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RE: BDSM Opinion Poll - 12/7/2007 11:16:23 PM

MissMagnolia

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If you're so sorry about the public display of silliness, why are you continuing to go on and on about it?

Who the fuck cares?

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RE: BDSM Opinion Poll - 12/7/2007 11:16:30 PM

MissAnthropic

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Laurell,

To be honest I was trying to remove the entire thread, I got some good feedback on the question I asked vis a vis my conduct - sometimes an outsider who doesnt know either of you can give good insight and be helpful. I've clicked away on the Delete my own thread button valiantly but nothing has happened. I'd be happy to have assistance and have it gone.

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RE: BDSM Opinion Poll - 12/9/2007 10:20:21 AM

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Having looked at the poll, it's laughable. You can't say you're into b/d and d/s. You can't say you like leather and lingerie. It's impossible to answer fully.

And that whole bit of being into it to indulge my dark side makes him sound like a perpetual teenager at heart still fixated on Star Wars.

I'm curious as to why the op didn't see him for what he was before hand, unless this was just their second encounter?

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RE: BDSM Opinion Poll - 1/14/2008 10:38:40 PM

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Maya...as the saying goes: "you hit the nail right on the head"

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RE: BDSM Opinion Poll - 1/15/2008 1:07:40 AM

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And Abraxxas you're carrying on this little inappropriate internet drama why? Me thinks thou does protest too much.

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RE: BDSM Opinion Poll - 1/15/2008 6:01:02 AM

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There is no survey there now - that, I guess, shows you how valuable it was.

As to breaking up, it happens, move on. Stay away from things like "especially since he knows my history" - alway assume others are less concerned with your welfare than you are. People who takes other people's histories into account are, more often than not, enablers, you gotta deal with your own "stuff".

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RE: BDSM Opinion Poll - 1/15/2008 9:32:08 AM

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whatever role or mood I'm in, its still the same, whomever has something to ask, should do so fully understanding I will answer in total honesty, if they can't handle that, then they shouldn't be asking the fucking question, this is one of my pet peeves, if the person just wants to hear what they want, fine tell me that and I'll say it, but don't ask what I think and then have a cow cause it was not what they wanted to hear, there are many polite and diplomatic ways to be honest and not mean or rude will doing so

I'd say dude is way out of line askign for opinions then getting all upset when someone critiques him, if you ask, you kinda leave that wide open there ya know, or put a disclaimer saying they only want advice on a certain part of the quiz, I don't know, simply sounds like dude heard soemthing he didn't want to and took it way too personal

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RE: BDSM Opinion Poll - 1/15/2008 11:09:28 AM

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Miss Magnolia your very sexy when you say fuck. All of this bitching was much ado about nothing. What a waste of posting space.

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RE: BDSM Opinion Poll - 1/16/2008 6:18:03 PM

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to give ppl like you a chance to comment......you got nothing better to do??

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RE: BDSM Opinion Poll - 1/16/2008 6:20:45 PM

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gotta love ppl that make assumptions, the poll was move to the poll archive, each month there is a new poll....this "valuable" poll recieved a very good response actually......

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RE: BDSM Opinion Poll - 1/16/2008 7:18:08 PM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: Abraxxas

this "valuable" poll recieved a very good response actually......

Not from me. It was short sighted and assumed there was only one true way in any circumstance. At no point could someone check more than one item, the poll assumed that if you liked A then you disliked B.

I found it so poorly done that I could not answer it. Possibly the people who found it valuable were those who only agreed with it.

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RE: BDSM Opinion Poll - 1/16/2008 7:25:10 PM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: Abraxxas

gotta love ppl that make assumptions, the poll was move to the poll archive, each month there is a new poll....this "valuable" poll recieved a very good response actually......

Wait....didn't you protest earlier the Dom wasn't you and you only knew these people? The poll was poorly written and showed the mindset of someone that had very little knowlege of wiitwd. The original thread which was a trainwreck to begin with is over a month old...why exactly Abraxxas do you keep reviving the drama if it's not about you and you're so disinterested? Now do you understand my question better?

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