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A question on collars for other slaves like me - 8/15/2005 4:51:42 PM   
Hallittlelolita


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Status: offline 		Hi I have a question about collars maybe you can help with this. My Master/Husband ordered me a collar online and I was wondering is there usually a celebration when a slave gets collared or do they just slap it on. It took four years for my Master/husband to get in the scene and it's finally happening YAY. any info will be very appreciated thank you so much.

Sincerely,
Andie and her Master Hal
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RE: A question on collars for other slaves like me - 8/15/2005 6:02:32 PM   
mnottertail


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Status: offline 		Same thing as everything else.
Celebration or ritual is something that oft times sets a mind.

A wedding, an offsprings graduation from high school, and many other things are celebrated or ritualized to fix the moments and the ideas they stand for.

A funeral for instance; rememberance of the death of someone close to you, a trial balloon at closure for the living.

Now, even in my early advancing years, my friends and family are starting to drop into Niflheim or Valhalla as the case may be....there is a slow undoing of my life.....but I am not going to go to anymore funerals because it's a pretty sure bet they ain't coming to mine......This leads me to the next edge.....

A Dom might cop an attitude and just tell you put it on, sit it and shut it....knowing that he made the right choice in the first place and it was a foregone conclusion............

But I know you are still looking for consensus and some validation here after a fashion......little one...those days are behind you now, or should start fading...............

Talk to your man! what you decide between you that you want is all that matters.

Happy merry jolly Ho Ho Ho! on your collaring,
I'll tip one for You and Yours regardless of how you two decide to handle it...........

XO to you both,
Ron



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RE: A question on collars for other slaves like me - 8/15/2005 6:44:14 PM   
LadyJulieAnn


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Status: offline 		The celebration is what you both want it to be. There are special collaring ceremonies out there, if you both feel you'd like something more formal. I personally like "The Ceremony of the Roses".

http://www.castlerealm.com/library/roseritual.shtml

Congrats to you both

Be well,
Julie

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RE: A question on collars for other slaves like me - 8/15/2005 7:04:28 PM   
EmeraldSlave2


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Status: offline 		Totally depends on what you want. Some people go all out and make it like vanilla people have weddings. For me, every time I have been collared was out in a parking lot just me and them.

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RE: A question on collars for other slaves like me - 8/15/2005 7:15:50 PM   
fastlane


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Status: offline 		I'm jumping up and down and clicking my heels, because I'm celebrating for you and because I can.......I can lick my nuts too....I'm such a Dog!

O.K...I can't do that, but I am thinking you should both celebrate the collar and I'll continue to work on the stretching exercise's.

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RE: A question on collars for other slaves like me - 8/15/2005 7:26:30 PM   
synrgy33


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Status: offline 		LOLOL Fastlane!


I would say CELEBRATE.. but that depends on how romantic you and your Sir are *s*...

My Sir and I have been talking about a collaring ceremony and we keep joking we're going to do vows to Green Eggs and ham, changing the words to fit us.. LOL.. If anyone knows us and th at will be in attendance will crack up! I am sure and know that it's SOOO JUST RIGHT!!!! (Even though it sounds just so WRONG!)

stephanie~SD~

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RE: A question on collars for other slaves like me - 8/15/2005 7:27:08 PM   
Hallittlelolita


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Status: offline 		Thank you all for the replies we appreciate it alot. Fastlane you are funny, I gotta hand it to you. Thanx everyone and yes I am excited and I am also clicking my heels to LOL.

Sincerely,
Andie and Master Hal

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RE: A question on collars for other slaves like me - 8/16/2005 3:26:24 AM   
NakedOnMyChain


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Status: offline 		That's completely up to you. If you feel like celebrating, there are some really great sites out there to get ideas for a ceremony/celebration.

http://www.frugaldomme.com/frugal.htm (go to website, click on ceremonies on top left)

This is probably one of the best sights to glean just about any kind of information on ceremonies from.

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RE: A question on collars for other slaves like me - 8/16/2005 4:51:25 AM   
perfection20005


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Status: offline 		Congradulations on your collar. I'm so happy for you. I agree with everyone else that its a matter of personal choice whether you want to have a ceremony.

