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first introduction - 11/29/2007 9:40:51 AM

blngsmaster

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Ive been on the website awhile, but never actually introduced who I am or what I'm searching for. I believe a D/s relationship is a beautiful thing, when based on honesty, trust and total commitment to each other. A Dom is more than a guy that can beat the shit out of a woman....they have a tv show for that .....C.O.P.S. the only requisite is a wife beater t-shirt, a beer gut and a trailer. A Dom should know his sub intimately.....to immediately start doling out "punishment " is the mark of a novice and not someone interested in true growth.....of both parties involved. When did truly caring about a sub become a mark of weakness in a Dom.....maybe when too many people started considering themselves as Doms after watching the Spice channel. Any asshole can order a "bitch....down on ur knees and suck my cock".....that doesnt cut it nor does it make u any kind of a Dom.....and the women that think u are arent true subs. Both parties involved are still people, with feelings and emotions....if a sub desires to be beaten and it helps them get to a point they need to....frees them emotionally...then it is a Doms responsibility to make sure his sub is serviced appropriately. But to do so without knowing the damage that u may trigger is irresponsible, and gives D/s a bad name. Two people should grow together into D/s. I guess thats what I'm searching for....a woman willing and desiring to submit....not because she has to, or grudginly at every step, but because she wants, and more importantly, needs to.