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RE: Hair Pulling - 12/2/2007 8:38:12 AM   
LuckyAlbatross


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ORIGINAL: daddysliloneds
don't want to mess up your hair? don't pull it! other than that, what's so hard about putting it back up after it's messed up; i've been doing it for years!

Well I've been doing it for years also, that doesn't make it easy or quick.  My hair is quite thick and even when it's "short" (which for me means above the bust line) it takes a few minutes to brush it back into place and tie it down.  Just grabbing it and putting it up doesn't work for me if I want it to look anywhere decent.

Which if you've taken a lot of time to PUT your hair up into an updo can be fairly frustrating if, two minutes after they compliment you on it, it's falling down because they wanted to do that whole seductive yank thing. 

But again, I learned to just give it up and not expect it to stay neat looking if they were in the hair pulling mood.

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RE: Hair Pulling - 12/2/2007 8:39:19 AM   
IdiotMale


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Status: offline 		I wonder if Sinead Oconnor ever had such problems.

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RE: Hair Pulling - 12/2/2007 8:39:49 AM   
grlneedstolearn


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Status: offline 		My hair is just above the collar line and my Dom can  still grip quite a bit of it when he wants to

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RE: Hair Pulling - 12/2/2007 8:44:15 AM   
sexyred1


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Status: offline 		Messed up hair? Who would even care about that???

God, I love having my hair pulled and getting my ever perfectly maintained make up and hair completely ruined by some savage Dom. I am more upset that it is NOT happening, LOL

Jeez.

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RE: Hair Pulling - 12/2/2007 8:47:43 AM   
LuckyAlbatross


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Status: offline 		Yeah, you're right, cuz going to a work dinner in a fancy cocktail dress and spending money to get your hair into a delicious updo to go out together and pretend to happily socialize with the boss and co workers- why on earth would you care that your hair suddenly looked like a tornado went through it?

Again, I just learned that it was part of the whole gig and smoothed it down as much as possible.

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RE: Hair Pulling - 12/2/2007 10:54:31 AM   
agoodgirl4Daddy


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Status: offline 		Original Quote:  "Braids would be great, braiding leather strips into it with a ring at the very end. A DAMN good hand hold and a great tie point.
A five point hog tie using the ring in your hair to pull your head back, nice little package on display. Beautiful! Be rather hard to actually move in that position I'd imagine...unless you were given a good reason to try. FUN!"     (End Original Quote)    


MMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMM!! That sounds delicious!!!  *wiggles in her seat* 

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RE: Hair Pulling - 12/2/2007 11:00:43 AM   
agoodgirl4Daddy


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ORIGINAL: LuckyAlbatross

Yeah, you're right, cuz going to a work dinner in a fancy cocktail dress and spending money to get your hair into a delicious updo to go out together and pretend to happily socialize with the boss and co workers- why on earth would you care that your hair suddenly looked like a tornado went through it?

Again, I just learned that it was part of the whole gig and smoothed it down as much as possible.



In my not-so-humble opinion, there's a time and place for everything, and I would not have been happy having that happen to me! 

That said, I am a HUGE fan of hair pulling, and i LOVE to look in the mirror after a scene and see my messy red hair framing my mascara-smudged, lipstick-smeared face!!!  mmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmm!!!

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RE: Hair Pulling - 12/2/2007 12:44:15 PM   
Gwynvyd


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Status: offline 		I like the "just been tumbled" look personaly... red, pouty lips from fierce kissing, smudged makeup... tossled hair.. it just says "taken" to me. I like seeing my girl look like that. I love hair pulling from both ends.. and both my girl and I have long hair.. she has hair to her waist.. and mine is just past it over my hips. Some scrunchies and we are good to go. So what if they fall out? the whole sitting up and putting your hair back up can be erotic in and of it's self.

Braids are useful.. and I love the leather thing idea. I braid leather thongs and feathers into my hair a lot. Bells as well. Nothing says Merry X-mas like a slave girl with wee bells jingling in her hair. Esp when she is "excited" LOL

Enjoy your hair,

Gwyn

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RE: Hair Pulling - 12/2/2007 12:48:38 PM   
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quote:

ORIGINAL: LuckyAlbatross

Yeah, you're right, cuz going to a work dinner in a fancy cocktail dress and spending money to get your hair into a delicious updo to go out together and pretend to happily socialize with the boss and co workers- why on earth would you care that your hair suddenly looked like a tornado went through it?



Well, if I had to go to a work dinner and socialize with the boss and co-workers, I would make sure I was going to get ravaged AFTER.

