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sybrkitten -> New here and frustrated already! (12/7/2007 4:01:51 AM)
I am new here, but apparently I've gotten off to a bad start..... I have been interested in BDSM for a long time over 10 years, but have a limited experience, due to a vanilla marriage. I was told this was a decent place to come to meet people, and learn things. I like to think I am an intelligent person, despite the fact I am blonde, I'm not an idiot. I thought I was joining this site to make friends, and maybe meet some people, and learn things....... I joined, created a profile, and I added a recent pic, and not so recent pic. By recent I mean with in the past couple of months, and yes.....I know I need to take new ones! However, I have never been accused of using someone else's photos, and I take offense at being told that I am a liar and a fake, because the pics on my profile are not my own, when IN FACT THEY ARE. So, now I'm thinking that perhaps I was wrong........I'm trying to learn about the site, but the attacks are just a bit much for a new person here. Certainly not a way to make one feel welcome. Or to make one want to stay. I'm just feeling very frustrated at being called a liar, when I put myself out there, including my own pics :( Kitten

CelticPrince -> RE: New here and frustrated already! (12/7/2007 4:55:11 AM)
kitten, Welcome to CM and the variety of interests and personalities here. Sit back, make friends and enjoy the good. CP

AMaster -> RE: New here and frustrated already! (12/7/2007 9:19:05 AM)
You are going to run into all types here. Ignore the jerks. Enjoy the others. Mostly CM is a great place to interact.

AMaster -> RE: New here and frustrated already! (12/7/2007 9:21:25 AM)
PS: I'd be happy to take some new photos of you. [;)]

carlie310 -> RE: New here and frustrated already! (12/7/2007 9:23:22 AM)
The worst interactions I had were within the first week or so of joining. I think some idiots just keep watching for new women. It gets better. You know if your pics are fake or not, so if they aren't, just block the idiots.

Bcome1WithMe -> RE: New here and frustrated already! (12/7/2007 11:51:33 AM)
HI there dont feel that way Ive been here for over a year and there are some mean people here and some nice ones hang in there James ................kisses

CliarSiofra -> RE: New here and frustrated already! (12/7/2007 12:49:10 PM)
They are right all kinds here. the more recently ones are definately better. You have nice eyes that the older one doesn't show.

gapeach258 -> RE: New here and frustrated already! (12/7/2007 1:15:01 PM)
I am new here also and got bombarded with so many e-mails from men just wanting to play I took my profile off. I decided that I wasnt going to let some of them scare me away so I put it back on. Good luck to you and I hope you find whatever it is you are looking for.

ToyMaster96 -> RE: New here and frustrated already! (12/7/2007 2:10:31 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: AMaster You are going to run into all types here. Ignore the jerks. Enjoy the others. Mostly CM is a great place to interact. kitten, I agree with this statement...it's true, you'll indeed run into all types here. Ignore all that try to be rude and send you inappropriate messages. Please don't let a few bad apples spoil your entire time here and cause you to leave the site.

anjelikDreams -> RE: New here and frustrated already! (12/8/2007 7:01:35 AM)
Please stay kitten. No matter where you go you are going to find a few idiots who try to spoil things for you. Just ignore them and go about your day. Make it mind over matter sweety, you don't mind cause they don't matter. Anyone who is willing to take the time to know you will know the real you . Enjoy the site and have fun.

Sirandlil1 -> RE: New here and frustrated already! (12/8/2007 7:02:13 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: sybrkitten I am new here, but apparently I've gotten off to a bad start..... I have been interested in BDSM for a long time over 10 years, but have a limited experience, due to a vanilla marriage. I was told this was a decent place to come to meet people, and learn things. I like to think I am an intelligent person, despite the fact I am blonde, I'm not an idiot. I thought I was joining this site to make friends, and maybe meet some people, and learn things....... I joined, created a profile, and I added a recent pic, and not so recent pic. By recent I mean with in the past couple of months, and yes.....I know I need to take new ones! However, I have never been accused of using someone else's photos, and I take offense at being told that I am a liar and a fake, because the pics on my profile are not my own, when IN FACT THEY ARE. So, now I'm thinking that perhaps I was wrong........I'm trying to learn about the site, but the attacks are just a bit much for a new person here. Certainly not a way to make one feel welcome. Or to make one want to stay. I'm just feeling very frustrated at being called a liar, when I put myself out there, including my own pics :( Kitten Allow U/us to welcome you...like everywhere you will find all types here...some good some not so good...stick around a bit and you may even find just what you are seekings...we did [:)]

kaytm -> RE: New here and frustrated already! (12/8/2007 11:56:43 AM)
Welcome to CM.... just let the stupid stuff some people will say roll off your back. I have had people tell me that i am fat, which well i am, but hi you don't need to tell me. just take a deep breath and move on. If the person keeps on buggin' you block them. just that simple.

sybrkitten -> RE: New here and frustrated already! (12/8/2007 3:13:47 PM)
Thanks for the replies everyone. I guess I'll just take it one message at a time. ;)

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