Grlwithboy
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ORIGINAL: Vanatru it's really an existential question. Dispite wisty's oh-so-helpful reply, I'm sure it's really more like it was either something that was always there, or something that eventually revealed itself. For me, I've always been most comfortable when I'm leading, when I have a group of people that I can weave their talents together for constructive ends. Many times I have also been dissatisfied with how management has handled the product, people, and/or customers, so it's possible there is at least some superiority or competition is involved, at least where management is involved. It's a basic approach and way to relate to other people and the environment. Not that I HAVE to dominate everyone and everything around me, or that I have to control all situations (control being an attempt to deal with fear), only that I tend to draw people to me and be a leader. If you actually mean topping during play, probably the easiest answer is, it's what gets you off. Meh, socially I'm a lone wolf. I don't want to be in charge of anyone or have anyone in charge of me either - I've never noticed any overarching Dominant trend, but I will go to bat like crazy if I think something's not right.
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