Tigrita -> RE: Sharing (12/8/2007 2:02:05 PM)
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ORIGINAL: DesFIP Tigrita, even if it wasn't detrimental to our relationship for me to indulge a taste for strawberry, it would be detrimental for me. I can't have sex just to sate a shallow desire. I need an emotional connection. I've done the no connection sex, and even when they were friends it just doesn't work. I'm wired for monogamy, sex and play both. Otherwise I just feel bad about myself. I respect that. I guess maybe that is one thing that could be at the heart of it. Whether you can meet someone or know someone fairly casually and have that drive of 'God, do I want to fuck them!' (and seriously mean it) without a desire for an emotional relationship. Honestly it doesn't happen often with me, but I can have sex without emotional attachment. My relationship with my ex was an open relationship in theory, but I never had the urge+opportunity to indulge that for about a year. Heh, when the urge+opportunity did arise, it also became clear that he wasn't as comfortable with an open relationship as he had claimed. Another pitfall of the situation. No, it certainly doesn't work for everyone.
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