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searchingforsub -> first meeting (12/1/2007 12:29:50 PM)
I would be interested in hearing masters tell of their first meeting with subs not none to them. I have had only one sub and she was a friend first. How did you first meetings go

mstrj69 -> RE: first meeting (12/1/2007 12:48:10 PM)
I meet a lot of subs at munches but these meetings are not meant for them to be mine. Of the last two prospective subs for me, one was at a restaurant and it went poorly, probably because of a recent breakup with my last sub. The second, I spent a lot of time talking to her online via emails first and then flew her out to meet me. This went a lot better and she is now thinking of being my new sub for good.

CelticPrince -> RE: first meeting (12/1/2007 6:04:30 PM)
searching, For me, my approach is always casual and will never envolve a session. Just a eye to eye meeting. CP

searchingforsub -> RE: first meeting (12/3/2007 5:09:07 PM)
CP, so how do you set up a first meeting

bull4cuckolds -> RE: first meeting (12/4/2007 12:03:55 PM)
My first meeting with my current sub was casual. It was more of a get to know you, play around a little with D/s to see how much stimuli she could endure, etc. We discussed things in depth prior to meeting, but I insisted on a very light-hearted first meeting, to make sure we both were comfortable in the new situation. There was some playful spanking and more love-making than anything. The first meeting was as predicted: it was very nice, but could not compare to the subsequent meeting, where I tanned her pretty little ass red, slapped her lovely face, blindfolded her, roughly ate her ass, pulled her hair, had her lick my cock clean, and face-fucked her, forcing her to worship my hard cock. She seemed to enjoy meeting #2 just as much as I did. By the way, I met my luscious little pet here on collarme.

OldBastardly1 -> RE: first meeting (12/4/2007 12:35:13 PM)
Well, isn't that just lovely........[sm=hair.gif] OP, the majority of first meetings will not result in a connection. Most of the time, one or both of you will decide that you are not a good match. Usually, if the sub is not somebody that I already know, I will exchange a few emails, IMs, phone calls first. Then, if all is going well, I will suggest a meeting at a local function, a munch or at the local dungeon. After that meeting we decide if we want to pursue any deeper involvement, perhaps a dinner date, to allow quality 1 on 1 conversation. I prefer the 1st meeting to be very casual, not even a "date".

adoracat -> RE: first meeting (12/4/2007 4:12:21 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: OldBastardly1 Well, isn't that just lovely........[sm=hair.gif] OP, the majority of first meetings will not result in a connection. Most of the time, one or both of you will decide that you are not a good match. Usually, if the sub is not somebody that I already know, I will exchange a few emails, IMs, phone calls first. Then, if all is going well, I will suggest a meeting at a local function, a munch or at the local dungeon. After that meeting we decide if we want to pursue any deeper involvement, perhaps a dinner date, to allow quality 1 on 1 conversation. I prefer the 1st meeting to be very casual, not even a "date". from the sub's side, i agree with this method. Daddy and i exchanged many emails, and hours of IM's before the first phone call...then probably 10 hours of phone calls (total over a week or more) before we met in person. i've done casual meets at a mcdonalds and sat for an hour or so talking to see where things might go, that just really didnt connect. its like any other process in finding a partner, sometimes you're going to click, sometimes you arent. i went into things with low expectation on first meets, knowing that i'm difficult due to illness, and had to find someone who would be very understanding of me, and didnt expect to meet someone whom i fit with right away. i was ungodly fortunate, it took me less than a month. kitten, thoughtfully

CelticPrince -> RE: first meeting (12/4/2007 5:40:45 PM)
searching, the how is by telephone and that only comes after a good bit of time getting to know each other. CP

SirJohnMandevill -> RE: first meeting (12/4/2007 7:13:32 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: searchingforsub I would be interested in hearing masters tell of their first meeting with subs not none to them. I have had only one sub and she was a friend first. How did you first meetings go My former sub and I chatted via e-mail, IM and phone for a couple weeks, but our first face-to-face meeting was for play. I think we both knew what we wanted from of conversations, so it was a highly satisfying encounter for both of us. But that's probably the exception rather than the rule. I prefer to meet a sub in person casually first, then see how things develop. Les (Purveyor of Fine, Handcrafted Kinkiness)

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