RE: needs some advice

Collarspace Discussion Forums

Home Login Search

RE: needs some advice

View related threads: (in this forum | in all forums)

Logged in as: Guest

All Forums >> [Casual Banter] >> Polls and Other Random Stupidity >> RE: needs some advice

Page: << < prev 1 [2]

Message

<< Older Topic Newer Topic >>

RE: needs some advice - 12/5/2007 2:57:47 PM

SageFemmexx

Posts: 240
Joined: 1/2/2007
Status: offline

What? Doesn't your sn say "valleyslave"? That means he has the right to do or say anything as "Master". Frankly as slave you don't have the right to decide if his communication is disrespectful or not. That's the way it works, if you want rights you have to change the TPE.

(in reply to DesFIP)

Profile

Post #: 21

RE: needs some advice - 12/7/2007 9:43:06 AM

DesFIP

Posts: 25191
Joined: 11/25/2007
From: Apple County NY
Status: offline

quote:

ORIGINAL: SageFemmexx

What? Doesn't your sn say "valleyslave"? That means he has the right to do or say anything as "Master". Frankly as slave you don't have the right to decide if his communication is disrespectful or not. That's the way it works, if you want rights you have to change the TPE.

Hell of an assumption there. So if before he collared her he agreed to no others, including play, sex, emotional intimacy, cyber, phone etc then you
are saying that the moment he puts the collar on he can announce "ha, ha I lied" and she has to accept it?

The op didn't mention the agreements their relationship is based on. However from the fact that this came as an unwelcome discovery I believe it is safe to venture that the dom here carefully "forgot" to mention he was planning to troll online for other subs.

Because what she needs to be in a relationship is fine, no matter what it is. And if he knew he didn't want that then he should have said first thing they weren't compatible.

And him telling her one thing to lure her in and then deliberately doing what he knows will destroy her trust and make her rethink staying in the relationship shows they have major relationship issues.

_____________________________

Slave to laundry

Cynical and proud of it!

(in reply to SageFemmexx)

Profile

Post #: 22

RE: needs some advice - 12/14/2007 11:50:31 PM

YourhandMyAss

Posts: 5516
Joined: 6/25/2006
From: Sacramento
Status: offline

you seem to be interjecting very strong feelings that were not stated. Talking to someone on ims isn't trolling, nor is it cyber sex, nor is commenting on her figure cyber sex, and she never said he said one thing and then did another, she asked if commenting on other women was disrespectful to her.

quote:

ORIGINAL: DesFIP

quote:

ORIGINAL: SageFemmexx

Hell of an assumption there. So if before he collared her he agreed to no others, including play, sex, emotional intimacy, cyber, phone etc then you
are saying that the moment he puts the collar on he can announce "ha, ha I lied" and she has to accept it?

The op didn't mention the agreements their relationship is based on. However from the fact that this came as an unwelcome discovery I believe it is safe to venture that the dom here carefully "forgot" to mention he was planning to troll online for other subs.

Because what she needs to be in a relationship is fine, no matter what it is. And if he knew he didn't want that then he should have said first thing they weren't compatible.

And him telling her one thing to lure her in and then deliberately doing what he knows will destroy her trust and make her rethink staying in the relationship shows they have major relationship issues.

(in reply to DesFIP)

Profile

Post #: 23

RE: needs some advice - 12/15/2007 3:43:51 AM

Daddysredhead

Posts: 23574
Joined: 11/6/2005
From: Northern (yet still part of the South) Virginia
Status: offline

Dear OldBastardly1 and Ron...

You two almost turned an innocent morning of reading my beloved P&ORS into a solo scene involving watersports as I nearly pissed myself reading your replies!

You're both wickedly naughty!!! (And I'm strangely drawn to that like a magnet!)

Unexpectedly aroused & easily amused,
Red

_____________________________

Founding Member, Clan of the Scarlet O'Hair-a's

Do not challenge me to a battle of wits & come to fight unarmed.

Are you really that stupid? ~ Bless your heart

13th doughnut

(in reply to YourhandMyAss)

Profile

Post #: 24

RE: needs some advice - 12/15/2007 1:55:23 PM

NaiveTempest

Posts: 345
Joined: 11/20/2006
From: North Carolina
Status: offline

To the OP:

If it really bothered you, don't come to us about it, go talk to your Master. I would probably looked at the pic and said DAMN! too. Then I'd ask her all kinds of questions over the IM (if Master allowed) about her body to also let her know it was a package deal.

_____________________________

"All the things I should have said that I never said/All the things we should have done that we never did/All the things I should have given, but I didn't.../Give me these moments back..."

Kate Bush, "This Woman's Work"

(in reply to Daddysredhead)

Profile

Post #: 25