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ORIGINAL: Kalista07

Darcy and the dark,
i just need to tell You both, that i don't know if it's just because i'm insane, too much time alone on my hands, or what....But Your posts to each other made me cry.......
i hope You are both together again very soon,
Kali

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ORIGINAL: Politesub53

dark my friend, i have just seen this.... Big hugs to you.

Oh and very much appriciated polite one - put the kettle on and I would be around in a jiffy - for more hugs!

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ORIGINAL: adoracat

*hugs dark*

i havent seen Daddy since september, and scheduling around here has been so bad i dont know when i'll be able to see him again.

top that off with the husband coming in with "what would you think about relocating to kentucky?"

and we're in florida, with Daddy about an hour and a half from me.  so.  yeah.  i think about the whole mess and cry...and there isnt much i can do about it.  if we move, we move and that's it.

i'm glad you're doing well with the temporary separation, and i hope everyone gets to be with the ones they care about, soon.

kitten

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ORIGINAL: TemptingNviceSub

Perspective.......I have been straining my brain on how to say this without it coming off as snotty...for this is not my intent..but the written word can be misunderstood..so..anyway...back to perspective...my thought when I read your post was as follows...Be ever so joyful that you have someone to miss...do not focus on the seperation...focus instead on your sense of belonging.......would a snicker bar help??..:0)...Tempting

Tempting - snickers rock!  Better than a mars bar anyday.

No you don't come across as snotty (not to me hey) - it's good to be reminded from all sides.  I am blessed and know it - and I also think it's good sometimes to say 'hey we have bad times too' because sometimes it can come across that when your in a ltr that everything is 'perfect' and it's good sometimes to admit, no - mostly it's great but there still crap you have to work at.
 
It took me a while to get where I am when hes away(blegh although I still fall back occasionally), but as you said - and I think it rocks you did and it's a great reminder - focus on the sense of belonging.  And so I do.
(But its good to vent and whine once in a while to get it out the system ).
 
Peace
the.dark.

_____________________________

RC&dc

love isnt gazing into each others eyes - it's looking forward in the same direction

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ORIGINAL: Darcyandthedark

Hello Cyndi -
Just try and remember that crying is kind of carthartic at times and hugs completely rock so backatcha...Thanks so much ! : )
 
On your thought about dominants being hanging onto the positive better than s-types rings true for me - so no groans because your not alone - WHEW !  : ) helps to hear I am not alone in that thinking..although Darcy is patient enough to teach me how to do it.  I pretty much suck at it, but Im improving with his guidence so that is groovy. yes, at time I ask Tyson " are you sure You are not a saint?" LOL he is so patient when I am just meltingdown.   
 
 
thanks for the response....it meant alot to me.
hug
Cyndi

Be safe
the.dark.

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ORIGINAL: Darcyandthedark

Love it!  Hope you have a kick ass time julia.  I'm just hanging on to hear he has landed safe so that will rock - and then I get next (long) weekend with him.
 
I can't wait to wake up next to him.  I love watching him sleep - it rocks - and what I look forward to is making morning coffee.  Not sure why that leaves such a warm glow but it does - I'm not going to over analyse it - just enjoy it.
 
the.dark.