, surfing the site - 11/29/2007 9:54:05 AM

proudsub

Posts: 6142
Joined: 1/31/2004
From: Washington
Status: offline

quote:

ORIGINAL: Reage

so my dear people of like minded intrigue....as an attractive married sub, are there male doms (intelligent and imaginative absolutely essential) on this site, but not in search of a commitment?

Welcome to CM. There are a lot of married doms on this site. Look for the word "discrete" or discreet" in their profiles. It might help if you write something about yourself in your profile so they can find you. I agree with those who said life is easier if you have your spouse's permission to play outside your marriage.

I do have a question for you--have you discussed your submssive desires with your husband? That was the mistake i made before i cheated and it turned out He was eager to learn to be my Dom. Good luck with your search.

_____________________________

proudsub

"Without goals you become what you were. With goals you become what you wish." .

"You are entitled to your own opinions but not your own facts"--Alan Greenspan

(in reply to Reage)

Profile

Post #: 11