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kaytm -> Daddy's Girl or Boy? (12/8/2007 10:08:49 AM)
How many of us refer to our Dominants as Daddy??? How did you first come to this, your idea or theirs? Do you find yourself explaing alot why you refer to them as Daddy? What do you say if you do explain your self?

breatheasone -> RE: Daddy's Girl or Boy? (12/8/2007 10:24:50 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: kaytm How many of us refer to our Dominants as Daddy??? I call Him Daddy and Master How did you first come to this, your idea or theirs? My idea. Do you find yourself explaing alot why you refer to them as Daddy? No I haven't had to explain myself to anyone as of yet. What do you say if you do explain your self? I would say its a term of endearment...which it is to a degree.

sambamanslilgirl -> RE: Daddy's Girl or Boy? (12/8/2007 11:23:41 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: kaytm How many of us refer to our Dominants as Daddy??? i do quote: How did you first come to this, your idea or theirs? it was a mutual decision between Daddy and i after discussing my childhood. quote: Do you find yourself explaing alot why you refer to them as Daddy? no i don't ...there's nothing to explain why i refer a grown man older than me as Daddy. He enjoys the title and takes the role very seriously.

juliaoceania -> RE: Daddy's Girl or Boy? (12/8/2007 2:11:45 PM)
I call him Daddy Every submissive he becomes involved with calls him this I knew when we became involved I would call him Daddy And I tell people it is our term of endearment... believe it or not it is not that uncommon

chellekitty -> RE: Daddy's Girl or Boy? (12/8/2007 2:13:56 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: kaytm How many of us refer to our Dominants as Daddy??? i do quote: How did you first come to this, your idea or theirs? both....i have come to realize that i can only be in relationships with self identified Daddies...i can't help them find their inner Daddy, anymore than i can help them become kinky or find their inner Master...i am not willing to start from scratch... quote: Do you find yourself explaing alot why you refer to them as Daddy? now that i have "Daddy" tattooed on my arm....yes...i do... quote: What do you say if you do explain your self? i explain it the same way i explain why i like hetro power exchange relationships...you know how back in the 50's the gender roles were defined, and a man had his place and a woman had hers...well, many wives called their husbands Daddy back then, including my grandmother...i like to live my life that way because i was born in the wrong era...and i was...so it is the truth...lol chelle

missturbation -> RE: Daddy's Girl or Boy? (12/8/2007 3:12:10 PM)
quote: How many of us refer to our Dominants as Daddy??? Nope and i don't believe i ever could. Probably as close to a hard limit as i get. * nothing to do with this thread buttttttttttt oooooooooooo have u got a new pic coming chelle?

rubberpet -> RE: Daddy's Girl or Boy? (12/8/2007 5:40:43 PM)
I never got into the dynamics behind the "Daddy" thing (or Mommy thing, for that matter). I refer to my domme as "Mistress". To us, "Mistress" invokes female power and it's under that power that I hunger to be. While I understand the "Daddy/Mommy" is supposed to be like a protective and authoritative figure, it just isn't for me. It just gives me connotations to either incest or being a helpless young 'un that needs constant guidance or protection. If some people prefer that dynamic, more power to them. It just isn't for me. I need a strong woman who has the power and strength to rule over me...in return for Her power, I provide the protection for Her. It's like a knight serving his queen or having a 200 pound Rotweiller for a guard dog. Before people start flaming me or slinging hate mail my way because of the incest comment, I know it has nothing to do with incest or anything immoral/indecent. It's just my opinion and expect no one else to understand it. It's the only way I know how to properly explain it from my point of view.

adoracat -> RE: Daddy's Girl or Boy? (12/8/2007 6:55:47 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: rubberpet Before people start flaming me or slinging hate mail my way because of the incest comment, I know it has nothing to do with incest or anything immoral/indecent. It's just my opinion and expect no one else to understand it. It's the only way I know how to properly explain it from my point of view. nods my dominant is my Daddy. he isnt my father in my mind. as i was abused/molested by my father, that wouldnt be something i could really handle in my mind... but Daddy is my protector, my confidant, the one who guides and loves me, the one who lovingly disciplines me when i need it, and provides a safe haven for me when things are bad. he's my King, my darling Vampire, my Master, my Owner, my Daddy. he fulfills all those roles to me, and i compliment him in my submission to him. our roles are unequal by design...but made equal by our need for one another. i'm not upset by your viewpoint, not at all. :) kitten, who knows that Truth is what one saw, what another sees, and what actually happened....

