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I need my sub space - 8/14/2005 1:38:08 PM   
fastlane


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Status: offline 		O.K. you guys have read my profile. I'm a Dominant male...that's my story and I'm sticking to it. However, I did play the bottom for FemDom4u2besub while I was in California two weeks ago and very much enjoyed the experience. It began with a thread I started on CM and ended with an invitation to meet her in Cali, which I persued.
Now, part of the intoxication of being with FemDom, is her looks. Very beautiful, as you all know, if you've read her profile. Secondly, was the way she handled me. Knowing I had never subbed before, she stripped me and tied me the door and made me watch FemDomme porn for what seemed like forever, before she began her play.
I have always been in control and love the power that it entails, but to be rendered helpless and tied up like a calf about to be branded, was a turn on that I never knew existed. Will this make me a switch? No! However, it will make me a stronger Dom as I understand better the feeling of submissiveness and the eroticism that surrounds it now.
I don't think I experienced sub space, but I did experience things and places that I never thought I would, which expanded my horizons and my views.
Femdom4u2besub was an experience I shall not forget and one that I would repeat again....with her. Why am I sharing this with you all?

She's making me do it!

I'm not a sub and I'm not gay, but I do want to please her and do what she say! LOL, cause she has skewer's and other sharp shiat that not only hurts, but scared the shiat out of me.

O.K. Pile on...and I know you all are going to, but I will have the last word.

DOM, Kevin I swear!

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RE: I need my sub space - 8/14/2005 1:43:43 PM   
ragdoll


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From: New England
Status: offline 		ohhh, how interesting :) thanks for sharing... ~~

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RE: I need my sub space - 8/14/2005 1:44:42 PM   
Fidelity


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Joined: 8/1/2005
Status: offline 		I'm really happy that you enjoyed it.

I started on the bottom about a decade ago-was told it was "The thing to do" Silly me,I believed it.

The fact that my sex drive evaporated under her influence told me volumes about myself-the Fem Dom was less than pleased when I broke it off with her. I never switch these days-I know better.

The beauty of this is that we all differ to some extent. You do what you like,and I'll do the same.

< Message edited by Fidelity -- 8/14/2005 1:45:19 PM >

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RE: I need my sub space - 8/14/2005 1:47:23 PM   
nella


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Joined: 12/30/2004
From: Norway
Status: offline 		i am happy you enyoyed it. Wonderful.

i myself are submissive, but i am also sadistic, i guess i might evolve into a switch that focus heavy on the submissive side eventualy.

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RE: I need my sub space - 8/14/2005 2:09:46 PM   
fastlane


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Status: offline 		LOL @ Nella...well the experience, although good, was also confusing. I don't think a switch is right for me.....Sadistic though...hmmmm, that may be why I feel like a horny lil devil?

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RE: I need my sub space - 8/14/2005 2:55:24 PM   
quietlilone


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Status: offline 		fastlane, good for you. It's a good experience in my opinion. I do not think it makes you a switch, but more of a well rounded Dom who can now relate to his submissives on a whole new level.

when I started out I was told that some of the best Doms were those that had experienced what a sub does. I wonder if that would work both ways? I don't think I could ever control someone, just not in me. But a good idea to ponder.

Have fun and good luck on this new journey.

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RE: I need my sub space - 8/14/2005 3:03:59 PM   
fastlane


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Status: offline 		quietlilone

Thankyou for your reply and I have to say...you are hotter than the sun on a rock in Arizona! Hmmm, nice pic...see, I am a Dom!

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RE: I need my sub space - 8/14/2005 3:05:06 PM   
femdom4u2besub


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Status: offline 		A little humility and humiliation is good for the Dominate Soul….thank you…we’ll work on that sub space thing…

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RE: I need my sub space - 8/14/2005 3:07:04 PM   
fastlane


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Status: offline 		Dominate is a verb...to Dominate one's will. Dominant is a noun. Kevin is a Domanant.
We'll work on that too!....Evil grin

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RE: I need my sub space - 8/14/2005 3:11:37 PM   
femdom4u2besub


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Status: offline 		I stand corrected!

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RE: I need my sub space - 8/14/2005 9:17:49 PM   
EmeraldSlave2


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Status: offline 		A week after the boyfriend had his first serious scene as a bottom I was discussing how he felt about his orientation. The only thing he said he was sure of was that he could never give up bottoming as a masochist because of how great subspace was.

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RE: I need my sub space - 8/15/2005 8:29:38 PM   
kisshou


Posts: 2425
Joined: 2/11/2005
Status: offline 		LadyAngelika wrote this whole great explanation about being dominant but bottoming in a scene, I am sorry I don't remember which thread because it was awesome. Maybe you can email her, I haven't seen her on the boards much lately.

I am glad you had such a great experience, can we email FemDom4u2besub with ways we would like to see you tortured? oh yeah and where are the pics :P

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RE: I need my sub space - 8/15/2005 8:44:47 PM   
fastlane


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Status: offline 		e mail me for the tortured aspects of you deviant mind and pics will follow. I swear!


Damn, I thought you liked me?

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RE: I need my sub space - 8/15/2005 10:06:14 PM   
sultryvoice


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Status: offline 		I don't think a good Dominant needs to have been submissive for a time to be good. But I do think an experience like you had Fastlane does make one think twice..I am glad to see you enjoyed that experience. You found the right person to share it with. She is quite attractive too...

Respectfully,
sultry

Who loves to see, give and have a red ass!

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RE: I need my sub space - 8/16/2005 2:11:45 AM   
CalliopePurple


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Joined: 11/29/2004
From: SeaTac area
Status: offline 		I am a D/s Dominant, but an S&M bottom. Pain and other kinds of sensation are fun. I'm almost hoping I don't move before the next play party here so I can see if one of the guys plans on following through with his threat to hogtie me and see if I can get out.

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Kimi ni aitakute dare yori mo aitakute
hajimete kimi ni atta hoshizora no shita de.
Kimi ni tsutaetai todokanai omoi demo
boku no kokoro wa mada kimi o sagashiteiru.

Gackt - Kimi ni Aitakute

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