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RE: What is a fake domme - 12/1/2007 8:34:19 PM

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I hardly need to say this, but this thread teems with sound advice.

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RE: What is a fake domme - 12/2/2007 7:59:12 AM

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I'd have to get their charter on the definition of Domme, Dom, slave and submissive. When they can prove that they own the charter and that Webster's listens to them and not the other way around, I'd listen to them. Until then, they're just a bunch of presumptuous, pretentious asses if they try and tell you anything other than "Congratulations on testing out this side of your personality!!" One of the most dominant people in our local community was actually almost exclusively submissive for many years before trying out being dominant.

Nobody is a one-sided coin. Tell anyone who tries to tell you to be one to get over themselves.

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RE: What is a fake domme - 12/2/2007 10:44:49 AM

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(The image was a small, harmless graphic; I had missed the fact that it is against message board policy to allow pictures in the body of messages. I apologise for the oversight.)

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RE: What is a fake domme - 12/2/2007 11:01:42 AM

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If it's a problem in your community, come to the Philadelphia tri/state area. It happens and is accepted here.

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RE: What is a fake domme - 12/2/2007 3:23:24 PM

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First of all, I don't think any of us are born sub or Dom/me. Some of us have natural sub/Dom/me insticts, but to say you are born a submissive, is in my opinion not a true statement.
Now to answer your question, a Fake Domme is one who has a fake sub.

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Although I am a born submissive trust issues and mental health issues make me unwilling to play as a submissive. I am thinking I want to play a domme for awhile to get different perspective. I think getting the view from the other side would be heathy and I could (maybe)still find enjoyment by proxy

Would I, a known submissive in my community, be accused of being a "fake domme" if I switched?

And what is a "fake domme" anyway? What would their motives be?

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RE: What is a fake domme - 12/2/2007 3:32:01 PM

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Any woman who can really enjoy dominating a person and has the patience to learn whatever skills she needs is "real" enough for me.

Labels are handy for discussion but too easily limiting when people think in terms of purity tests.

The only fake dommes I worry about are the women who setup as money mistresses thinking it an easy way to get cash out of men.

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RE: What is a fake domme - 12/3/2007 12:52:40 AM

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I find people who call other people fake are idiots. Be who you want to be and love what you do. And just see people who call you fake as evidence of your talent for having an IDS - Idiot Detection System.

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