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SweetChildOMine -> Daddies/Subs (12/2/2007 4:08:20 PM)

Can someone define a Daddy/sub relationship and how is differs from a "regular" Master/slave relationship? How do the dynamics change? (Trying to figure out the best way to discuss this relationship with my Master)[:)] Thanks! -M




sambamanslilgirl -> RE: Daddies/Subs (12/2/2007 4:21:49 PM)

LA should be here soon with her "easy" button of links for you to read




SweetChildOMine -> RE: Daddies/Subs (12/2/2007 4:31:50 PM)

Thank you!




batshalom -> RE: Daddies/Subs (12/2/2007 5:43:53 PM)

In my experience (of course this may not be true for everyone) a Daddy/daughter dynamic is very nurturing, warm, and not as strict or demanding as an M/s relationship. It is protection and acceptance and love rolled into one fluffy ball, although it is still about unequal authority.




LuckyAlbatross -> RE: Daddies/Subs (12/2/2007 7:04:38 PM)

http://www.collarchat.com/m_1180038/mpage_1/key_daddy/tm.htm#1180053
DaddyDoms

http://www.collarchat.com/m_546688/mpage_1/key_daddy/tm.htm#546972
Another daddy dom question

http://www.collarchat.com/m_541638/mpage_2/key_daddy/tm.htm#541832
How does a dom decide to be a daddy ?

http://www.collarchat.com/m_540044/mpage_1/key_daddy/tm.htm#540129
Daddy's Girl

http://www.collarchat.com/m_278285/mpage_2/key_daddy/tm.htm#278992
What exactly is a daddy dom?

http://www.collarchat.com/m_259176/mpage_1/key_daddy/tm.htm#259184
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chellekitty -> RE: Daddies/Subs (12/2/2007 9:31:43 PM)

i have to wonder if i am that original...i am a Daddy's girl...but i am a slave...i can't be in a relationship with a Master, it doesn't work, i've tried, i have to be with someone that self identifies as a Daddy...but i still need the structure and authority that a slave needs...its a unusual dynamic...and there aren't a whole lot of Daddies that are up for it...
does anyone else know what i mean or am i speaking greek here?




LuckyAlbatross -> RE: Daddies/Subs (12/2/2007 9:43:43 PM)

Yes I understand you, and you are right in that there aren't too many- the good news is that I think they are more prevalent in the leather culture.




chellekitty -> RE: Daddies/Subs (12/2/2007 9:48:14 PM)

i agree...i find myself wanting to go home with lots of gay leather Daddies at national leather events...but they just don't want to adopt any girly kitties...




LuckyAlbatross -> RE: Daddies/Subs (12/2/2007 9:50:26 PM)

LOL yes I'm a constant crusher on gay leather men.  My bit of masochism perhaps?




arayofsunshine55 -> RE: Daddies/Subs (12/3/2007 2:37:12 AM)

For me there really is not clear difference. Many of the attributes some ascribe to Daddys are present in doms who do not use that label.  He's Daddy cause it's a title which reflects the intimacy we both feel.  Any thing else felt too removed to me and that is not what either of us sought.





adoracat -> RE: Daddies/Subs (12/3/2007 6:42:32 AM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: chellekitty

i have to wonder if i am that original...i am a Daddy's girl...but i am a slave...i can't be in a relationship with a Master, it doesn't work, i've tried, i have to be with someone that self identifies as a Daddy...but i still need the structure and authority that a slave needs...its a unusual dynamic...and there aren't a whole lot of Daddies that are up for it...
does anyone else know what i mean or am i speaking greek here?



it makes perfect sense to me, chelle.  that's exactly what i have with my Daddy...i would have said that i was a submissive if asked, not that i was a slave.  Daddy asked me to tell him what my "normal" day is like...

and told me "lil girl, you are a slave, not a sub".  and yes, i'd agree that finding that really good fit is like a needle in a haystack...

kitten




SweetChildOMine -> RE: Daddies/Subs (12/4/2007 7:49:30 PM)

Thank you to all for your answers! W/we have found your information very helpful. 




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