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RE: A question on collars for other slaves like me - 8/16/2005 6:03:04 AM   
plantlady64


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Status: offline 		Hello There,
When my Master collared me we did it in private. I got on my knees in front of him and told him why I wanted Him to collar me, what it meant to me, and what I thought it stood for. I also promised to be his devoted one. He told me what the collaring meant to Him, what I meant to Him and how he planned on taking care of me. Then he permitted me to get up off my knees and we played all night.

My collar is only a training collar. On my one year anniversary as a sub we intend on having a collaring ceremony in a dungeon in Texas. We will have a formal party and I am being branded with a quarter sized BDSM symbol on my butt.

Like everyone else has said, pretty much it's what the two of you decide is an appropriate way to celebrate your union.
Sincerely,
sub suzanne

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RE: A question on collars for other slaves like me - 8/16/2005 6:46:11 AM   
ChereeAmoor


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Status: offline 		Since you have been waiting for it for 4 years, I think a ceremony of some sort is DEFINITELY called for! Happy for you both! *warm smile* Congratulations!

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RE: A question on collars for other slaves like me - 8/16/2005 1:48:45 PM   
doubleLeo


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Status: offline 		yes Yes YES!
This is a very important event like any union. We have rituals for just about ANYthing signifigant in our lives- not without reason. Ritual is not only instinctually satisfying, it is a "public" recognition to all those around you as well that this is meaningful to you both. If we dont live out loud, then I dont know what :-)

dL

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RE: A question on collars for other slaves like me - 8/16/2005 2:30:29 PM   
EmeraldSlave2


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quote:

ORIGINAL: doubleLeo

yes Yes YES!
This is a very important event like any union. We have rituals for just about ANYthing signifigant in our lives- not without reason. Ritual is not only instinctually satisfying, it is a "public" recognition to all those around you as well that this is meaningful to you both. If we dont live out loud, then I dont know what :-)

dL


Actually I'm not big into rituals. The boyfriend and I have discussed that if we ever do decide marriage is good for us then it would be a quiet civil ceremony with a JOP as neither of us are religious.

I love parties and I understand the significance and power of rituals, but too many brides think "the wedding" is more important than "the marriage."

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RE: A question on collars for other slaves like me - 8/16/2005 2:31:27 PM   
nonuts4thshoney


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Status: offline 		Do people have ceremonies for training collars? Master and i were at the local hardware store measureing the chain around my neck..LOL! Then She slapped in on me in the car before leaving the parking lot. i was all smiles the whole way home. i think it would be nice to have a ceremony of some sort with a permanent/formal collaring. Just something that creates a lasting memory.

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RE: A question on collars for other slaves like me - 8/16/2005 3:47:12 PM   
sweetpettjenny


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Status: offline 		Its all personal preference. ive been to both formal collarings for friends and a private one for me

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RE: A question on collars for other slaves like me - 8/17/2005 12:57:22 PM   
littleone35


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Status: offline 		Congrats on your collar. I am very happy for both of you Best wishes (((((((HUGS)))))

littleone

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RE: A question on collars for other slaves like me - 8/17/2005 3:58:10 PM   
shaohua


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Status: offline 		when my Master ordered both of my collars (first one was non-locking, the other locks) there wasn't any ceremony..for the first one he lipped it around my neck, buckled it, kissed said he loved me, and went off to work.

For the locking collar when it came in the mail, he simply woke me up, slipped and locked it around my neck and said it was time to get up.

Would i have liked an actually collaring ceremony? Yes..but hey i like ritual and formailty..do i neccisarily need one? no.

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RE: A question on collars for other slaves like me - 8/27/2005 4:41:07 PM   
Dracironsgirl


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Status: offline 		hi my Master has 7 steps to collaring that i must pass before receiving my collar ...then W/we will have a small collaring cerimony.
~kristin

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RE: A question on collars for other slaves like me - 8/27/2005 11:07:45 PM   
lonewolf05


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Status: offline 		ok. i am accused of being a dickhead, because i am not part of the norm, because i refuse to conform,....

but this mistress and my 1st, i was just handed my dog chain collar, i put it on and locked the padlock.....no ceremony..no body making a big deal out of anything,,,,,,no body saying i love you,,,,,,,,,,,NOTHING.

wolfie

so if this makes me mean and evil........so be it.


< Message edited by lonewolf05 -- 8/27/2005 11:08:31 PM >

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