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Straddling The Line - 12/1/2007 5:41:06 PM

broward

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I have a quandry. I suppose I'm a typical man in some ways, adverse to asking advice so just asking the question shows it's a deep quandry. I've always been kinked but I kept it hidden and suppressed until 2002.

I don't know what to do. I'm in the middle. Apparently I've turned into a romantic in the past few years but I'm still attracted to full-figured dominant women. I'm not into the kink world, I don't have much desire to be part of the community or explore all sorts of desires, I'd like to find someone that takes the sexual initiative and control but I desire trust and affection, too.

I'm not comfortable with sites like alt.com which seem too heavy on sex but I don't fit in with the standard personals sites, the women are too timid and vanilla. I spent a bit of time on the outskirts of Seattle's alt community but like alt.com, it's not right. I feel no need to "integrate into the commmunity" to meet women, it's time and effort in areas that I don't care about and I'd be uncomfortable.

I'm not sure what to do.

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RE: Straddling The Line - 12/1/2007 6:25:50 PM

decstorm37

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Well hmmmmm maybe reading on here will help you find what you are looking for. Or you can look on the web and read a little and find out what you like and don't like.

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