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Dom Males / Masters seeking sub males - 12/5/2007 3:13:15 AM

iwearpanties

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hello Sirs

just wonder if any out there have every had or do seek a submissive male too train and work over .. if you have are there any diffrances you see between Female subs and males subs

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RE: Dom Males / Masters seeking sub males - 12/5/2007 5:10:11 AM

mnottertail

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Other than the obvious difference in equipment, the persona of male subs is generally groveling, less fluent, shallower...at least on these boards...

I suspect you get them home and they are petulant little bitches that are constantly topping from the bottom.

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RE: Dom Males / Masters seeking sub males - 12/5/2007 11:15:50 AM

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Since my Dominant doesn't write on the message boards, i'll answer for him.

Yes, there are Doms who enjoy working over a male sub. Since he's a male he knows how far he can go with CBT and takes it to the edge. He's more sadistic with males then he is with females.

Some male Doms will not work a male sub for fear of being labled "gay" or "bi." In their home territory they engage in strictly male/female play. I've also seen these same Doms work a male sub when they are far away from home where no one will see and tell on them.

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RE: Dom Males / Masters seeking sub males - 12/5/2007 3:10:55 PM

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Admittedly, because I prefer to Dom sexually and have no sexual interest in men, I don't Dom men. That's how I operate. I have, however, given advice to Dommes regarding their male pets; I have no compunctions about sharing ideas to help improve anyone's relationship.

That does, of course, assume the advice is asked for.

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RE: Dom Males / Masters seeking sub males - 12/5/2007 5:24:25 PM

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panties,

peppermint hit it right on the head, most stright Dom's are concerned with the label of gay, but it does occur.

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RE: Dom Males / Masters seeking sub males - 12/8/2007 3:39:52 AM

iwearpanties

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i was thinking that my self shame isnt it that once again a lable or soceity can make one turn away form some thign them may realy like or be into even if its behind closed doors . as for being sexual witha Male Dom i dont think theres any sex ive neerv had it witha Mistress and i think it was the same with Doms only domination no sex but then as a sub i guess im worng for thinking this way ??//

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RE: Dom Males / Masters seeking sub males - 12/8/2007 6:24:57 AM

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as for being sexual witha Male Dom i dont think theres any sex ive neerv had it witha Mistress and i think it was the same with Doms only domination no sex

Even though there need not be any sex during BDSM play for many people, it can be a very intimate type of play versus having a drink in a bar with buddies. Many times the male sub is naked. The fact that a male Dom would put his hands on a naked male sub could be reason enough for some to label that Dom as gay or bi.

As for whether sex happens with BDSM play....that is strictly up to each individual couple. Some consider sex a necessary part of their play. Some separate sex and play completely. You might want to search for one of the several threads on the forum that deal with this. If the Dommes you have been with are ProDommes, then it is against the law for any sex to take place during a session.

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