Anyone I was with would understand the importance of work situations. It would be different, if say we were meeting friends for a movie, then I could look a bit more disheveled.

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RE: Hair Pulling - 12/2/2007 1:37:04 PM   
lanie38


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Status: offline 		yum...love hair pulling...I'm not permitted to keep my hair up or tied back (unless it's in two shcoolgirl braids, gotta love handles!) gives him ample hair to grap with both hands..mmm the uses are endless..and I think there's much to be said for the just fucked look from messy hair...

~lanie

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RE: Hair Pulling - 12/2/2007 2:59:13 PM   
Drifa


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Status: offline 		Take just a narrow bit on either side of your face and fasten that with a hairtie high at the back of yoru head and let the rest flow free.   The bit you have tied back keeps your hair out of your eyes, and provides plenty of loose hair to be pulled.

Hair pulling is a treat for me. LOVE it when my Lady stalks in, grabs me by the hair and tips my head back, then kisses me, or bites down my neck... (fans self).

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RE: Hair Pulling - 12/2/2007 8:51:05 PM   
laurell3


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Status: offline 		Being the metrosexual, fashion conscious, shopaholic, hair-styling god that he is, my partner tends to grab my hair and put it in a ponytail himself for me.   I can't honestly say that my hair being messed up is ever really on my mind during a scene personally.


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RE: Hair Pulling - 12/2/2007 8:54:02 PM   
kingbeef31


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Status: offline 		I think you also forgot to mention clothes folding during play.

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RE: Hair Pulling - 12/2/2007 8:56:54 PM   
kingbeef31


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Status: offline 		Laurell3, you know you just love it when I'm able to critique your wardrobe while spanking your nice hinnie.

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RE: Hair Pulling - 12/2/2007 9:44:58 PM   
laurell3


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Status: offline 		Yeah as if I'm actually wearing anything.

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RE: Hair Pulling - 12/2/2007 9:48:44 PM   
LuckyAlbatross


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ORIGINAL: sexyred1
Well, if I had to go to a work dinner and socialize with the boss and co-workers, I would make sure I was going to get ravaged AFTER.

Anyone I was with would understand the importance of work situations. It would be different, if say we were meeting friends for a movie, then I could look a bit more disheveled.

That's good that you have that luxury.  I didn't and still don't at times.

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RE: Hair Pulling - 12/2/2007 9:53:44 PM   
laurell3


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ORIGINAL: Gwynvyd

I like the "just been tumbled" look personaly... red, pouty lips from fierce kissing, smudged makeup... tossled hair.. it just says "taken" to me. I like seeing my girl look like that. I love hair pulling from both ends.. and both my girl and I have long hair.. she has hair to her waist.. and mine is just past it over my hips. Some scrunchies and we are good to go. So what if they fall out? the whole sitting up and putting your hair back up can be erotic in and of it's self.

Braids are useful.. and I love the leather thing idea. I braid leather thongs and feathers into my hair a lot. Bells as well. Nothing says Merry X-mas like a slave girl with wee bells jingling in her hair. Esp when she is "excited" LOL

Enjoy your hair,

Gwyn


My college/grad schools friends and I used to call that the "walk of shame".  You know the getting up the next morning and having to go home and realizing you have to stop for gas on the way walking in wearing a wrinkled dress from the night before with that been fucked hard appearance.

The best example was when I got pulled over for running a stop sign on the way home from a bf's house that was close to mine, barely dressed and a complete mess with bruises showing and a bag of poorly concealed toys next to me.  The cop laughed at me and my embarassment and let me go on my way.


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RE: Hair Pulling - 12/2/2007 9:58:02 PM   
ownedgirlie


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Quick solution to that problem - don't wear it up when going out with the man.  Mr. Wonderful solved this problem for me in that I am not allowed to have my hair up when with him.  He likes it down and yankable, and if we are out and it gets messy, well that's my problem.  And yes, it's been really messed up before going to work before.  So I'd go to work, re-apply make up, and do the best I could with the hair. 

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RE: Hair Pulling - 12/2/2007 11:07:48 PM   
Muttling


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Status: offline 		I LOVE hair pulling (giving and recieving.)    The biggest problem is that mine keeps pulling loose.  :(

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RE: Hair Pulling - 12/3/2007 2:00:25 AM   
MercTech


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ORIGINAL: TLlilone

my Master uses hair pulling as a big part of my training. i keep my hair up at all times, but we find that when He pulls on my hair, it tends to mess up my pony tail. Any advice on how to keep it from messing up?


Have you considered a four platte braid instead instead of a pony tail.. and a rope as the fourth platte.

Stefan

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