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RE: picking on Doms - 12/7/2007 2:45:53 PM   
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RE: picking on Doms - 12/7/2007 2:50:00 PM   
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Status: offline 		I bought a small toy cowboy hat (we DO live in Texas) that would exactly fit the 'Little head' when it gets bigger.  I keep the hat in plain sight and often ask, beg, cajole, plead, etc to be allowed to help him try it on for size. So far no luck.

I also sometimes act very 'sultry' in bed and start as if to give him a blow job and then literally "blow a wet raspberry" instead.  usually ends with a good cuff to my head, hair pull, maybe a slap, and being pushed back down to make good on the idea.

And yes, a sense of humor is an imperative for both of us.
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RE: picking on Doms - 12/7/2007 2:56:16 PM   
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Status: offline 		The only consistant ribbing I get, from both boys, is about my lack of a decent sense of direction.
Angel has offered to draw me maps in crayon, with bright colors for the streets i am supposed to follow.
Fox just mentions often how it concern him sometimes that I am the brains of the operation.

Nothing that has gotten either of them much ore than a playful smack on the ass yet.

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RE: picking on Doms - 12/7/2007 4:38:57 PM   
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RE: picking on Doms - 12/7/2007 7:08:00 PM   
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Status: offline 		Poke, poke. Look innocent.

Actually I sat up last night in bed, in the dark, without my glasses and managed to hit him in the nose. But because I couldn't see it really wasn't my fault. Besides he moved right when I got up. No intent and that matters.

Otherwise hit him with a pillow once. He nailed me with it when he threw it back. I didn't think you could throw one that hard.

Tickle him but that usually gets reprisals, which is frequently a good thing, btw.

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RE: picking on Doms - 12/7/2007 7:19:07 PM   
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Status: offline 		I personally, no longer have a Dom, but when I was with him, I'd call him Princess Sprinklepie when he'd get all girly about not wanting to go do yard work cuz he'd get all dirty.  And I thought it was kinda cute when I'd have a stubborn moment and he'd finally give up and say "Fine, whatever", and I'd key in, "Does this mean youre my bitch now?"  He haaaaated that...But it was all in good fun.  We were really in tune with each other, and I always knew when I was approaching a line...

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RE: picking on Doms - 12/7/2007 7:21:11 PM   
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RE: picking on Doms - 12/7/2007 8:22:19 PM   
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quote:

ORIGINAL: defiantbadgirl
I think Doms like it when subs act bratty. It gives them a reason to spank. Any other good ideas anyone?

LOL more insight to just why you just can't maintain a functional relationship.

We tease eachother constantly about everything.  We tease eachother about how we tease eachother.  Just spend an hour with us and you'll get enough for a year.

But pick on?  Not so much.  That's when we're cranky.

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RE: picking on Doms - 12/8/2007 5:58:48 AM   
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RE: picking on Doms - 12/8/2007 6:16:36 AM   
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Status: offline 		yesterday, i called him eeeeevil and a mean ol man.  he laughed at me.  :)  then again, we were in teasing/playing mode at the time.  he's silly Daddy a lot because he likes seeing me laugh. 

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RE: picking on Doms - 12/8/2007 9:37:52 AM   
kaytm


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Status: offline 		I am a brat, and I often get in trouble for teasing Daddy and pickin on him, but oddly i do it anyway.  Lately I have just been teasing him bc he is shorter then me.  Ok so we are the same height, but I wear tall shoes. :)

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RE: picking on Doms - 12/8/2007 10:05:31 AM   
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Status: offline 		Being bratty should be used with caution and sparingly, many doms do not approve and will quickly tire of a sub being a PITA or view them as trying to top for the bottom, there is a fine line between being fiesty/playful and being a brat

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RE: picking on Doms - 12/8/2007 10:36:16 AM   
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Status: offline 		Can you please clarify on it? Picking on someone could mean a host of different terms from every person. Thank you

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RE: picking on Doms - 12/8/2007 10:54:56 AM   
KatyLied


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Status: offline 		Why would you "pick on" a person whom you've invited to share your life?  I don't understand.  If you mean fun teasing, that's one thing.  But a specific plan to pick on a person whom you do (or should) hold in high regard?  I don't get it.

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RE: picking on Doms - 12/8/2007 11:00:15 AM   
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quote:

ORIGINAL: defiantbadgirl

I think Doms like it when subs act bratty. It gives them a reason to spank. Any other good ideas anyone?

As a side note....my Daddy and I agreed at the beginning that if He wanted to whip me He just would....I didnt have to act out to get that


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RE: picking on Doms - 12/8/2007 8:52:57 PM   
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Status: offline 		On the other side, when they brat up is when I stop disciplining them physically, remove that from consideration and give them things to do that they WONT enjoy, otherwise, why in the hell would it be punishment?  I think of that as reward, or just because I want to.

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RE: picking on Doms - 12/8/2007 9:02:02 PM   
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quote:

ORIGINAL: untrainedKajira

2 simple words "act bratty"



yea thats a good one ive got that one down pat.  lmao

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RE: picking on Doms - 12/8/2007 10:40:37 PM   
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ORIGINAL: defiantbadgirl

I think Doms like it when subs act bratty. It gives them a reason to spank. Any other good ideas anyone?


While this may be true for some, the only reason my Master needs for spanking (or doing anything else to me) is that he feels like it.

He finds brattiness to be disrespectful, and I have no desire to be such with him.

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RE: picking on Doms - 12/9/2007 4:58:10 AM   
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quote:

ORIGINAL: defiantbadgirl

I think Doms like it when subs act bratty. It gives them a reason to spank. Any other good ideas anyone?


SOME Doms might like having an excuse to spank but hardly all of them.  my Master would not like me to be a brat ever... tease... of course, we tease each other all the time.  There are times when even bdsm activities are just plain funny!  my Master's reason to spank?  Well, i have a bottom and He has two hands...

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RE: picking on Doms - 12/9/2007 6:14:45 AM   
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Status: offline 		It's a safe bet to say that one person's bratty is another person's playful teasing. My husband and I banter/bicker all the time in ways that might make some D/sers raise their eyebrows and slap the bratty label on me. But we actually communicate very effectively that way (think the stereotypical Italian family dinner table), and he knows me well enough to know I'm just being myself, not an immature little bitch.

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