synrgy33 -> RE: First Meeting (8/16/2005 10:20:57 PM)
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First, sorry TopinMichigan, I honestly don't always look at peoples pictures. So my apologies, I'll do more in the future. Thank You Padrig Sir for a most excellent post. You are totally correct and I like the base of Your meeting for the first time. I do think it's important that submissives arrive first. I've personally never had problems in meeting Doms for the first time in a public place, they've always insisted on it. Mostly, if they got weirded out by some of my expecations/rules if you will, then I didn't meet them. You usually can tell red flags when you're talking to someone whether they'll be agreeable or not. I had one instance where I had a few small misgivings but I think now it was because I was so new, everyone weirded me out, lol. But I took friends to the resturant with me, and they sat in various places so they could see me. The Dom I met was very impressed and later at the end of the lunch requested to meet my friends so He could thank them for being so caring. stephanie~SD~
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