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RE: Doms that like "bad" subs - 1/26/2008 6:05:39 AM

Kennyisherenow

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I guess I couldnt see the sense in having a bad slavegirl. I take great pride in training My slave and I am so proud I have a good girl. I would never waste My training on something like this. sounds like this Dom just might like to punish. I feel that punishment should be something neither party likes because the Dominant has failed in training his sub/slave. Therefore, in My opinion, a bad sub means a bad Dom. I suppose there are those that will disagree. I just know when I have to punish a slave I feel like I must do better as a Dom so that they will be good slaves. I cant see the point in a bad slave. I am open to your criticism and argument. I am just saying this is the way that I feel. I think it drives Me to be a better Dom. I wanna be the best Dom I can be in order to be able to train the best slaves. This is My lifestyle and what I fully believe in and I see no point in a bad sub

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RE: Doms that like "bad" subs - 1/26/2008 7:41:28 AM

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quote:

an open long distance relationship

A what? As opposed to what - a "Skype marriage"? If you're going to do a phone relationship, you're going to spend most of your time miscommunicating, as you lack the facial and body language necessary for effective communication between humans. Your questions, in my book, handsomely prove that.

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RE: Doms that like "bad" subs - 1/26/2008 9:44:44 AM

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I`ve always been a "bad subbie" :) And my Daddy loves it. When we talk on the phone sometimes I annoy Him a lot (be impolite and disrespectful) and after that I get a lot of punishments. We do have some limits on that of course, I don`t want to turn into a Mistress :D When He ties me, I always struggle a lot! Really a lot! Sometimes I get open wounds from that! But we like it that way, hopping on the bed like a fish on the land :D Usually I struggle everytime, when He wants to spank me, or to tie me up, though I love those things. It`s just my "role" :D

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RE: Doms that like "bad" subs - 1/26/2008 3:05:47 PM

CalifChick

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FR

Kenny, perhaps you could start new threads instead of resurrecting old ones?

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RE: Doms that like "bad" subs - 1/26/2008 4:37:00 PM

SirJohnMandevill

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I suppose it depends on how my sub and I would define "bad" as a Dom/sub couple. My former sub would fit in the "good" sub category, so I really don't have the "bad" experience. But let me share some ideas running thru my cortices....

I love the idea of a struggle. Overpowering my sub would just add to what is a big turn on for me: my sub's utter helplessness.

Doing some real-time thinking here, I'm getting turned on by the idea of my sub not taking a spanking/flogging/whatever passively. Perhaps calling me a bastard or a son-of-a bitch after every few strokes so I could pull her head up by her hair and either tell her to shut up because it will mean even harder punishment or slap her face. Basically, the more she complained -- the "badder" she was -- the harder I'd punish until she finally "surrendered."

Just my .02 zlotys. Your milage may vary.

Les (Purveyor of Fine, Handcrafted Kink)

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RE: Doms that like "bad" subs - 1/26/2008 4:55:54 PM

mxupldy

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Sir,
good evening and really would like to say that reading what You said about the more a sub complained the harder You would punish her until she finally "surrendered". just the idea of harshly yet caringly being given what i deserved
for not doing as i should has made me rather moist.excuse me Sir i shouldn't of said that to You.i won't bother You no more...

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RE: Doms that like "bad" subs - 1/26/2008 6:23:25 PM

SirJohnMandevill

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quote:

ORIGINAL: mxupldy

Sir,
good evening and really would like to say that reading what You said about the more a sub complained the harder You would punish her until she finally "surrendered". just the idea of harshly yet caringly being given what i deserved
for not doing as i should has made me rather moist.excuse me Sir i shouldn't of said that to You.i won't bother You no more...

Bother away! I was pretty much at half-staff thinking about it myself!

Les (who seldom goes off half-cocked)

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RE: Doms that like "bad" subs - 1/28/2008 8:51:41 AM

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Les does half cocked mean a person with a small cock. If so what size is a half cock. Cali what size is it before you have to resurrect it. Im to old to get a new one. To the op. There is nothing wrong with what you consider a bad slave. That type may be someone elses dream slave.

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RE: Doms that like "bad" subs - 1/28/2008 12:37:49 PM

CalifChick

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Ray, if it's the size of a thread... just play Taps and bury it and call it a day.

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RE: Doms that like "bad" subs - 1/29/2008 5:01:42 AM

Dnomyar

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Cali I need you to blow the trumpet or the trumpet player.

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RE: Doms that like "bad" subs - 1/29/2008 9:39:23 AM

CalifChick

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You're giving me a choice? What kind of DomlyUberDom are ya???

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RE: Doms that like "bad" subs - 1/29/2008 11:02:01 AM

Dnomyar

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Im the trumpet player. Win win for me. I get to see you blow something.

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RE: Doms that like "bad" subs - 3/10/2008 11:45:45 AM

adrian28

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My love is an uber brat and requires lots of disicpline. I love to torment her for hours even days for "bad" behavior. As always, there are limits to what is punishable and what I simply won't tolerate.

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RE: Doms that like "bad" subs - 3/10/2008 12:08:28 PM

RedHotAndSoSexy

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God, I hope Doms like "bad" subs, otherwise I am in big trouble....

What did Mae West say? When I am good I am good and when I am bad, I am even better.

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RE: Doms that like "bad" subs - 3/10/2008 7:13:48 PM

mstrj69

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If worried about actually doing somethings that have been suggested, try writing it down in a journal that you were thinking about doing it and then let him read the journal. He can come back with "wish you would have" or "glad you did not" and thus you get an idea of what he likes or dislikes while still being good.

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RE: Doms that like "bad" subs - 3/15/2008 6:11:36 AM

Imaticklor2005

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I for one like to be challenged at times in my authority.Not in a way that she would disrespect me but more in creativity and honesty.It keeps things alive ,exiting and establish boundries aswell as desires.Dont think anyone likes a submissive to be a knodding idiot that just does whatever ordered.Will be a huge bore soon and you'll never learn a thing bout whats beneath it all. If you cant just talk about it be creative in how you approach it and study his reactions and take it from there.Bodylanguage, tone of voice and very importent eyes are often a dead give away if someone likes something or not.Even if they say it dont turn them on you'll often see in the eyes if they tell the truth.
Cheeky behaviour is never a bad thing it shows playfullness and reminds him you also have personality.
A personality he wants to dominate.Give him that chance to dominate so he gets more confident in his role.
I likes the ideas of sending him pics or movies in like all innocence like hey look what i found.
Let him know bit by bit what turns you on and take it from there and study the reaction.
Might wanna considder getting a webcam or something if you havent already.
As for the being bad part at work environment or something else close to your established life be very carefull.
Never cross the boundry of your own morality ,how exiting it may be sometimes it can turn out really bad in the end.
Would be better if you'd do something naughty in an environment which doesnt have connections to your real life.
Like going somewhere in a short skirt without undies and accidently let some stranger see by bending over and then tell him about your little adventure.
All in all creativity is the keyword and just enjoy without crossing the line.

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RE: Doms that like "bad" subs - 3/15/2008 7:26:14 AM

Imaticklor2005

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Ooh for the toys you could check out : http://www.frugaldomme.com/frugal.htm
Has some nicee ideas on DIY toys and also a bunch of links to other sites that provide plans on how to make your own toys out of ordinary household items.Dont know how crafty you are but some are fairly easy.
I like the idea of DIY cause it takes effort, time and dedication instead of just buying stuff.

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