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wideeyedgirl -> Thanksiving day break.. (12/2/2007 9:57:20 PM)
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ive been on CM for about 3 years, was poking around online and involved in the real world to an extent since I was 18. But alot of that time was spent in relationships I thought were right..and I soon releized they were unhealthy. It took a long time til I was ready to try again. Before I even thought I was ready - i started talking to Dan (Sir) in August. He lives about 300 miles away, I wasnt thinking I could move and He didnt seem...tough enough for me. So we talked alot online, but I wasnt seriously considuring Him at first. After a while I started to releize He was..the best thing thats ever walked into my life. It took a while longer til I wanted to admit that tho. I tested Him alot, waiting for Him to repeat painful mistakes from the past..but He never did. Finally sceduales matched up and I flew t *boy are my arms tired - ha ha ha * to see Him wednesday (before thanksgiving) and stayed til sunday. Other than walking past Him in the airport before I was so zoned and sleepy, it was the best long weekend of my life. Hours upon hours of talking. He was everything (and more) He said He was. And I got to see much more than just the Dom side, I saw the vanilla, the man, the possible partner in life side too. Just from doing touristy stuff He would like I liked, to driving around, and seeing where He worked. The BDSM play..was great. It was not intense..rushed or harsh. It was fun..enjoyable...touch kinky...and some of the best *sessions* Ive ever had. And my *rules* got broken fast too (Me: I dont orgasm easily. Him: want to bet? Multiples later.. <blushes>). Sir has been honest about everything, very upfront, wears His heart on His sleeve (like me!) and I dont think I have ever cared about Someone in such a short period of time.. I find myself missing Him daily, looking foward to phone calls, and counting the hours to the next visit (December 14th <g>). Besides just being a wonderful man..He is a fantastic Dom. He knew about all possible problems, respected limits, safe words, encouraged safety calls, and made sure I was happy and all needs were met (ever bringing fruit to the motel I was staying at so I didnt consist on coffee and gas station food on thanksgiving day when He was with family). I dont think Sir and I..would have met any other way..if not for CM. I hope everyone can have as good of an experience as me...
(long term plan. relocation come summer of 2008)
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