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domcpl3234 -> very simple question for a Mistress or Dominant woman can answer with experience (12/7/2007 7:17:34 PM)

im a dominant female searching for a sub to be my slave. what are the question i should ask for precausion to meeting her? simple questions so maybe she maybe come comfortable soi can get her and then the questions tat come in hand of stds or stuff like that. any Dommes wanna answer?

Miss Samantha




Laura -> RE: very simple question for a Mistress or Dominant woman can answer with experience (12/7/2007 9:50:10 PM)

It really depends on what you want from the relationship. I don't think anyone else can answer that. If you are as honest about what you want that will help anyone you meet understand where they stand and make it easier for them to meet you as they will know what to expect. 




beltainefaerie -> RE: very simple question for a Mistress or Dominant woman can answer with experience (12/8/2007 7:39:17 AM)

What kinds of things would make or break a decision for you?  Certainly the people I am entering a ltr with need to have proof of a recent STD screening and be willing to provide sexual history if there is to be sexual contact.  What kinds of service do you wish?  THat will determine some of the questions you might ask, as the necessary skills will be important.  If you want a maid-type, then they need cleaning skills.  If you want a pleasure slave, they need sexual skills that mesh with your tastes.  If you wanted a gardner, or someone to help you run your finances, those require different skills, too, so your questions would be different.  Many people could do all these things, but it is important to figure out what you want before you can find a match.  I see from your profile that you want a maid/service oriented slave, but what skills are a must in that for you?  Figure that out and some questions could be related to that.  Also, what personality traits do you find appealing?  What about you and your partner do you think that would they find desirable?  Finding a partner is all about finding interests and personalities that mesh.  It takes time, but is fulfilling when you do find each other.  However, maybe I have misunderstood your question.  Also, I would suggest to anyone trying to attract partners in venues like this: proofreading or typing slower.  Some of your post is hard to read.
Good luck in your search!




AMADF -> RE: very simple question for a Mistress or Dominant woman can answer with experience (12/8/2007 5:45:31 PM)

Agree with beltainefaerie that is actually hard to understand the post, and also is very unprecise. "slave. what are the question i should ask for precausion to meeting her".

If by precausion you mean safety (wich is not a minor issue) the basic question is: who you are?. Make sure to have his real name and have a phone that he/she reguallary answer. Its just not that good idea to have a session with someone you dont even know his real name. Also its a good idea to have first meeting in local club or a coffee shop, an hotel room is no the best place to meet someone, specially if thing go wrong.

If possible, have first session at a munch party, or have a fiend that knows exacly where, when and with whom your meeting. Then you compromise to call him lets say two hrs later to let him know everything its ok. This person should be trustable enough to not only undestand your lifestyle but pick you up wherever you are if you dont call (since this will be a sign that something went terribly wrong).




AFlyInYourWeb -> RE: very simple question for a Mistress or Dominant woman can answer with experience (12/8/2007 6:46:41 PM)

I see from your profile that you are a couple.  Sit at a table and take turns being interviewed by each other.  Write down the questions you want to use later. 

Then you can take turns anticipating and answering questions she might ask you.




MasterFireMaam -> RE: very simple question for a Mistress or Dominant woman can answer with experience (12/8/2007 8:26:17 PM)

What would you ask a potential vanilla third? That's a good place to start.

Master Fire




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