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RE: Once a sub? - 12/10/2007 2:11:22 PM

Grlwithboy

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If D/s were a kinsey scale I'd be about a 2 or a 4 depending on which side you put the D and the s on. I'm a fairly never say never person. I've thought that I could only put my butt in the air for another woman, and that's true most of the time IF I'm going to bother - but not ALL of the time - there's one guy I'm completely comfortable with lately in that capacity and it doesn't hurt that he feels the same way about being putty in my hands, rather allows that mutual trust to flourish. No other men have elicited that in me, and I doubt they would. He's not my primary partner either - I think I'm much better off being married to someone I'd never really switch power wise with and he would not want to with me.

There are no absolutes. But I identify as a Domme because honestly, if I never ever had the opportunity or outlet to bottom or submit again as long as I live I'd be OK with that. They're interesting trips through fields of daisies on the side roads of life, not a must-have, whereas D/Sado/Top stuff is a non-negotiable need.

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RE: Once a sub? - 12/10/2007 2:26:15 PM

KindLadyGrey

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I'm a switch. A real, honest to god, switch.

I drop into subspace like a brick for the right Dom/me, and I love it. Of course, it is very rare to find the person who can do that to me, so I really value it when it happens. There is something very relaxing and erotic about giving up control to someone else and letting them take care of everything. I end up feeling so cherished and cared for.

I also love being adored and served by a sweet sub. It's nice for once to just be able to boss someone around and know they don't mind, and even like it because they want to serve me. It's very relaxing and erotic controlling another person completely. I end up feeling so cherished and cared for.

So really, the end is the same for me, regardless of which side I am on.

Sometimes my preference is very much influenced by my mood. Lately, pompous penises in my life are really getting on my nerves, so I've been especially adoring my sweet submissive boys because I can simply beat them if they start acting like stereotypical stupid guys, and they will apologize and adore me for it. It doesn't get much better than that, does it?

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