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is it possible.. - 12/5/2007 9:38:07 AM   
chya


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Status: offline 		Is it possible to be a slave with a sadistis streak and how do you fill that need??
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RE: is it possible.. - 12/5/2007 10:04:27 AM   
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Status: offline 		You are probably going to get the same answers here that you will on the other thread you started just like this one in the "General BDSM" section

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RE: is it possible.. - 12/5/2007 11:00:22 AM   
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Is it possible to be a slave with a sadistis streak and how do you fill that need??


It is certainly possible.  The solution is to find a Dominant with a masochistic streak.  At the point, Topping from the bottom is perfectly acceptable.  Before you ask me, yes, there are Dominants who are also masochists. 

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RE: is it possible.. - 12/5/2007 11:21:06 AM   
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RE: is it possible.. - 12/5/2007 3:03:05 PM   
Lumus


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I don't mean that literally; cross-posting is frowned upon.



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RE: is it possible.. - 12/5/2007 5:15:13 PM   
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Same topic, different thread, if your gonna switch, then do it.

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RE: is it possible.. - 12/5/2007 11:34:51 PM   
MasterFireMaam


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Status: offline 		Yes, it is possible. Find someone to Top. Maybe you're lucky and your Master likes to bottom on occasion...so you get to Top AND serve at the same time.

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RE: is it possible.. - 12/6/2007 12:36:49 AM   
neoanimaru


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Status: offline 		Yes. Find a Master with a masochistic side. This does not mean they become the bottom or the slave the top. It only means they decide to allow their slave to perform such acts upon them in accordance with their wishes. Perhaps the Master in question is a switch and decides to order their slave to act as a top for a time. While during that time the slave would technically be a top it would only be technically as they were ordered into such an act. I think the easiest way to describe this situation would be the master would be topping from the bottom. My .02.

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RE: is it possible.. - 12/6/2007 4:50:13 PM   
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Status: offline 		This topic has been brought up before.  Yes, there are plenty of sub/slaves that have some sadistic tendencies.  Not all of those actually switch.  How you do it depends on your relationship and what you agree upon.  Maybe you don't at all.  Maybe you play with others.  Maybe you perform some acts at his direction.  Maybe you switch.  It's all relative to whom you are with and what you negotiate together.

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RE: is it possible.. - 12/6/2007 4:50:58 PM   
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RE: is it possible.. - 12/6/2007 4:53:00 PM   
DarkDaddyZ


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Status: offline 		I'm a top who likes girls that pack for sexual play.  Many think that's bottoming. I don't.  So given the OP's question I'd say yes.  Also there are plenty times that I've had bottoms co top with me who didn't identify as a switch as they were doing it to please me and it turned them on but they never liked topping unless in was in a similar situation.

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RE: is it possible.. - 12/6/2007 4:58:44 PM   
gorgeous1


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Status: offline 		Yes. I truly don't have a sadistic bone in my body unless I am forced to deal with a complete idiot. Last night, I honestly wanted to wad a piece of paper up and shove it into this man's mouth like a ball gag. I imagined his slobber dissolving the paper so the words on it would be easier for him to comprehend.

I have also thought of making Hillary Clinton sniff the crotch of her own pants suit after a hard day on the campaign trail.



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RE: is it possible.. - 12/6/2007 6:11:23 PM   
MzMia


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quote:

ORIGINAL: chya

Is it possible to be a slave with a sadistis streak and how do you fill that need??


The answer is simple, change your orientation to being a switch.

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RE: is it possible.. - 12/8/2007 1:42:23 AM   
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Status: offline 		It doesn't matter what labels you choose to call yourself, what does matter is what works within the paremeters of your relationship/dynamic. If it feels good, then by all means experiment further, if it makes you uncomfortable then stop.

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RE: is it possible.. - 12/8/2007 5:53:01 AM   
julietsierra


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Status: offline 		Of course it's possible. I do it all the time. I give tests.
Oh yea... and prayer in schools is alive and well. I know this because... I give tests.

Written tongue in cheek of course...hehehehe... mid-terms are coming up.



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RE: is it possible.. - 12/8/2007 9:16:09 AM   
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quote:

ORIGINAL: Lumus

Ask A Switch. 

I don't mean that literally; cross-posting is frowned upon.




There are submissives that have no desire to switch, yet like to inflict pain... S and M have nothing to do with dominance and submission


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RE: is it possible.. - 12/8/2007 3:24:32 PM   
laurell3


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quote:

ORIGINAL: julietsierra

Of course it's possible. I do it all the time. I give tests.
Oh yea... and prayer in schools is alive and well. I know this because... I give tests.

Written tongue in cheek of course...hehehehe... mid-terms are coming up.



juliet


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RE: is it possible.. - 12/8/2007 4:34:30 PM   
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< Message edited by laurell3 -- 12/8/2007 4:35:24 PM >

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