rubberpet -> RE: Daddy's Girl or Boy? (12/8/2007 6:59:50 PM)
I'm glad you weren't upset with my viewpoint. Like I said earlier, I understand the protector side of the equation. Some really like that dynamic...one can be who they are meant to be and you will be protected for it. It;s great that you have the special of a relationship. Congrats! [:D]

adoracat -> RE: Daddy's Girl or Boy? (12/8/2007 7:02:22 PM)
thank you! i'm glad your relationship with your Mistress is what you need also. [:)] kitten

slaveluci -> RE: Daddy's Girl or Boy? (12/8/2007 7:19:24 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: kaytm How many of us refer to our Dominants as Daddy??? I call Him that directly at certain times but don't refer to Him as such here on the forums or to others. I would say about 80% of the time, I refer to Him as "Master," but during very intimate times it's often "Daddy." quote: How did you first come to this, your idea or theirs? 100% my idea at first. But He was into it and adapted very quickly. He calls me many things including "baby" and "baby girl." Actually, He probably calls me those names quite a bit more often than I use "Daddy." I think I would actually prefer to call Him "Daddy" on a more regular basis but He doesn't seem to want that all the time. It almost has to be a certain, very intimate mindset for Him to want to hear that particular term of endearment. quote: Do you find yourself explaing alot why you refer to them as Daddy? What do you say if you do explain your self? I don't explain anything to anyone as far as what I call Him because I don't call Him "Master" or "Daddy" to those close to us. I try to just use "He" or "Him" as much as possible.............luci

arayofsunshine55 -> RE: Daddy's Girl or Boy? (12/8/2007 8:26:04 PM)
He's Daddy. works for us. My last girlfriend was daddy as well when the sex was really, really good. With Daddy, we tried other things but this one in the end is the one which stuck for us, most comfortable for us. Every gal who gets in close to him calls him Daddy. Now it also makes me wet for all of the reasons which scare people off here. I like playing with that shit between two unrelated adults. but for us it doesn't include age play. It's just warm and fuzzy.

LuckyAlbatross -> RE: Daddy's Girl or Boy? (12/8/2007 9:04:15 PM)
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salilus -> RE: Daddy's Girl or Boy? (12/9/2007 6:28:00 AM)
It was no one's idea - it was the energy he has. He is a Daddy. There are no two ways about it. I find that I have to explain it more in public than I do online.

cindyxdresser -> RE: Daddy's Girl or Boy? (1/5/2008 9:10:08 PM)
I asked him what i should call him

PrizedPosession -> RE: Daddy's Girl or Boy? (1/5/2008 9:26:47 PM)
like slaveluci i call Him Daddy in intimate times and Master most of the time. Calling Him Daddy started as an exploration and it is how He got me interested in BDSM in the first place. But i called Him that on my own accord after He made sure i had no problem with it. i've never had explain it because no one pays attention to me lol. But He is a very protective and caring Master which is why i call Him Daddy alot. it really depends on the situation because Master likes variety so i call Him different things to different situations. -bobcat

girlygurl -> RE: Daddy's Girl or Boy? (1/5/2008 9:32:05 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: kaytm How many of us refer to our Dominants as Daddy??? How did you first come to this, your idea or theirs? Do you find yourself explaing alot why you refer to them as Daddy? What do you say if you do explain your self? I do. I call Him Sir and on occasion Daddy. Hmmm... who's idea? No ones really, one of us started it and it stuck [:D]. I've never had to explain myself as to what I call my Sir. girly

willing2try1984 -> RE: Daddy's Girl or Boy? (1/6/2008 5:37:10 PM)
i call my dom daddy, because its what he is. hes a daddy dom and besides its sexy and he seems to like it

Daddysredhead -> RE: Daddy's Girl or Boy? (1/6/2008 5:54:45 PM)
I call my Master "Daddy"... hence my screen name. [:)] He is known to many gals as "Daddie" or "Big Daddie" so I think he started me calling him that. So many people I know understand that I refer to him as Big Daddy or even Daddy Bear, including folks I work with. One day I nearly choked on a lifesaver when the HR director came by my desk and asked if I was "going to lunch with Big Daddy." I guess he had heard me call him that at some point, but I didn't know it. I'm sure my face matched my hair. [:o] No one has ever asked why I call him Big Daddy, because at 6'2" and almost 300 pounds with the build of a linebacker... I think the answer is somewhat obvious. [:-] lol... ~ His redhead

juliaoceania -> RE: Daddy's Girl or Boy? (1/6/2008 7:43:35 PM)
quote: How many of us refer to our Dominants as Daddy??? I do quote: How did you first come to this, your idea or theirs? It was his, I was accustomed to "sir" or "master"... he told me what he would expect me to call him if we became involved, and I called him "Daddy" the first time we were intimate. quote: Do you find yourself explaing alot why you refer to them as Daddy? Not anymore, although it bothers my sister. quote: What do you say if you do explain your self? What I have found is that vanillas use this term a lot more than "sir" or "master" when addressing their SO, old people call their spouse "mom" or "dad"...look at the Reagans.. it really is not that uncommon. I have never had anyone even glance at me when I call him "Daddy" in public... it just isn't seen as weird I guess

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