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Should I? - 12/5/2007 9:43:47 AM

chya

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I consider myself a slave.. Though at times I have considered going Dominant. I have not met anyone for a good Master/slave relationship in the past 6 years. I have a lot of toys that I desire to learn how to use and I do have a sadistic streak in me... Should I try the other side till I find what I think I need? Is it worth it?

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RE: Should I? - 12/5/2007 9:47:41 AM

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RE: Should I? - 12/5/2007 9:52:15 AM

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I always defined myself as a sadist and I am a submissive woman. So being sadistic isn't relevant to what your orientation is. Find where your sadism lays - in play? It could be you like to top occasionally. Darcy and I have been together and he has assisted me in finding my masochistic side. I do not rule anything out since meeting him.

My suggestion is do not get caught up in the semantics of labels. As long as you state clearly in your profile what you are seeking, people who are interested in pursuing a relationship and who are worth your effort will read the profile and discuss it with you. Just take the time to discover yourself first before you enter any serious relationships. And welcome to CM!

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RE: Should I? - 12/5/2007 9:59:36 AM

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You should consider yourself ...YOU...and why wouldn't you experiment and find out what you like?

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RE: Should I? - 12/5/2007 11:00:08 AM

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Chya,
Go for it, nothing ventured, nothing gained.

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RE: Should I? - 12/5/2007 11:57:43 AM

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Its called being a SWITCH. Try it you may like it.

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RE: Should I? - 12/5/2007 12:24:57 PM

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