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What are you.... - 12/6/2007 9:32:25 AM   
worththeeffort


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getting your Dom/me for christmas?

i'm STUMPED and admit, i'm trolling for ideas lol.

and yes, i know, i know, "something special that has meaning for the two of you" blah blah, nice sentiment, but not a helpful one.

~kitty
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RE: What are you.... - 12/6/2007 9:34:29 AM   
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find a place to pack the child off for the weekend, and go all out cooking and cleaning and loving and ----------

Make it available............

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RE: What are you.... - 12/6/2007 9:40:34 AM   
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Although Jarl and I don't celebrate Christmas in the traditional way (read that to mean "not at all") we've decided that we have given each other a great present.  I just relocated this week.  On the 25th, I'm thinking a red bow sash across my naked body with a sprig of mistletoe in my belly button.  Probably doesn't help you much.  

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RE: What are you.... - 12/6/2007 9:45:31 AM   
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Kudos to justheather (pippy greystockings)

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RE: What are you.... - 12/6/2007 9:48:43 AM   
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quote:

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find a place to pack the child off for the weekend, and go all out cooking and cleaning and loving and ----------

Make it available............

Ron


Like this idea.
Unfortunately though life gets in the way of life and the 70 odd hours im working a week would prevent this. Maybe He could clean for me.......
 
I'm searching for the perfect representation of Sirs inner demon for Him for christmas.

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RE: What are you.... - 12/6/2007 9:59:38 AM   
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Well i'm getting him a book that i (think) He will like. Does your Dom have any hobbies? If He/She likes to read or hunt fish maybe something to do with that or whatever the hobby is.

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RE: What are you.... - 12/6/2007 10:11:37 AM   
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Still working on that...

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RE: What are you.... - 12/6/2007 10:12:24 AM   
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This is where having a Miss with Wish lists comes in very handy!

I have chosen a combination of fetishy (gotta love a pyrex candy cane dildo!) for the D/s dynamic AND a few items that relate to her hobbies.  The fetish stuff is fun, but I think it's important to acknowledge that the relationship is more than just Domme/slave by giving gifts that one of her non-kinky friends would give as well. 

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RE: What are you.... - 12/6/2007 10:45:10 AM   
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Everything he wants and then some.  Yes, I know that is vague but you really have to know the person you are shopping for.  Their likes and dislikes.  Then you can find the perfect gift.

What my dom likes versus yours can be a whole world of difference.

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RE: What are you.... - 12/6/2007 12:07:57 PM   
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A 50 inch lcd television and the Lord of the Rings movies...along with Underdog.
 
I think that is pretty romantic
 
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RE: What are you.... - 12/6/2007 12:26:46 PM   
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I've gone with really boring 'nilla stuff (work shirt and tie, book, sweets, socks, a few other little bits). It's all very dull, but he'll like it all.

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RE: What are you.... - 12/6/2007 12:28:18 PM   
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The only gift I can say now is one we bought together- a signed Scott Jacobs print of a Softail called "Pumping Iron". We saw it at Harley and I knew it would go in His living room perfectly. As for the others.....I can't tell you yet what I got Him (He reads the boards), but two of my um's chipped in (teenage boys) and got Him the movie 300 for Hanukah. He thought it was wonderful. They bond over this testosterone-laden stuff. I roll my eyes.
 
In the past I have gotten Him a silver men's bracelet engraved with an "M". It is His initial, but we knew it was for Master. And for His birthday, I got Him an MP3 to use for the gym.
 
Does your Master like porn? How about a subscription to sexandsubmission? I know I'd love that (). But really, electronics for men are always good.

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RE: What are you.... - 12/6/2007 12:31:15 PM   
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A green fleece robe to go with His green Godzilla slippers , a Saints candy jar filled with His favorite hard to find candy and something else that I haven't decided on yet.

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RE: What are you.... - 12/6/2007 12:43:11 PM   
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One year I got him a custom kangaroo hide flogger in his favorite colors- purple and black.

This year, nothing kinky, but a HUGE sacrifice on my part...an xBox 360. I asked for a grommet setting tool and steel busks and stays and coutil cotton. I cannot wait to sew my first corset. I am also watching ebay for an open bottom girdle with fan lacing...I have an absolute fetish for vintage lingerie. I also want a red vinyl bullet bra and matching garter belt with 12 garters.

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RE: What are you.... - 12/6/2007 1:03:59 PM   
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We are in the middle of a home remodel, and usually each year I listen very closely to all the things he says he hopes he gets to get ideas....but this year he has constantly said to everyone who asks that all he wants is Lowes gift cards. And its not helping me out one bit. Ive got $40 stashed away from spare change and the occasional dollar or two I find in the laundry so I dont have to go the embarrassing route of having to ask Daddy for money to buy his own present with...but I have NO idea what to buy, his birthday is 3 days before christmas, so it always makes it extra hard for me.....

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RE: What are you.... - 12/6/2007 1:25:10 PM   
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Hey nothing wrong with making their favorite fancy dinner...or dessert..
As I tell the UM's...ANYTHING you make I will like....think from the heart not the wallet...

Now that being said I don't have an artistic bone in my body and I can't cook to save my life. But I did learn how to make his favorite dessert from scratch...So that he knows he's special...and I'm the Domme!



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RE: What are you.... - 12/6/2007 1:33:17 PM   
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This Christmas is very special cause first one wearing his collar :)
I decided to get a artist friend of our's to paint a self portrait of me he loves snakes and me, so in this I have his snakes wrapping around my body parts and I'm bound it's an adult pic for our playroom .I even had him add some boobage lol ,I hope it's done in time but that's my gift to him .
                                                                   ~~~~~Doll

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RE: What are you.... - 12/6/2007 1:48:35 PM   
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Wellll...

He already got his main present a few days ago (a huge white deaf cat named Beethoven), but next on the list is a nice warm fleecie robe, a gift card to Borders, and a few Ohio State items (Go Buckeyes!). Sports fans are so flippin' easy to shop for, I swear. Anything Broncos or Buckeyes and he's happy.

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RE: What are you.... - 12/6/2007 2:12:57 PM   
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Two words: Spa Treatment

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RE: What are you.... - 12/6/2007 2:13:33 PM   
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whatever they like and don't need of course! it's about fun, not about sentimental value, etc.! one thing i know for sure, the men in my life don't like clothes. they say clothes are a necessity, not a present!

if i had the money, i'd get him a duplicate of the digital camera i bought for my son; his eyes lit up like a kid in a candy store when he saw it. he also said, "i want one", ha, ha, ha

the next thing if i had the money to get him is a swiss army knife pocket watch; he love, love, lovesssssssss pocket watches.

so, it looks like i'll be getting him a ryobe cordless drill and a set of heavy duty bits. he loves my drill (i got it for christmas for myself last year) and even though he has a great black and decker drill, he wants one just like mine! he has misplaced his heavy duty bits somewhere along the way in a recent move and he's always complaining about forgetting to buy them on his last trip to lowes.

i also thought about a gift certificate to this great barber i know for a straight-razor shave for him, as well as a gift certificate to his favorite book store because he's a history aholic and i could never even begin to go there when it comes to selecting the right thing!

consider yourself lucky that you only have christmas to worry about. the one i'm buying for has a birthday on christmas eve!!!!!!!


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ORIGINAL: worththeeffort

getting your Dom/me for christmas?

i'm STUMPED and admit, i'm trolling for ideas lol.

and yes, i know, i know, "something special that has meaning for the two of you" blah blah, nice sentiment, but not a helpful one.

~kitty



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