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RE: "Age, race, and looks unimportant" - 12/7/2007 8:21:55 PM   
laurell3


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No Lumus.  But if you send me an email saying hey bitch suck my cock, I'm not talking to you either .  That's what I meant by creepy.

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RE: "Age, race, and looks unimportant" - 12/7/2007 8:25:16 PM   
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No, that's when they say "Pulse unimportant."

(Truth-in-advertising laws require me to admit that I stole that joke from Eddie Izzard.


ROFL OMG we re-watched that again like 2 weeks ago.  "Pulse optional."

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RE: "Age, race, and looks unimportant" - 12/7/2007 8:26:12 PM   
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I love that video!

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RE: "Age, race, and looks unimportant" - 12/7/2007 8:26:46 PM   
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This question is of particular interest to me at the moment.....


Personality is DEFINITELY far more important to me than looks or race.  I once thought that age, race, and looks didn't really matter to me but I am now confronting the reality that they do hold meaning.  I'm not terribly picky on appearances, but I am not without concern as I once thought I was.

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RE: "Age, race, and looks unimportant" - 12/7/2007 8:27:37 PM   
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I'm thinking the Helen Keller School Of Proper Approaches.

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RE: "Age, race, and looks unimportant" - 12/7/2007 8:28:00 PM   
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quote:

ORIGINAL: LuckyAlbatross

quote:

ORIGINAL: dcnovice
No, that's when they say "Pulse unimportant."

(Truth-in-advertising laws require me to admit that I stole that joke from Eddie Izzard.


ROFL OMG we re-watched that again like 2 weeks ago.  "Pulse optional."




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RE: "Age, race, and looks unimportant" - 12/7/2007 8:32:34 PM   
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ORIGINAL: laurell3

No Lumus.  But if you send me an email saying hey bitch suck my cock, I'm not talking to you either .  That's what I meant by creepy.



I would never tell you to suck my cock, but you can kill one of my hens...



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RE: "Age, race, and looks unimportant" - 12/7/2007 8:33:46 PM   
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I'm sorry but causing the death of fowl is a hard limit for me. 

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RE: "Age, race, and looks unimportant" - 12/7/2007 8:35:05 PM   
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Yeah, no fowl play please.

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RE: "Age, race, and looks unimportant" - 12/7/2007 8:39:59 PM   
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Did sombody say something about foul balls?

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RE: "Age, race, and looks unimportant" - 12/7/2007 8:42:44 PM   
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Did sombody say something about foul balls?



Yes, but the ointment is helping me clear right up.



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RE: "Age, race, and looks unimportant" - 12/7/2007 8:44:15 PM   
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quote:

ORIGINAL: Lumus

quote:

ORIGINAL: breatheasone

Did sombody say something about foul balls?



Yes, but the ointment is helping me clear right up.



.....nice. I love a fellow smart ass


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RE: "Age, race, and looks unimportant" - 12/7/2007 8:49:55 PM   
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a) Open-minded. To expound, someone who is mature and comfortable enough with themselves to not judge others based on age, race, or looks.

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RE: "Age, race, and looks unimportant" - 12/7/2007 8:56:51 PM   
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When you see that in a profile, do you think:

a) Open minded
or
b) Desperate?

Akasha



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RE: "Age, race, and looks unimportant" - 12/7/2007 9:01:40 PM   
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I tend to think they're not much in touch with themselves. Most of us, if we are really honest, do have preferences in these areas.

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RE: "Age, race, and looks unimportant" - 12/7/2007 9:03:14 PM   
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I say something similar on my profile, and I hope it doesn't make people think I am unattractive or desperate!

In fact, personal appearance is very important to me. I expect people I am interested in to be clean, well groomed, and attractive to ME. It's simply that age, race, and body type rarely play a role in what I do or don't find attractive. I mention specifically in my profile that I am often attracted to people with a slightly larger body type. I've dated drop dead gorgeous guys that could be models for Calvin Klein and felt absolutely no desire to have sex with their hot skinny selves, but my libido goes gaga for the more cuddly guys, many of whom often feel like an attractive woman won't look at them twice because they carry a few extra pounds. And women, well, I just find more curvaceous women more attractive period, in all ways. So I always say something about this in my profile

I myself am very tall and slender and relatively fit. I can't explain why I am attracted to the people I am attracted to, but it has nothing to do with codifiable characteristics like age, race, or appearance. It's something chemical. This is another reason that I refuse to have online and LD relationships.

Maybe I'm just more in touch with my animal side, but I've met people and thought "Totally not my type, god I want to fuck them!"

My aesthetic sensibilities and my body chemistry are often at odds, because my aesthetic sensibilities are influenced by my culture, while my body chemistry is not.

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RE: "Age, race, and looks unimportant" - 12/7/2007 9:14:55 PM   
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Looks unimportant concern me.  Age doesn't as much.  Race doesn't at all.

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RE: "Age, race, and looks unimportant" - 12/7/2007 9:26:09 PM   
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I always find that when I fancy someone they become more beautiful by the day.
Age never were an issue for me, as long as they are not younger then me, which is hard come-by in places like this, coounting percentage that is.
Race isn't an issue either.

When one learns from every experience diversity is prefered, no?

Lee

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RE: "Age, race, and looks unimportant" - 12/7/2007 9:33:13 PM   
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ORIGINAL: AAkasha

When you see that in a profile, do you think:

a) Open minded
or
b) Desperate?


Neither.  I try to avoid assumptions.

I think I used to use a line similar to that back when I was younger, before I started realizing how few people on this planet I can truly tolerate.

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RE: "Age, race, and looks unimportant" - 12/7/2007 9:38:59 PM   
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ORIGINAL: AAkasha


When you see that in a profile, do you think:

a) Open minded
or
b) Desperate?

Akasha



c) they looked at other profiles when writing theirs

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